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Introduction of a Lurker

adagiomoadagiomo member
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Hello ladies!  I figured it was time for me to introduce myself as I have been lurking for a while now.  My husband and I had found out we were pregnant this past June, and we were super excited.  We went in for our first ultrasound expecting to see our baby's heartbeat for the first time, and instead we received the horrible news that we had a blighted ovum.  The exact words of my doctor were "There is no baby" - I believe this hurt me more than anything.  We had no previous signs, and this completely crushed both me and my husband.  I had a natural miscarriage a week later.

You ladies have helped me more than any of you know.  It was nice to read that I wasn't alone, and that other women knew what I was going through.  I also learned how wonderful charting is (even if it makes me crazy sometimes)! 

It took 10 weeks for me to finally get my CD1 after my loss.  My husband and I feel like we are in a place where we are ready to try again.  This is what has finally inspired me to introduce myself.

A little more about me, I love all water sports, I love baking and I am terrified of wasps!

Me:30 - DH:30 - Married 26.Apr.2008
Start TTC 14.May.2014
BFP:23.Jun.14 - ED:14.Mar.14 - MMC found 29.Jul.14 - NMC:8.Aug.14
CD1 AL:15.Oct.14

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4f355e

 

 

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  • welly01welly01 member
    Welcome, I'm so sorry for your loss.
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • thegiantfamthegiantfam member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, and welcome officially to the board. I hope you find comfort and support in this next part of your journey!
    ME: 27 DH: 31 Married in Ireland 12/28/13. Trying since November 2013. First BFP 04/30/2014, Natural MC 05/12/2014. 2nd BFP 07/11/2014, Natural MC 08/02/2014. Trying to find healing.
    Miscarriages are labor, miscarriages are birth. To consider them less dishonors the woman whose womb has held life, however briefly.
    Kathryn Miller Ridiman, Midwifery Today 1997

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  • TheAerialistTheAerialist member
    welcome welcome!! 
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  • mkfish31mkfish31 member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome!
    Married since Dec 2010. TTC since Feb of 2014. 

    **BFP#1 Feb 20th. EDD October 28th, 2014. MC March 20th (7.5 wks) D&C.

    **BFP #2 May 22nd. EDD Feb 8th, 2015.   MC  July 1st, 2014 (6.5 weeks) D&C

     Heard both babies heartbeats @6w3d, 122bpm and 100bpm. Will never forget that sound!

    **BFP #3 EDD 8/21/15  Please, please be our rainbow!!

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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member

    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • MenrandesMenrandes member
    Welcome to the board!  I am so sorry you had to find yourself here.  *hugs*
    We met in middle school. We got married 15 years later in a February blizzard of 2010. 
    TTC since February 2010
    Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
    BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
    BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I am sorry for your loss. I am glad you decided to intro, welcome and good luck! 
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • mrspippmrspipp member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you find you find yourself here. The ladies on this board are extremely supportive, and a great resource for all things TTC. (((hugs)))


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  • jordangoodnightjordangoodnight member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
    DH:25
    Married June 2012 
    TTC September 2014
    BFP #1 October 17, 2014
    MC #1 October 26, 2014
    Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January) 
    Off the bench as of Jan 2015
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  • catvaughn5002catvaughn5002 member
    Welcome to the board! I'm very sorry for your loss.
    Me: 26 DH:28
    TTC - Sept 2014
    # 1 BFP - October 5, 2014 EDD June 5, 2015 CP - October 14, 2014


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  • MellyMel15MellyMel15 member
    Welcome. I'm very sorry for your loss as well. I also am terrified of wasps and other stinging and biting insects. 
    * Me: 31, DH: 33 * Married 10.16.10 * Parents of our furbaby Sophie *
    BFP: 8.28.14 | EDD 5.6.15 | MMC Discovered 9.25.14 (8 weeks)| D&C 9.30.14

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    "Everybody here has got a story to tell. Everybody's been through their own hell. There's nothing too special about getting hurt, but getting over it that takes the work. Because one way or another, we all need each other. Nothing's going to turn out the way you thought it would. Friends and lovers, don't you duck and cover because everything comes out the way it should in the end." -Glen Phillips, "Duck and Cover" 


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  • FutureMrsWright2012FutureMrsWright2012 member
    Sorry for your loss, but welcome. I agree completely about the craziness that is charting! Hope you stay sane as you move forward!
    TTCAL December Siggy Challenge: Autocorrect Fails
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    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 34; nml swimmers; Me - 34; sinking AMH (now 0.55), low AFC, nml FSH/LH 
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN 
    Bonus info: me - low TNF, low vitamin D, borderline low IGF (all improving) 
    IVF (May/June2014) 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11) - no frosties. 
    + HPT 8dp5dt. Beta #1 - 71(6/20). Beta #2 381 (6/24) 
    U/S 7/11 (one perfect little bean, HB 150's). EDD 3/1/2015
    Baby boy Lincoln Alexander's HB stopped at 18w and was delivered at 19w (10/3/2014)
    All testing normal/negative including normal chromosomes - no answers... D&C 11/20/2014
    IVF#2 coming in Spring 2015
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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

    Working on our rainbow!

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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome to the board. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I'm glad to hear that you were comforted by the ladies here, even when they didn't know they were helping you. That's a nice thing to hear. Glad you decided to join in. 
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • bookwormfnpbookwormfnp member
    I am so sorry for your loss. My first loss was a Blighted Ovum. I know what it feels like to be in love with a baby and then they tell you there is no baby. It is devestating and very confusing. If you ever need somone to talk to I am here. It really helps to have support. It lets you vent and try to move forward in a positive way. It always helps to have someone who knows what you are going through and most of us do. I am new to the boards as well. Welcome to the board.
    3 MMC #1 Ivf Fet pregnancy BFP 2/10/18

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  • uromysuromys member

    I'm sorry for your loss. I have a love for baking as well! Tis the season for Pumpkin Cheesecake!image

    Welcome to the board.

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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  • adagiomoadagiomo member

    Thank you for the great reception!  I am happy I will get to know all of you great ladies! 

    @crimpigirl -  I completely understand what you mean about getting AF after MC.  It was really screwing with my head until I finally got it.  I felt like I couldn't move on until I got AF...I don't think I have ever been so relieved to get my period before!!    

    Me:30 - DH:30 - Married 26.Apr.2008
    Start TTC 14.May.2014
    BFP:23.Jun.14 - ED:14.Mar.14 - MMC found 29.Jul.14 - NMC:8.Aug.14
    CD1 AL:15.Oct.14

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/4f355e

     

     

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