*****Losses Mentioned*****BFP MENTIONED*****ALL WELCOME******ALL ABOARD!!
Me: 42, DH: 46, Married: 11/12
Losses: MMC#1 11/12 BO, MC#2 11/13 at 8w BO?, MMC#3 8/14 chromo healthy M
@12 weeks, stopped growing at 10.
Negligible AMH, FSH finally went high. Pursued DE.
DD born at 38w2d on 5-27-16. Finally!!
Pregnant again with OE. EDD 11/9/17 Girl!

Re: A very light question: coffee
I personally got down to 1 cup of tea a day (usually black, approximately 40-50 mg caffeine) while TTC and in early pregnancy. I had to increase it a bit at the end of the first tri because I was so tired I couldn't get any work done. I did a cup of homemade half caff per day. Not sure how many mg that was, but pretty sure it was less than 100 mg. Trying to wean myself back onto tea now.
***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage.
BFP #2 6/12/14, DD born 2/21/15
Began trying for a baby January 2012
BFP 4.25.2013 EDD 1.3.2014 MMC 6.3.2013 D&C 6.19.2013
BFP 11.3.2013 CP 11.6.2013
BFP 3.31.2014 EDD 12.10.2014 Baby boy Carlson born 12.19.2014
Me: 42, DH: 46, Married: 11/12
Losses: MMC#1 11/12 BO, MC#2 11/13 at 8w BO?, MMC#3 8/14 chromo healthy M @12 weeks, stopped growing at 10.
Negligible AMH, FSH finally went high. Pursued DE.
DD born at 38w2d on 5-27-16. Finally!!
Pregnant again with OE. EDD 11/9/17 Girl!
TTC since March 2012
BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13
BFP #3 8/11/14 EDD 4/22/14
I don't drink much coffee anyway, and avoided it entirely through most of this pregnancy except the occasional day where I was really dragging.
A few weeks ago, however, I went out with some girlfriends to lunch and they wanted to get ice cream afterward. I've got GD now so I couldn't have the ice cream, so I got a 12oz Illy coffee which was delicious and very strong!! After nothing for so long, I think my body overreacted and I had BH and cramping for hours after. It was so not worth it & I won't make that mistake again! I think I just overdid it going from nothing to 12 oz of supercharged coffee.
BFP #1 12/23/13 MMC 01/24/14 @ 9w5days