Was talking about car seats, now about pie

nanabanana06

AggieMom0809 said:

nanabanana06 said:

Ok, I'm going to have put on my mod hat now. Everyone, stop feeding the troll. Don't you see she only posts in posts where she'll get the most amount of drama. It's like she purposefully posts the most inflammatory responses, no matter how absurdly flawed the logic is, in order to get us to sharpen our pitchforks and light our torches. Please stop before it escalates and I have to warn someone on here. Nobody has crossed a line yet, but I'd rather not get to that line in the first place. This is the epitome of trolling.

I find it a problem that I am being called a troll by the mod. I post in many threads on a few boards. Some on controversial some are not. I post what I believe. I post what I practice. There is nothing wrong with having a differing opinion that doesn't go along with everyone else.

If you posted more than just responses to get people pissed off, I'd believe you. However, you don't. By definition, that is trolling. If you contributed to the community more than just stating your flawed logic and reasoning and offered some actual advice/support/information. Not just stuff in Aggie world. I'd believe you, you don't. I'm not going to call you names or get all hot and bothered, but by definition it's trolling. This board is a group of nice thoughtful women and we di respect each others' opinions, I know we all have vastly differing lifestyles here. I'd like to keep the chaos down, so please, just calm down on the "I'm right, your wrong. I'm big, your little, and there is nothing you can do about it" crap. Stop starting fights, even if you disagree.

AggieMom0809

nanabanana06 said:

AggieMom0809 said:

nanabanana06 said:

Ok, I'm going to have put on my mod hat now. Everyone, stop feeding the troll. Don't you see she only posts in posts where she'll get the most amount of drama. It's like she purposefully posts the most inflammatory responses, no matter how absurdly flawed the logic is, in order to get us to sharpen our pitchforks and light our torches. Please stop before it escalates and I have to warn someone on here. Nobody has crossed a line yet, but I'd rather not get to that line in the first place. This is the epitome of trolling.

I find it a problem that I am being called a troll by the mod. I post in many threads on a few boards. Some on controversial some are not. I post what I believe. I post what I practice. There is nothing wrong with having a differing opinion that doesn't go along with everyone else.

If you posted more than just responses to get people pissed off, I'd believe you. However, you don't. By definition, that is trolling. If you contributed to the community more than just stating your flawed logic and reasoning and offered some actual advice/support/information. Not just stuff in Aggie world. I'd believe you, you don't. I'm not going to call you names or get all hot and bothered, but by definition it's trolling. This board is a group of nice thoughtful women and we di respect each others' opinions, I know we all have vastly differing lifestyles here. I'd like to keep the chaos down, so please, just calm down on the "I'm right, your wrong. I'm big, your little, and there is nothing you can do about it" crap. Stop starting fights, even if you disagree.

I  have commented on many other posts that have not exploded. I comment on an almost daily basis on at least one of the boards. I'm sorry you don't remember any of the ones I've commented on. Do you not read the ones that people aren't riled up about? Also, if you do respect others opinions I missed it. Anytime my opinion has not agreed with the majority, I get "jumped" by those that have a strong opinion the other way. It's not starting a fight to express my honest opinion. If someone tries to go back and tell me I'm wrong, an idiot, ignorant, or any other the other names I've been called, I'm not going to just sit back and take it. That doesn't make it me starting a fight. It's defending myself and my views. It is very rare that I have put anyone in any of the groups down (less than a handful of times). Every time it was after being called derogatory names, told in nasty ways that I should just go away, that they feel sorry for my children, and even told I should go kill myself. My putting them down? Was only to repeat to them that I feel sorry for their children.

Into+the+Kitty

So seriously why are you even still here? If I walked into a room full people who clearly didn't want me there and were telling me to kill myself (lol what), I would leave quickly and happily and find someplace I'm better suited to. Clearly you're getting something out of trying to start your drama, or like any normal self preserving person with any shred dignity, you would do the same.

freezorburn

@AggieMom0809 It's not that you have a different opinion. It's in the way you express it. You come across as uninformed, and judgmental of people who don't share your views. That's why people react so strongly to your posts. Maybe just try to soften your wording a bit. There are ways to disagree without being disrespectful.

We had an interesting discussion on this board last week about the potential social and political messages that are conveyed in children's TV program. It's a subject that could very have easily gotten ugly, but instead a number of views were expressed without things getting antagonistic. That's the kind of community this is. But you have to take responsibility for how you word your posts, because that's where it starts. 

AggieMom0809

freezorburn said:

@AggieMom0809 It's not that you have a different opinion. It's in the way you express it. You come across as uninformed, and judgmental of people who don't share your views. That's why people react so strongly to your posts. Maybe just try to soften your wording a bit. There are ways to disagree without being disrespectful.

We had an interesting discussion on this board last week about the potential social and political messages that are conveyed in children's TV program. It's a subject that could very have easily gotten ugly, but instead a number of views were expressed without things getting antagonistic. That's the kind of community this is. But you have to take responsibility for how you word your posts, because that's where it starts. 

It not just the way I post, it's always about the content. When someone else expresses the same views I do in here, they are bashed too and even have been told they need to leave. It's a two way road. If you don't agree with my opinion, then it's your choice to respond to my post or just let it go.

Into+the+Kitty

Does it hurt being up there on that cross?

AggieMom0809

Into+the+Kitty said:

So seriously why are you even still here? If I walked into a room full people who clearly didn't want me there and were telling me to kill myself (lol what), I would leave quickly and happily and find someplace I'm better suited to. Clearly you're getting something out of trying to start your drama, or like any normal self preserving person with any shred dignity, you would do the same.

So you're saying I should cower to what others believe and just ignore my beliefs? It's not for the drama. Trust me, things would escalate a lot faster and I wouldn't be so nice if it was for the kicks of starting drama. It is a need to express my opinion on an opinion forum that talks about things that pertain to me, my life, and my children's future.

This car seat discussion is important to me because I don't want another law being passed to say another thing I can or cannot do with my child. I agreed that all children should be restrained in the car. If nothing else, it's less distracting to the driver. I do not agree that all children should have to be rear facing to any particular age, height, or weight. 

unaveragejane

For the record, it is Texas law that children under the age of 8 use a safety seat system.
https://www.txdps.state.tx.us/director_staff/public_information/childPassSafetyFAQs.pdf

Kelly11235

"Can't we all just get along?"

Everyone just take a step back.  Take a deep breath.

People in this forum have strongly held opinions.

We don't always all have to agree, heck we don't all have to get along either, but it's sure a lot nicer when we do.

It takes two to tango.  But only one to back out of the fight.

Sometimes (most of the time) it's not worth arguing about.

AggieMom has her reasons for what she believes.  It may not be what the rest of us believe, but she has her reasons.

Let her live her life the way she wants, and AggieMom, let everyone else live their lives the way *they* want.  You aren't going to convince each other that you're right.

Stop with the personal attacks, and turn the other cheek when someone attacks you.

It's just not worth the stress.

nanabanana06

There is zero point to argue on this matter. More and more SCIENCE comes out on the subject,  the laws will change. In the span my daughter has been alive it went from 1 year and 20lbs being the recommendation and the law, to 2 years being the recommendation. Now it's proper use laws, and Dorel has already said they are changing their seats to have a minimum 2 year age limit to FF and the recommendation is to RF as long as possible. Science proves this, period. That isn't a discussion, it's fact. More and more people and companies are getting stricter, more Sweden-esque car seat laws. This is a good thing! It's meant to keep our children safe, since apparently there are many people who'd rather fight kicking and screaming on the subject of car seat safety.

You might have a differing opinion, but that doesn't mean your opinion is right. It's an opinion, not a fact. Many of us are very passionate about this subject, as we've done lots of research and in some cases have gone out and studied it to make a career out of it. Those of use who have this passion are just trying to make sure all children are as safe as possible. Compressing puffy coats and FF early isn't safe AT ALL. You just have to accept that fact and move on.

zaraceligon

Back to the main topic, I like putting on my kid neck and chess warmers, I love wool and those warmers are perfect for little one. They are kind of expensive but they are wonderful. You can also make them,from a wool sweater or you can knit them.

Mandmeesh

I will give the first person who admits to agreeing with AM on any subject matter 50 bucks

zaraceligon

This time I will not agree with any one, because we are all a parents and as a parent we all try to do the best thing the we think is safe for our kids.

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Mandmeesh

Llol

Into+the+Kitty

I think people are just jealous of the devastating beauty in this thread.

Mandmeesh

Mandmeesh said:

I will give the first person who admits to agreeing with AM on any subject matter 50 bucks

This was poorly worded. Boo to me, the English major. Lol

AggieMom0809

unaveragejane said:

For the record, it is Texas law that children under the age of 8 use a safety seat system.
https://www.txdps.state.tx.us/director_staff/public_information/childPassSafetyFAQs.pdf

Yes it is, but aside from a seat, the actual law is very vague. My kids are both in booster seat and will be until they day the turn 8. (crossing my fingers they don't try to up the age again.) By 8 years old, I was taller than many adults who are able to drive unassisted in the front seat.

AggieMom0809

stringy813 said:

AggieMom0809 said:

Into+the+Kitty said:

So seriously why are you even still here? If I walked into a room full people who clearly didn't want me there and were telling me to kill myself (lol what), I would leave quickly and happily and find someplace I'm better suited to. Clearly you're getting something out of trying to start your drama, or like any normal self preserving person with any shred dignity, you would do the same.

So you're saying I should cower to what others believe and just ignore my beliefs? It's not for the drama. Trust me, things would escalate a lot faster and I wouldn't be so nice if it was for the kicks of starting drama. It is a need to express my opinion on an opinion forum that talks about things that pertain to me, my life, and my children's future.

This car seat discussion is important to me because I don't want another law being passed to say another thing I can or cannot do with my child. I agreed that all children should be restrained in the car. If nothing else, it's less distracting to the driver. I do not agree that all children should have to be rear facing to any particular age, height, or weight. 

So, as long as they are restrained in some way its okay? If you use duct tape? A belt? There are reasons that these laws are passed, to keep kids safe.  There ARE people out there who would do the minimum required of them, and frankly sometimes that puts their kids in danger.  I can see the whole "keep the gov't out of my life" for some topics, but when it comes to saving kids lives, I'm happy there are people out there researching, testing,and inventing seats that make our kids as safe as they are while traveling. Because I sure don't have time for it.

Kind of like I'm glad cars have airbags now. I'm not going to revolt being forced to have an airbag cuz I don't want it. They save lives.

Did you not just hear about another major recall on airbags because they killed more people? They shot metal shrapnel into the victims. People become to reliant that all the new "safety" features are going to save them if something happens and don't pay attention as well as they should be considering they are driving a deadly weapon. People will ignore laws no matter if they help protect people or not. Have you not seen tons of drivers still going around unbuckled? I do not think the government should keep "helping" by making new laws to restrict out freedom of choice more and more.  

nanabanana06

Yeah! Fuck being safe!

stoneycakes

stoneycakes

Rumshpringa is over.  I'm going to start shunning the next person who posts in this thread.  I can't handle the yellow flags, guys.  I can't.

stoneycakes

@Mapleme...

stoneycakes

Unless you want to turn this into a pie thread.  Cause then I'll love all the flags.

Into+the+Kitty

So guys, how bout them Duggars?

stoneycakes

Into+the+Kitty said:

So guys, how bout them Duggars?

Nope. I said pie.

nanabanana06

I love lamp.

stoneycakes

nanabanana06 said:

I love lamp pie.

FTFY

stoneycakes

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9rgh8MCpe8

nanabanana06

I do love pie.

stoneycakes

JEPES, we're going to need you to edit the title of this thread to reflect that we are now talking about pie. Mmmmkay?

nanabanana06

I took care of it. Mod power.

stoneycakes

Dear Nana,

Love, 

Stoney

Into+the+Kitty

LLOL I love you, nana.

nanabanana06

Awww shucks. :x

Speaking of pie. I think I'm going to make my own pumpkin pie from scratch this year. I've never made my own crust or pumpkin puree.

Into+the+Kitty

Pie crusts are easy IMO. Just remember not to handle it too much or you will lose the flaky goodness.

nanabanana06

Noted. I'm just lazy. So I just get frozen pie crusts.

stoneycakes

I make my pie crust in the food processor and it's ridiculously easy.  You put the flour and fat in the food pro and pulse it until it's somewhat combined.  Then you drizzle in your ice cold water until it gathers together and starts spinning around the bowl as a ball.  It helps to remember that it's the fat melting which makes the flakes, so you want to leave visible specks of butter/shortening/lard like the size of peas.  Also, make sure you pick up your crust and rotate it on the counter frequently as you're rolling it out.  Then it doesn't stick.  It's really not hard at all.

stoneycakes

stringy813 said:

I'm soooo glad this is no longer about car seats.

Kelly11235

Mmm pie.

Easy as....well...you know.