I am feeling a little optimistic. or trying to anyway.. I think I may be O a little later and maybe that is why we aren't succeeding.. I am wondering how you calculate cycle length though if it never the same.. some months I am 28 day. last month I was 31. I'm looking back at my cycles and it looks as though I may start my window but not actually O til a little later than I thought based on cycle length..
Re: Cycle length question
Surprise BFP# 5 - 9/2/16 - Due 5/13/17
Me 36 DH 39
BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC 12/29/14
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I see that you actually have been responding to others' posts and offering more support. Keep it up. Unfortunately a lot of people use us as a substitute for Google, which starts to wear.
Just breathe, and hang in there.
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
Surprise BFP# 5 - 9/2/16 - Due 5/13/17
I see what you're saying, and agree that the first thing anyone TTC needs to do is verify that the timing is right.
I'm still really glad that I personally started laying the groundwork for RE referral immediately, even though I had no symptoms and there was no reason to assume anything was wrong with me, either (DD was a breeze to conceive, and I honestly thought this one would be, too). I was temping from the beginning, but I learned about my highish FSH early in the process, which gave both me and the doctor some direction.
It turns out that there is something wrong with me (spoiler alert: age), and even though I got started with an RE as soon as humanly possible, you can see from my signature that it's not going so well.
While I can't agree more that a person needs to get the fundamentals down first, I just think more knowledge (e.g. getting CD 3 bloodwork to get an idea of reserve early) is better than less.
ETA, I don't think I was very clear, but I'm glad I started the RE referral process early because I got kind of a running start when I did see her. She knew before our first meeting, for example, that we needed to get permission from my insurance company to bypass the requirement for a few clomid cycles before moving on to injects. It really did save me a few months. I know that most people on this board aren't quite as old as I am, so time might not be quite so much of the essence. Then again, depending on hormones, it could be...
Me: 41, DH: 45
DD, 6/15/2013
TTC #2 beginning January 2014
AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11
July 2014: IUI #1. Follistim + Pregnyl. 2 follicles--BFN
September 2014: IUI #2. Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone. 4(?) follicles--BFN
October 2014: IUI #3. More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone. 4 follicles--BFP! Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158. M/C 11/1/14
December 2014: IVF #1. Microdose Lupron protocol. 9R, 9M, 9F. 3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
August 2015: IVF #3. 14R, 13M, 11F. Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing. 3 normals. FET planned for 10/2015.
My Ovulation Chart
Married August 2012. Me: 41 DH: 42
Daughter from previous marriage: 20
BFP 12/19/12: Ectopic discovered at 8 weeks, right tube removed 01/18/13
June 2013 Testing Results: Progesterone: 31.7, LH: 5, FSH: 5, Estradiol: 161
Clomid cycles Nov. 2013 and Jan, Feb, and March 2014
TTC journey over as of the end of October 2014
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All ALers welcome!
Seriously @gscoville you rock!
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
Surprise BFP# 5 - 9/2/16 - Due 5/13/17
I signed up for fertility friend (I got the same advice you're getting) last week and started temping. The BBT cost me 10 bucks at CVS. FF actually has been sending me lessons to learn how things work in my email and it's helped tremendously.
Yes, I had to take the time to read them but if you REALLY want to know what's going on, you will take the time.
The ladies on this board are awesome and full of knowledge but you have to take some initiative to learn on your own.
It's intimidating at first but it gets easier. Good luck!
I think you can do basic stuff with the free version but I haven't gotten to that point yet. Maybe someone else can chime on on that one!