So my husband's evil sil is the most gift grabby attention whore you will ever meet and she is (of course) having a second baby shower. We apparently have to go so I was wondering what an appropriate gift might be. Mind you we weren't actually sent a real invitation just a text from husband's brother. The shower is Saturday and he texted last night. It has apparently been mentioned before to husband but I don't understand why no invite in the mail. We did lose our first this summer and would be having our own shower right around now if all had gone well. So that could be it but I don't care. They shouldn't even be having a shower. Oh and they are having it at their house, so I guess they are throwing it themselves. So how much do we have to spend on this new nephew we will never see or spend any time with? We are only invited to things which require gifts so we will see him at Christmas and birthdays and that is it.