Monday Bitchfest

jamjoyful

Mondays......


I'm so tired all the time and I just can't take it anymore. Plus, I'm pretty sure I'm getting sick and who has the time for that?!

jules1614

Today's my last day of leave. There will be lots of cuddling and no housework done. And also, it's not even going to reach 20 degrees today- I hate early winters!!!

poofwok

I just got a Facebook event request for a not so close friend's baby shower. It's RSVP to HERSELF.

She is throwing her own shower? Really? With little sleep and being sick, I just wanna rip into her....

jamjoyful

Justine2502 said:

I just got a Facebook event request for a not so close friend's baby shower. It's RSVP to HERSELF.

She is throwing her own shower? Really? With little sleep and being sick, I just wanna rip into her....

Ugh! A girl I know did this same thing. She also did a "gender" reveal party and requested that people bring food. Like, wut?!

Edited because words are hard on Monday.

poofwok

Joy1192 said:

Justine2502 said:

I just got a Facebook event request for a not so close friend's baby shower. It's RSVP to HERSELF.

She is throwing her own shower? Really? With little sleep and being sick, I just wanna rip into her....

Ugh! A girl I know did this same thing. She also did a "gender" reveal party and requested that people bring food. Like, wut?!

Edited because words are hard on Monday.

Ridiculous!!

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addysmom22 said:

Justine2502 said:

I just got a Facebook event request for a not so close friend's baby shower. It's RSVP to HERSELF.

She is throwing her own shower? Really? With little sleep and being sick, I just wanna rip into her....

I've got one better.. I got one yesterday from an aquaintence throwing HERSELF a SECOND baby shower. She has a 3 year old son, and she's having another boy... I can't..

That's just beyond tacky. Wtf is wrong with people?

BabyPaulin

That's just tacky. Pay for your own kid stuff and show some class.

poofwok

If someone throws you a shower, great. If no one throws you a shower, too bad. You are not entitled to a baby shower! Wtf is wrong with people?

BabyPaulin

Dealing with my sons bad case of eczema. I used the steroid oil prescribed for as needed, last night. I try not to use much because it has a lot of side effects but , his stomach was really bad. I decided I would use it last night just to get things under control and continue with moisturizers. How about he got wet with pee from chest down. There I was washing him in the middle of the night prevent further skin irritation. He screamed so loud I'm sure the neighbors woke up. After I put on new clothes. His spit up so much and it ran down his neck folds , hit the arm and then my leg. There I was wiping again with cloth again and reapplying moisturizers. I hate you eczema. And you too reflux.

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SherryBaby2014

I didn't get a wedding or baby shower. We moved from our home state so we would have no family to attend without a day's drive here and I don't have that many close friends here. I WAS given a lot of hand me downs from a good friend so we really didn't need much anyways. 

My real bitch is that my DH decided to jump down the bottom few stairs and after a trip to the ER it turns out he tore/sprained his calf muscle! I feel bad he's in pain but now I have to worry about taking care of him and DD. 

MrsLeahBentley

I am so f*cking tired of going to the OB/GYN. I have seen enough of this woman to last me a lifetime. She's a nice enough lady, but SHIT I hate being in dr offices.

MC03

Tired.  So damn tired.  Why won't my kid sleep? I feel worse than when she was a newborn.  It's so frustrating because she used to just wake once or twice a night, so I know she is capable of that.  Now it's every two hours, if not sooner. And it makes me a grumpy bitch, and DH a grumpy bitch, and the whole house is just full of bitchiness.

kaitm22

Thanks LO for deciding to hit the lovely 3 month growth spurt on the busiest week I've had in months. Not down till close to midnight, up screaming at me every 2-3 hours, and spending the whole time you actually did sleep fussing and  grunting. Growing pains?

I have to work 4 days this week when I usually work 2-3, and one of the clients is a total pain in the ass.

Also, my dog has been a total needy jealous prick since LO was born and my patience for it is gone!

Luciana428

Sooooo I totally threw my own baby shower and it was AWESOME. It was more of a party then a shower and we provided all the food and beer and I there were no games or nonsense. It was also coed! My MIL wanted to give me a ladies only shower in her small ass house where she smokes without air conditioning late in August so it could work around her schedule. Um, no. I was terrified of going early (which I did) and having nothing and couldn't imagine excluding my guy friends. My side of the family couldn't afford it and only speaks Spanish so they couldn't really communicate with my friends and whatnot. Lastly, my best friend was due the same day as me so I expected nothing from her! So, we just did it ourselves and I don't regret it or think it was tacky at all. Actually, my friends still comment about what a kickass time it was and how glad they were to hang our with us one last time before the baby arrived!

mmsweeney1

MC03 said:

Tired.  So damn tired.  Why won't my kid sleep? I feel worse than when she was a newborn.  It's so frustrating because she used to just wake once or twice a night, so I know she is capable of that.  Now it's every two hours, if not sooner. And it makes me a grumpy bitch, and DH a grumpy bitch, and the whole house is just full of bitchiness.

Me too. WHAT is going on with them??? I've given up. I just nurse her in bed and move her back if I can. She probably spends half the night in our bed. No sleep for anyone

arcarpe2

Ughh I'm on the no sleep train too!! What's up with these little ones? At this point, I would do anything for more than 2 hours sleep.

bumpuser10150228

DS is screaming all day because he's teething and nothing I do is helping

kareik01

I feel bad for you mommas going through so little sleep. DD has been doing a lot worse recently, up 2 or 3 time a night, but overall I feel my sleep is pretty good yet. Last night was rough, but I don't feel awful today so I can't complain at all compared to you ladies

cardgal14

No sleep here either. And I can't even go out to the car at lunch to take a nap like I did while pregnant because I have to pump. Pumping = Hell

bumpuser10150228

mmsweeney1 said:

MC03 said:

Tired.  So damn tired.  Why won't my kid sleep? I feel worse than when she was a newborn.  It's so frustrating because she used to just wake once or twice a night, so I know she is capable of that.  Now it's every two hours, if not sooner. And it makes me a grumpy bitch, and DH a grumpy bitch, and the whole house is just full of bitchiness.

Me too. WHAT is going on with them??? I've given up. I just nurse her in bed and move her back if I can. She probably spends half the night in our bed. No sleep for anyone

Yep this is us but it's nothing new in my house. I'm functioning quite well on less than 6 hours a night.

mmsweeney1

I am feeling ok on little sleep too, but I just feel bad for DH who has to get up and go to work every day. (And all the ladies on here back to work already!)  I also wish I could "figure her out." Ha.

Laur110

I don't understand when people say, "Oh, did you have the baby yet?". Either I'm going for a new world record, longest pregnancy ever, or I'm not looking as good as I thought (aka not looking 9 months pregnant anymore). Sigh.

amj1053

Laur110 said:

I don't understand when people say, "Oh, did you have the baby yet?". Either I'm going for a new world record, longest pregnancy ever, or I'm not looking as good as I thought (aka not looking 9 months pregnant anymore). Sigh.

Ugh...I will never understand why people think its ok to say things like this. The day I had DD one of my in-laws asked me how long it would be before my stomach went down. I said " as long as I want it to take!"

IceHide61313

When I first started reading this thread today, I was thinking "Hey! I have no bitch today. Everything is swell in Ice-land," and then I started making chicken and dumplings.

First, I burnt myself pretty bad.
Second, LO started crying.
Third, DH is on nights, is a light sleeper, and our house is very open so the pressure was ON trying to get LO to settle down for him to get sleep. I'm still cooking, by the way. Well, trying to at least.
Fourth, while changing LO's diaper, the dog decides to counter surf for chicken bones. She is not allowed to eat chicken bones or to counter surf.
Fifth, by the time I should have been done cooking, it would be time to feed LO. Nope. Thanks to LO's fit, I had to (for the first time) prop a bottle so I could finish cooking.

Oy vey. Oh yeah, I need to get myself all done up by 4 and it is already 1:30. :-<

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Daisylola11

Got into an argument with DH last night. It's hard when I know it's because he's been incredibly stressed with work. My bitch: I hate the awkward next few days... Doesn't help I've been extra emotional lately and sleep deprived!

becominggold

My bitch is that I hate being this weight. Still up around 15-20 lbs. I hate having to lose weight around the holidays. And I hate that BF is doing nothing to help me lose the weight even though I am eating healthy and reasonably and is preventing me from going on a hard core diet. Ok....whine over....just needed to get that out today!

RoccoBabyK

My bitch is from the weekend but I'm still annoyed about it. I HATE when people wake LO up from a nap. Dont slam your cabinets because you want her to wake up. She's a baby. Thanks to you she screamed the whole way home. 2 hours. 2! Because she didn't have a nap. Also, if she clearly spits the pacifier out and you have to catch it she doesn't want it back. Stop shoving it back in her mouth. Your baby is a year old you think you would remember any of that.

Okay. I feel better.

abnelsen22

Daisylola11 said:

Got into an argument with DH last night. It's hard when I know it's because he's been incredibly stressed with work. My bitch: I hate the awkward next few days... Doesn't help I've been extra emotional lately and sleep deprived!

I could have written this exactly. Crappy

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BabyM82714

Just can't do it anymore. Nope. Worked a hall today with ONE other person. Do you know how many residents we had to care for? 37!! We had to give showers, get them dressed, washed up, beds made, ice water passed, too meals, laid down after meals, back up for lunch, down after, take people to the bathroom a zillion times. And I got kicked today and spit on. And stepped on a brief so wet with pee it soaked through my shoe.

But yet I love my job. But days like today make me want to take all the ativan and load myself and my residents up on it!

I'm exhausted. EX leaves my house a wreck every morning. I'm over picking up after him.

bumpuser10150228

becominggold said:

My bitch is that I hate being this weight. Still up around 15-20 lbs. I hate having to lose weight around the holidays. And I hate that BF is doing nothing to help me lose the weight even though I am eating healthy and reasonably and is preventing me from going on a hard core diet. Ok....whine over....just needed to get that out today!

I feel ya... I'm up like 30-35 still and it's not going anywhere!!! When I wean I'm going to drastically diet and I think it will go down relatively quickly. I've been eating a lot and it has stayed the same so far. But ugh I look like shit. DH says I'm still gorgeous but I suspect he is lying :P

Luciana428

lizzie82088 said:

becominggold said:

My bitch is that I hate being this weight. Still up around 15-20 lbs. I hate having to lose weight around the holidays. And I hate that BF is doing nothing to help me lose the weight even though I am eating healthy and reasonably and is preventing me from going on a hard core diet. Ok....whine over....just needed to get that out today!

I feel ya... I'm up like 30-35 still and it's not going anywhere!!! When I wean I'm going to drastically diet and I think it will go down relatively quickly. I've been eating a lot and it has stayed the same so far. But ugh I look like shit. DH says I'm still gorgeous but I suspect he is lying :P

EXACTLY. I'm soooooo squishy. Bit the bullet today and am meeting with a personal trainer on Weds......she has her work cut out for her. I guess me too.
Also, I WANT ALL THE CARBS ALL THE TIME. Thanks BF! (:|

chase16

Luciana428 said:

My bitch is that I hate being this weight. Still up around 15-20 lbs. I hate having to lose weight around the holidays. And I hate that BF is doing nothing to help me lose the weight even though I am eating healthy and reasonably and is preventing me from going on a hard core diet. Ok....whine over....just needed to get that out today!

I feel ya... I'm up like 30-35 still and it's not going anywhere!!! When I wean I'm going to drastically diet and I think it will go down relatively quickly. I've been eating a lot and it has stayed the same so far. But ugh I look like shit. DH says I'm still gorgeous but I suspect he is lying :P

EXACTLY. I'm soooooo squishy. Bit the bullet today and am meeting with a personal trainer on Weds......she has her work cut out for her. I guess me too. Also, I WANT ALL THE CARBS ALL THE TIME. Thanks BF! (:|

I dropped 20 pounds immediately but have been hanging on to the last 15 for almost 2 months.. I'm eating pretty healthy and exercising.. so I'm thinking that my body plans on hanging onto the pounds until I stop BFing.. maybe? Is that a thing?

jendem8

I didn't feel hungry all of the time at first, but now bfing has me ravenous all of the time. How am I supposed to lose the rest of this baby weight if I'm eating everything in the kitchen?!?!

I also have a bitch about reflux. You suck, reflux.

kaitm22

jendem8 said:

I didn't feel hungry all of the time at first, but now bfing has me ravenous all of the time. How am I supposed to lose the rest of this baby weight if I'm eating everything in the kitchen?!?! I also have a bitch about reflux. You suck, reflux.

HUNGRY ALL THE TIME!!!!

I never felt like this when I was pregnant. Lets hope its because that breastfeeding fat burn is finally kicking in!

IceHide61313

I got another. I got myself all dolled up for DH. I'm feeling all cute and whatnot and you know what he says? He says "You're dressed like we're going to a party." JFC. I don't ever say JFC but fuck. Just tell me "babe, you look good tonight." I didn't need to be criticized that I may be dolled up a little too much when I'm trying to make a good impression on your coworkers.

jendem8

kaitm22 said:

jendem8 said:

I didn't feel hungry all of the time at first, but now bfing has me ravenous all of the time. How am I supposed to lose the rest of this baby weight if I'm eating everything in the kitchen?!?! I also have a bitch about reflux. You suck, reflux.

HUNGRY ALL THE TIME!!!!

I never felt like this when I was pregnant. Lets hope its because that breastfeeding fat burn is finally kicking in!

I'm so hoping that's the case!

jenniferurs

My belly roll now has a roll of it's own.

So precious.