Pregnant after IF

I guess I over-did it

I had an icky day. After shopping all day yesterday, then cleaning and putting up the tree today. I felt all shaky and my heart was racing. I carried in the tubs of Christmas stuff from the garage I could NOT catch my breath. Eventually, I just had to sit down and chill. I still felt not right so I started worrying about my blood pressure...or my blood sugar.

I called my aunt and she basically tells me its all in my head because of all I've been through and I was stressing. Maybe I was stressed but it was not all in my head.

Then my husband tells me has to work all weekend which ruins plans we had with my family for Thanksgiving. So I had my first good pregnant cry! But I have planted myself on the couch with a big glass of water and I feel better now.

It just sucks because I'm only 5 weeks. You would think I could still do what I have always done. My little speck and all my hormones have other thoughts though. I just gotta listen to what my body says. I shall rest tomorrow and maybe get a home BP monitor for peace of mind.

PS...sorry for the dear diary post!


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  • I was also surprised how soon I noticed became short of breath during pregnancy. It's challenging to adapt, but try to listen to your body.
    Relaxing and drinking some water is a great start. No need to apologize for your post :) first tri was exhausting!
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  • kmc84kmc84 member
    edited November 2014
    Your body is changing so fast right now, even though you can't see it :) rest up, don't over exert yourself. Generally, you really do feel better in the second tri after the placenta is formed.
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  • I was surprised by it too! Me and dh would go for walks and after like 1 to 2 blocks, I'd have to stop to rest and catch my breathe! So definitely listen to your body and even though, you might not want to (I know I didn't) try to take it easy and stay hydrated!

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  • I started shortness of breath pretty quickly as well. I thought, why do I feel like this already, and what will I feel like later in pregnancy?! It's crazy how quickly your body changes when pregnant, and every person is different! Try not to do too much, especially early on...
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    My History:
    Lots of BFN's & failed IUI's w/clomid and/or femara
    Finally BFP with femara & t.i.- son born 6/17/2010
    Started TTC again around when DS was 3ish
    Lots of BFN's with femara & t.i & ovidrel
    Tubes clear, S.A came back low motility but high count
    About to switch to injectables w/femara, did one last cycle with just femara & an IUI with ovidrel- stupid motility was fantastic in the sample, but count was 700,000 AFTER wash! Had to sign a paper to even still do IUI- BFFP (big fat freaking positive) Go figure!

    1st Beta 13dpiui 54, 2nd beta 48 hours later 115, 3rd beta 48 hours later 310, 4th beta 72 hours later 1748.
  • I too had shortness of breath before I got my BFP...   I don't remember having that with DD... but every pregnancy is different!
    Me 35, DH 36
    TTC summer 2008
    Diagnose me. DOR, DH perfect
    IUI # 1 6/2010, BFN
    IUI # 2 8/2010, BFN
    IVF # 1 10/2010 Canceled poor response
    IVF 1.2 12/2010 BFP! mc 6 weeks 2 days
    Mental health break for 10 months
    IVF # 2 10/2011 BFN
    IVF # 3 5/2012 BFP! 10 eggs retrieved (best ever)
    7 fertilized transferred 3
    Beta #1 14dpo - 72, Beta #2 17dpo 145 Beta 3 20dpo 521
    First u/s June 15 saw HB 126 bpm missed m/c 7/5/12 10 weeks D&C 7/6/12
    IVF#4 ER 9/30 ET 10/3 Beta 10/16 BFFN. IVF #5 final with o/e. ER 1/21 only 1 retrieved, hoping my lonestar is the one. Beta #1 2/6/13 = 209.... please let this be it! Keep growing lonestar! Beta #2 2/8/13 - 586! , Beta #3 2/10/13 = 1898. First u/s perfect little heart beat at 116 bpm. Measure 6 weeks 1 day. EDD 10/14/13
    3/4/13 measuring right on track beautiful heartbeat 171 bpm, graduated from RE to OB... bittersweet.
    PAIF/SAIF always welcome! Its a girl! 

    Maggie Grace is here!  10/5/13... 8lbs 6 ounces of pure joy!

    TTC#2  No birth control since DD was born.  Getting ready to jump back in the saddle.  Weaning this month. RE
    appt scheduled 5/8.   Here we go again!

    IFV# 6.  10/27  6 retrieved 4 mature 3 fertilized.  2 made it to 3dt 10/30. 1"very pretty 8 cell" and 1 6 cell.  Beta
    11/13.   Please stick embies!!!!  We love you so much already! 11/12/14  POAS, BFP... beta tomorrow!
    11/13 beta #1  924!!!  2nd bet 11/15 1906, one more on 11/17 3rd & final beta 3430.  First u/s 12/5, 7w4d, 2 heartbeats,
    both measuring right on track....2nd u/s... all is well... both beans measuring right on track... released from RE... first
    appointment with MFM 1/5.  Looks like this is really happening!

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  • You'll probably find that this ebbs and flows over time. It definitely did for me in the first tri. But then the real fatigue hit and I didn't get up unless I had to until after sixteen weeks. And I still get winded much more quickly than I used to. Be careful! Trying to do what you used to do could result in faintness or falls.
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  • First trimester fatigue is no joke. And blood sugars can go wonky right away - learn to keep some healthy quick snacks with you at all times, like the dried fruit and nut bars that have been my savior.

    Hang in there! I actually found the first few weeks the hardest so far.
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    Off birth control March 2012 - Actively trying Sept 2012-April 2014
    Unexplained Infertility
    BFP on May 5th after Follistim & IUI #3
    Ryan Henry - born 1/10/15, 7 lb 5 oz, 20 1/4 inches

    NTNP for a sibling starting March 2015
    Waiting on cycle to resume while EBF


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  • Definitely! That was one of the first things I noticed pretty early on. Ok most of the time but going up the stairs would wind me. Then it got better, and after 20-ish weeks it's back. And despite not being super big, I can't lay flat even for a little while without feeling short of breath. Don't feel bad...although I second @AMShark‌'s sentiment! No Christmas in my house until Black Friday! :-)
    Married 2007
    3 Clomid IUIs -- BFNs
    IVF #1 never made it to transfer
    On "egg health" cocktail DHEA/CoQ10/FRC/Pregnitude/Melatonin
    Starting IVF #2 for Feb 2013
    Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix
    Cancelled mid-cycle due to high P4 levels early on.
    OCPs again for IVF 2.5 mid-March. IVF 2.5 transferred two "gorgeous" 5-day blasts and BFFN. Even REI is baffled
    On indefinite hold until a huge stroke of serendipity led me to IVF 3 May 2014
    Testing found positive cardiolipins/APS, now on lovenox and intralipid infusions
    Transfer of 2 5-day blasts and (FINALLY) BFFP!! 1st ultrasound shows two sacs and two HB, but one is sluggish, almost expecting vanishing twin Subsequent ultrasound confirmed vanishing twin, but my other Little critter looks fantastic!
    "You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it."
    -- Margaret Thatcher


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  • Thank you ladies for your words. You make me feel like I'm not just being a big baby.

    And I usually don't put up the tree this early but its been cold and snowy. They mood struck me so I did it!
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  • Getting the Christmas tree up and decorations set out is a lot of work even when you're not pregnant!!! Take it easy, have some cocoa, and admire your handiwork!! 













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  • I feel like everyone is different, but just listen to your body.  You're baking a human, that's hard work!

    IVF #1 Oct 2013- cancelled 
    IVF #2 Mar 2014- success.... baby girl born 11/28/14
    FET #1 Mar 2016- baby boy due 12/16/16


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