Help! I need opinions please. I have two children from a previous marriage. They are 15 and 6. Since there was a large age gap between them, I did have a shower for my second. I am now remarried and expecting baby number 3. I wasn't planning on having a shower, but my sisters-in-law are insisting that they are throwing me one whether I want it or not because it's my husband's first baby. I appreciate that they want to do this, but now I'm really stressing out about it. I'm afraid that if I invite my family to a third shower I'll come across as tacky and greedy. However, if I don't invite them I'm afraid they'll feel excluded and possibly have hurt feelings. Truth be told though, I don't have anything left from my other children and I was planning on my husband and myself purchasing everything. Would it be in poor taste to have a shower for this baby?