January 2014 Moms

I'm back! (loss mentioned)

I haven't been on TB in a few weeks. I'm part of the FB group, but I miss you ladies. My phone broke a few weeks ago. It just decided to stop coming on. I got a new one about 2 weeks ago. I can get back on TB again.

DS is walking! He started about 3 or 4 weeks ago. He has 6 teeth and can climb on the couch now.


Loss mentioned now.

The past few days have been extremely tough on my DH and I. At about 1:30 on on Thursday, Nov 13th we got a call that one of our dear friends was in the hospital dying. My husband drove up before work and got to see him. I drove up Friday and got to see him. We both said good bye yesterday before he was taken off life support. He had a skull fracture with a brain hemorrhage, but no bruises, bleeding or anything else. Nobody knows what happened.

All of us still can't believe this happened and it still feels so very unreal. He was an amazing person and father. The next few days will probably be tough while plans are made.

I'm going to try to get on TB more then I have been. I need the support from you ladies.

It's good to be back on here.

Re: I'm back! (loss mentioned)

  • So sorry for the loss of your friend.

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    5/12/2013 SURPRISE BFP! Natural cycle 
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  • welcome back - we miss you.  DD is also walking - its crazy how fast they are growing up!

    So incredibly sorry for the loss of your friend.  Lots of thoughts and prayers to you and your husband and to his family.




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  • Sorry to hear things weren't good and that they took him off life support. That is a very difficult thing to do, very sad u all had to deal with this. Prayers to all of u.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. It's especially hard having questions that may never be answered. Thoughts are with you
  • Happy to see your name around here again! So sorry for your loss, what an awful situation. :( 

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  • I'm sorry about the loss of your friend.l

    Welcome back! There are a lot of new faces around here, including me.
  • Thank you ladies. As you can imagine we are all heartbroken and in complete shock. We are all very worried about his son who doesn't have either one of his parents now. I think it will get better after the funeral. I wish they could give us answers to all of our questions that will probably never be answered.
  • So very sorry for the loss of your friend, thoughts are with you and your husband and your friends family.
  • So sorry for your loss mama
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome back to the board!


  • I'm sorry for your loss
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  • YmThank you ladies. The funeral is Saturday and DH has been asked to be a pallbearer. It's going to be hard, but it is nice that they aren't keeping his body for evidence so his family can lay him to rest. I do hope his son is allowed to come say good bye to him.
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