Miscarried :(

ashleyann62215

Hi I am suffering through a MMC at 7 weeks and chose a D&C. I chose to try and conceive as soon as my doctor clears me. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice or if anyone can tell me how long it took for them to conceive after a miscarriage?

mflowers929

I'm sorry for your loss. Waiting for your doctor to clear you is a good idea. For advice? Read the stickies and stick around. We're good at support here.

As for conceiving again, that's a question you're better off asking over on PGAL since we're pretty much one and all still trying.

BethKate2

I'm sorry for your loss, but none of us here are pregnant. Many of us haven't conceived since our losses, and those who have experienced additional losses. This really isn't the best place to ask that question....maybe try the Pregnant After a Loss board.

Menrandes

I am sorry for your loss. 
As far as conceiving after, all of us here are still trying.

ashleyann62215

Sorry. Got my boards confused. Thanks.

ashleyann62215

I didn't mean to upset anyone

ashleyann62215

I'm new here and try to read the postings before posting, I just got ahead of myself. Sorry if I offended anyone and I wish the best to everyone. I hope you get your rainbow babies soon.

PinkCamino

ashleyann62215 said:

I'm new here and try to read the postings before posting, I just got ahead of myself. Sorry if I offended anyone and I wish the best to everyone. I hope you get your rainbow babies soon.

The sad fact is that some will never get rainbows.

As for your question.

After my first loss at 21 weeks I waited 6 months, I got pregnant my 2nd cycle trying and miscarried at 7 weeks. I then waited nearly 18 months to TTC again and got pregnant on my 5th cycle which turned into a CP.

ashleyann62215

I'm sorry to hear that. That breaks my heart.

ashleyann62215

I am sorry for saying that.

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wickedsugar said:

ashleyann62215 said:

I'm new here and try to read the postings before posting, I just got ahead of myself. Sorry if I offended anyone and I wish the best to everyone. I hope you get your rainbow babies soon.

Please don't say that... Not everyone gets a rainbow baby..

I'm sorry for saying that.

eliida

OP, I'm sorry for your loss.

ashleyann62215

eliida said:

OP, I'm sorry for your loss.

Thank you, I appreciate it.

ashleyann62215

agpjt413 said:

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Thank you as well.

ashleyann62215

LDubHawksFan said:

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I understand that it's really new to you, so take time to heal and process before jumping back into thinking about TTC. How long are you benched per your dr's orders?

People weren't upset, but lurking goes a long way on any of these boards. Reading the post "Read this before posting" would have explained why this isn't the appropriate place to ask about pregnancy after a loss. We aren't pregnant.

Thank you. The doctor said I'm benched for a month and then I have to go back after that because I had a really big cyst on my ovary.

I am sorry. I should have read the post before posting.

ashleyann62215

Thank you, I went and looked at the board. I will read over them for a few days before I introduce myself.

flyoffeve

I am so sorry for your loss.

rmpar29

I'm very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.   (((((HUGS)))))

MrsOscarFelix

I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome ((hugs))

ashleyann62215

Thank you all! The quote button isn't working for me for some reason.

ashleyann62215

Thank you! Sorry my quote button isn't working.

Mjwal

ashleyann62215 said:

Thank you! Sorry my quote button isn't working.

Ashley, Just wanted to add that you are not alone- I wouldn't have known to look at a different board... I too recently had a MC in September was 7 weeks along, but thankfully didn't have to have a D&C.The hubby and I are now TTC again... crossing my fingers that AF doesn't come next week....  Good luck to you. 

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Mjwal said:

ashleyann62215 said:

Thank you! Sorry my quote button isn't working.

Ashley, Just wanted to add that you are not alone- I wouldn't have known to look at a different board... I too recently had a MC in September was 7 weeks along, but thankfully didn't have to have a D&C.The hubby and I are now TTC again... crossing my fingers that AF doesn't come next week....  Good luck to you. 


Thank you so much. That means a lot. I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish you the best of luck in your ttc journey. I'll be wishing away AF for you!

bookwormfnp

ashleyann62215 said:

Hi I am suffering through a MMC at 7 weeks and chose a D&C. I chose to try and conceive as soon as my doctor clears me. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice or if anyone can tell me how long it took for them to conceive after a miscarriage?

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand why you ask that question here as people have anxiety over it taking forever to concieve again. All you want after a loss is a chance to try again. Everyone is different some conceive again in one month others it may take years. Thats why it is so hard for people to see that question on here. I pray that you get lucky early. I pray we all do but thats just not the case always though I really wish it could be.

ashleyann62215

tiffanylyandell said:

ashleyann62215 said:

Hi I am suffering through a MMC at 7 weeks and chose a D&C. I chose to try and conceive as soon as my doctor clears me. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice or if anyone can tell me how long it took for them to conceive after a miscarriage?

I am so sorry for your loss. I understand why you ask that question here as people have anxiety over it taking forever to concieve again. All you want after a loss is a chance to try again. Everyone is different some conceive again in one month others it may take years. Thats why it is so hard for people to see that question on here. I pray that you get lucky early. I pray we all do but thats just not the case always though I really wish it could be.


Thank you. I understand what you mean. I didn't mean to cause any pain for anyone. I appreciate your kind words.