So I lost my job...

rivers714

I had a career change a little over a year ago and I entered a residency program for the ED. Where you work as a resident for a year and they slide you into a full time position. For the past 6 weeks they have been kind of giving me the run around about the full time/full salary position. All my trainers thought I did fine and told me not to worry...

Well they had expressed concern about my commitment to the hospital because I am currently in an NP program, I tried my hardest to squash their fears. Apparently this wasn't the case. They told me yesterday that for the first time in years they have no full time openings ( while I've been in limbo they've hired 4 people) and I'm getting a residency completion certificate but I'm on my own.

I have a seven year old, I'm 15 weeks pregnant, I'm the sole wage earner for my family. I am a little scared. I applied to about 20 places last night.

I hate to feel sorry for myself but it's hard, I'm going through my pregnancy alone which sucks and I just keep getting these blows from the universe. Last month it was convincing my graduate program I'd be able to fulfill my commitments while pregnant and they shouldn't put me on a leave or drop me to education track from the NP program. I just need a break from the universe. Like bad at this point- I'm not sure how much fight I have left in me right now.

suszbaker

I'm so sorry. I don't have professional advice either, I just want you to encourage you to keep going. I'm so proud of you for apply to so many places so quickly. Use all of the contacts your ever made at work. Your son and your baby need you to be strong and stay positive. I will be thinking of and praying for you.....keep us posted.

babymcb21

Wow that is terrible, I am so sorry. Keep your head up...things will work out!

jenanns

So sorry that is very stressful. I have found when I really feel I cannot handle more is when the universe does something to turn life around. Hopefully one of those jobs you applied for works out and is a better fit for you than the one you would have had.

jennadesigns

I'm sorry you're going through a rough time right now. You have every right to be worried. It sounds like you're being very proactive by applying to so many places. Hopefully you find something soon. In the mean time, do you qualify for unemployment? Have you considered signing up for medicaid and other assistance like WIC and food stamps which you could probably qualify for with a significant reduction in income? I know it's hard to ask for help, but that's why there are programs like these out there ... to help people in times of need. Just a thought. I went through something similar when I was pregnant with my daughter six years ago and ended up being on assistance for about a year. It was hard to swallow my pride and accept it but it was the best situation for us at the time. Best of luck to you!

Ballet80

That sounds like a lot to deal with right now! You sounds really smart so I am sure something will turn up in no time. In life it does seem everything tends to happen all at once, which makes us stronger but also puts us on the crazy train for a while. Sending some good vibes your way, stay positive and it will turn around!

jenari2013

I'm so sorry you're having to deal with all of that, especially being pregnant.  It's promising at least that there are 20 jobs that you could apply for.  I'll keep my FX that things take a turn for the better!

JayJay42

I can commiserate with you. I found out yesterday that my shop is closing and I am getting laid off today (found out through the grapevine). I spent half the morning crying, then calmed down and made a plan. I know I will be fine because I am good at what I do, just need to keep this thought going. You sound like you have great things going for you and it may seem awful now but you will make it work, too. Head up, we got this!

evakatharina

Wow, that sounds so tough. No advice, but I'm thinking of you and sending best wishes that something will work out for you very soon.

My_Matt

Oh no! I am sorry you have to deal with this. I hope one of the positions for comes to fruition for you and this is just a short phase. 

lgsdesigner

I'm very sorry! I was 17 weeks pg with my DD when I got laid off. I was also the primary wage earner. I hired a headhunter and found a new job in 3 weeks. Hang in there.

AidanMarlene

I am sorry this happened to you. I have no advice, but I will have you in my prayers.

FreddyisReady

Oh no! That totally sucks! I hope the universe gives you an even better job! Keep your chin up, something will come along that will be just perfect for you!

jbj 7497

This sounds so stressful, I have my FX and am sending thoughts and prayers that one of those jobs works out and is even better for your family than this one would have been.  Stay strong!

samiamagirl

I am so so sorry to hear this! I know things have not been the best for you right now and I can't imagine what a blow this last straw was. I hope and know that things will eventually turn around for the better. One of my best friend's had a terrible couple of years where she and her husband couldn't catch a break. It was heartbreaking to watch her go through everything she did but it's been just so amazing watching how things are starting to finally turn around and go right for her as of the past few months.

Hopefully your extended support system will help you out a little extra right now. You seem like a strong and resilient woman who won't let this setback knock her down.

chicagomomab

So sorry to hear this.  I'll be thinking of you and sending positive vibes your way.  Hopefully you find something soon!

LolaCachia

I'm sorry to hear this. Do you feel like it is because of the pregnancy? Did you have documentation of the conversation regarding your commitment level to the program bc of the pregnancy? Seems to me like you need to look into this situation with a lawyer, seems shady.

CoPilot2012

You sound like you've got amazing drive! Go ahead and have a pitty party for a day or two, then turn back into the driven woman you read to be and kick some ass by finding a better opportunity than you imagined! You can do this!

katietopaz

I'm sorry to hear that you've got so much going on at once. I know job hunting can be super stressful, hang in there. I echo what PPs mentioned about assistance programs as well as looking into if you believe your pregnancy could be the reason they didn't hire you.

I hope something better comes along quickly!

rivers714

Thank you everyone. Especially those ladies who've been in this position and had possitivr outcomes.

I've been able to apply for mass health, unemployment, contact wic ( they want me to come in once mass health kicks in).... I've applied to like every RN job in a 15 mile radius that I'm qualified for. I have an interview on Friday and potentially will be rehired at a rehab I worked at, they'll let me know next week- I'd start 11/21.

So I've been busy. I let myself be a pathetic bawling mess for a couple hours last night and have spent the time since getting my shit together. Thank you guys again.

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Ibliss

Good luck and hope you find a new job soon. Remember 'this too shall pass'. It won't last forever. Hang in there.

mpiemont

I'm sorry you're dealing with all of this...I hope things look up soon.

hbn7614

I can't add anything that the previous ladies haven't already said. However, how dickish of them to pull such BS. I'm also the income earner in my household so I understand the fear. I wish you the best of luck and hope you get a kick ass job ASAP.

SchoolPsychSteph

I'm so sorry. I hope at least one place calls back soon.