May 2015 Moms

PGAL Check In 11/18

kate6214kate6214 member
edited November 2014 in May 2015 Moms
I haven't seen a PGAL check in in a while and I hope I'm not stepping on @momtosam 's toes by doing this. I just know my PGAL brain is fired up tonight and I think there are probably others in a similar position.

I'm lifting most of this from the last check-in...

This the weekly check-in for May 2015 moms who have previously experienced a miscarriage, stillbirth, or loss of a child at any age. If you are new, please feel free to jump right in.

To our ladies who experienced loss this week, know your LO will always be remembered. You each will be in our thoughts and prayers! Many hugs!

Pregnancy Loss Background (if first time joining us) :

EDD:

Gestation in Weeks/Fruit:

How are you feeling emotionally? Physically?

Any updates from last weeks check-in :

Upcoming Appointments/Milestones

GTKY: What are your feelings about snow?

Editing to tag anyone who replied to the last thread.

@momtosam

@scubakate

@Courtney1741

@maggiet19

@Halepop

@robotpcr

@tinalovescauliflower

@ramy3

@2015mamatobe

@Gatorsgirl731

@kj808

@mlbrooks619

@norsern

@branders74

@Poppy715

@lladymack

@MichieU79

@pintobean39

@CTri17

@vballgirl78

@littlecookie

@chaitealover

@sunshinedaisies000

@playboymommy

@alexandriapr


BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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Re: PGAL Check In 11/18

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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    edited November 2014
    @mermomo5‌ Sorry about the elevated risk. That has to be very nerve wracking. Hold onto those good panorama results. T&P's the baby's heart is ok. Edited for bad grammar

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • @mermomo5‌ FX everything turns out ok with baby's heart! I know it's easier said than done but just try to take it easy! Will be thinking about you-keep us updated!!
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  • edited November 2014
    kate6214 good luck with your appointment. I was really nervous for mine the closer I got (it was on Monday). Thinking lots of good thoughts!

    maggiet19 yay for starting to maybe feel movements. I think that is the only thing making me feel ok about not getting a doppler, is knowing that soon I should be feeling some movement. That will be so comforting.

    @HalePop good luck with your appointment tomorrow!

    kate6214 yay for hearing the heartbeat!

    lladymack hugs and thinking lots of good thoughts.I know what you mean about struggling to be attached. It is tough.

    Lalalady54 so sorry for the loss of your FIL! =(

    mlbrooks619 I'm so not ready to announce, especially on facebook. It may never happen!

    Pintobean39 nice that things get better when you are pregnant.

    Still catching up!

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  • @jah32007 Just so you know there is an infertility check in. The most recent one is here https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12484027/infertility-grad-check-in-11-16

    @HalePop it's so crazy that we complain about feeling good. Good luck with your appointment tomorrow. I haven't gotten a Doppler for the same reason.

    @maggiet19 I hope you can get over your cold soon. Sickness and pregnancy just don't mix well. Feeling the baby move must be so exciting!

    @DreamChaser246 Hearing the heartbeat must have been so relieving. Go public when you are ready. There is no timeline.

    @LimaD I think people have a hard time understanding loss that haven't been through it themselves. This baby does not replace the ones I lost. Congrats on feeling movement. Such a big step!

    @momtosam I really hope it was ok to post when I saw that it had been a while since you logged on. I'm so sorry with everything you are dealing with. As an early childhood teacher I've seen the hoops that parents have to jump through to get their children tested. You are your child's best advocate. Early intervention services are wonderful. I'm surprised that it is taking that long just to get him evaluated. I know here they can do an initial screening fairly quickly. Anyway, I can't imagine going through all that while pregnant. I'm glad your baby is doing well. Sending you lots of T&Ps.

    @scubakate Milk is good. Especially as milkshakes! GL with your appointment this week.

    @AlexandriaPR sorry your pants aren't fitting. Sounds like it's time to take advantage of some holiday shopping deals. Congrats on going public.

    @CTri17 Sorry you are still feeling nauseous. Sending lots of ((hugs)) for you on Monday. EDD can be difficult. GL with your appointment next week.

    @chaitealover sorry you are feeling so miserable. My nausea did not let up until a few weeks ago. I'm glad your scan went so well!

    @ramy3 Sorry about the nausea, but yay for flutters and kicks!

    @kj808 Yay for flutters and baby bumps! I'm glad that the exercise is making you feel good. GL next week with your appointment.


    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • AimothyAimothy member
    edited November 2014

    Pregnancy Loss Background (if first time joining us) : I'm jumping in here. We got pregnant in April with our second fresh IVF cycle, but lost the baby/babies at 5w6d.  We had a frozen transfer in August that resulted in a positive test. Our first ultrasound showed twins.  We learned we lost Baby b at our NT scan.  The baby stopped growing at about 9 weeks. 

    EDD: May 16

    Gestation in Weeks/Fruit: 14

    How are you feeling emotionally? Physically? Physically, I'm great.  Nausea is almost gone.  Energy is coming back during the day.  Emotionally, I'm a wreck. I've decided this week that Baby A is also gone.  I'm not big enough yet, there's no way it's still growing, etc. All irrational, but we know that all rational thoughts go out the window after a loss.  I have another OB/doppler check on Monday, and I'm prepping myself to hear nothing and find out this pregnancy is over as well. 

    Any updates from last weeks check-in :

    Upcoming Appointments/Milestones: OB appointment on Monday

    GTKY: What are your feelings about snow? I Hate it. HATE.  And I live in Minnesota.  Land of 10 million snowstorms. 

    Siggy/Ticker Warning


    IVF #1: August 2012 Lupron Protocol | 8R 8M 8F |Transfer 2|BFN
    IVF #2: April 2014 Antagonist Protocol|12R 11M 10F|Transfer 2|BFP | m/c 5.8.14 
    FET#1: Transfer Day 8/29 | BFP | Beta 1: 302 Beta 2: 732
    U/S shows two beautiful heartbeats at 122!!
    Lost Baby B at 9 weeks 
    Baby A is our stubborn little fighter with a heartrate of 169!

    Team BLUE!

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  • Hugs to everyone who is struggling this week! I know this can be very stressful.

    EDD: May 9

    Gestation in weeks: 15 weeks, 4 days

    How are you feeling? Physically I'm still nauseous and tired. I'm peeing constantly- today I had to go every 15 minutes. I went to get checked for a UTI but the preliminary results said no. Oh well. Emotionally I'm OK... Good days and bad days.

    Updates: when I went to get checked for a UTI I asked to check the heartbeat too and it was 146. So relieved.

    Upcoming appts: Dec 5

    GTKY: I HATE snow! DH and I want to move south to get away from winter. In Wisconsin we get a ton and right now its crazy cold already (feels like January weather). I do like how pretty it is when I can enjoy it from inside but I hate being out in it.

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    BFP #2: 7/24/13, MC: 8/28/13 @8weeks, 3days

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  • @Lalalady54‌ I'm sorry about your FIL. Thinking of you and your family.
    @momtosam‌ big hugs as you try and navigate everything to get your don what he needs. I hope you're able to see some progress soon.
    @CTri17‌ will be thinking of you on Monday.
    @Aimothy‌ welcome to the check in. T&p's your appointment goes well on Monday. I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling nervous right now. Sending you big creepy Internet hugs.
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  • kate6214 said:

    @goldengirl84 Sorry about the cold. I'm 29 for 14 more days! I've been so distracted by this pregnancy it kind of slipped up on me. Do you have any fun birthday plans?

    Happy early birthday to you!! I'm December 1st, when is yours?? Yes, my best friends and DH are throwing a little party. I've been sick on my birthday for the past 3 years (darn this time of year - getting over a bad cold now) so I'm definitely due for a little celebration! ;) Do you have any birthday plans? I can't believe we have to say goodbye to our 20s. They sure were fun.

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    Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
    DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
    BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
    BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
    BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
    BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
  •  @momtosam, sorry you are having such a stressful week.  I hope you find answers soon.

    AlexandriaPR I read a Winnie the Pooh book out loud every evening to help connect with baby.  Also my mom read that it stimulates brain growth.

    scubakate I craved milk while pregnant with DS.  If I remember right I think I ended up drinking a gallon a day towards the end.  Of course that is when milk was alot cheaper too!

    EDD: May 18

    Gestation in Weeks/Fruit: 14 weeks 4 days/ Lemon

    How are you feeling emotionally? Physically?  Emotionally feeling pretty good this week.  Physcially I am feeling much better as well.  Nausea has gone away pretty much just still tired all the time.

    Any updates from last weeks check-in : No updates

    Upcoming Appointments/Milestones:  Next appointment is Monday.  We also will be scheduling our anatomy scan that day.

    GTKY: What are your feelings about snow?  I love snow!  I just hate driving in it.

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    #2 Natural M/C 03/2014
    #3 DS Beckett Jameson 05/14/2015
    #4 EDD 05/12/2017
  • EDD: 5/29

    Gestation in Weeks/Fruit: 13w tomorrow!

    How are you feeling emotionally? Physically? Still have on/ off nausea, but otherwise feeling better. Emotionally I've been crazy, the new bleeding, stopping my progesterone and now going 4 weeks between appointments is making me batty.

    Any updates from last weeks check-in : I missed the last check in as I was convinced I was having another MC.. I had a lot of bleeding, which ended up being a new SCH, yay Lovenox! We did the fetal DNA testing which came back clear, but we didn't get to find out sex as my insurance didn't want to approve testing at all, oh well I 'll happily wait until Jan to find out :) I also had Group B Strep in my urine last time so now I get antibiotics at delivery.. This pregnancy is so drastically different then with my DD...

    Upcoming Appointments/Milestones: Next appt isn't until December 12, also patiently awaiting my doppler so I can check on the baby and let my DD hear the heartbeat.

    GTKY: What are your feelings about snow? Eh, it's pretty in pictures. It rarely snows in East Texas, and when it does it is more of an icy/snowy disaster... I also loathe the cold so that doesn't help the snow situation..

    Me: 28 DH: 32
    DD1: February 2011
    BFP # 1 8/2009  EDD 5/2014 MMC/ D&C 10/2009
    BFP # 3 12/2013 EDD 9/2014 CP 1/2014
    BFP # 4 4/2014 EDD 12/2014 MMC/ D&C 5/2014
    BFP # 5 9/2014 EDD 5/27/2015
  • Happy early birthday to you!! I'm December 1st, when is yours?? Yes, my best friends and DH are throwing a little party. I've been sick on my birthday for the past 3 years (darn this time of year - getting over a bad cold now) so I'm definitely due for a little celebration! ;) Do you have any birthday plans? I can't believe we have to say goodbye to our 20s. They sure were fun.


    Sick on your birthday is the worst. One year my whole family got the flu and forgot my birthday. Mine is the second! My December is just too busy for a party. I have a lot of church obligations and I'm in a choral group that has a concert in the middle of the month. My weekends are packed. I'm ok with keeping things quiet. I feel like between Thanksgiving and Christmas it just gets too busy. I usually take the day off work and set up all my Christmas decorations since I travel thanksgiving weekend, but having taken a bunch of days already for appointments I want to just get through the 3 weeks before Christmas and then enjoy my break.

    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • @aimothy I'm so sorry your anxiety is so high. I can't imagine how hard it would be to have lost a twin. Fx you hear a nice strong heartbeat on Monday

    @vballgirl78 I'm glad you got a heartbeat check when you went in for the UTI. I would think all that peeing would be super annoying.

    @branders74 I'm glad you are feeling better. GL with your appointment on Monday

    @jacks2008 Sorry about all the bleeding. I know the four weeks is a long time, is there a project you can start on to keep you busy? Are you crafty? Or maybe find a pregnancy or birth book to read. Something to keep you busy?


    BFP #1: 8/17/13     Due Date: 4/26/14      MMC discovered @ 9w 4d       D&C: 10/2/13
    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
    BFP #3 8/26/14     Due Date: 5/7/15  

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  • @branders74 yeah my DH is getting annoyed at always buying milk... it's adding up!

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  • kate6214 said:
    @aimothy I'm so sorry your anxiety is so high. I can't imagine how hard it would be to have lost a twin. Fx you hear a nice strong heartbeat on Monday


    Baby gave us a little scare yesterday. I woke up to lots of bright red blood and instantly went into hysterics that it was all over.  An extra little peek calmed those worries because all is well with the baby. The bleeding is likely from the lost twin.  So while it added anxieties, it also calmed them.  I have a call into my therapist for a visit soon. :)
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    IVF #1: August 2012 Lupron Protocol | 8R 8M 8F |Transfer 2|BFN
    IVF #2: April 2014 Antagonist Protocol|12R 11M 10F|Transfer 2|BFP | m/c 5.8.14 
    FET#1: Transfer Day 8/29 | BFP | Beta 1: 302 Beta 2: 732
    U/S shows two beautiful heartbeats at 122!!
    Lost Baby B at 9 weeks 
    Baby A is our stubborn little fighter with a heartrate of 169!

    Team BLUE!

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  • stephanieseestephaniesee member
    edited November 2014
    Pregnancy Loss Background (if first time joining us) : first time. 4 losses in 2 years, all believed to be chemical, last one was a doozy. We did a natural IVF cycle, knew the sex, nurse went crazy with excitement and ended up not sticking so we decided to officially take the summer off to enjoy being late 20's and voila

    EDD: 5/5/15

    Gestation in Weeks/Fruit: 16w3d / avocado


    How are you feeling emotionally? Physically?
    Emotionally I've made a complete 180. I was a disaster up until 14 weeks. We found out the sex Tuesday and it really cemented that this is happening and I'm allowed to be excited. Physically? Great, just tireddddd

    Any updates from last weeks check-in : never checked in (i admit I didn't know what PGAL was), but we did find out the sex which was sooooo funnn


    Upcoming Appointments/Milestones: telling our extended families we're expecting using holidays as an excuse ((EDIT))


    GTKY: What are your feelings about snow? NOOOOOOOOOO
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