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TTC After a Loss
jordangoodnight
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My Intro- It all happened so fast...*updated*
jordangoodnight
member
Hi everyone,
I want to start out by saying that I am sorry for each and every loss this group has been through.
My husband and I had been talking about TTC for a while and decided September was finally the right time. When I got those two lines the very first month I was a little shocked that it happened so quickly, but we were so excited. Nine days after my BFP I started bleeding. I was devastated. In such a short time I went from being just me, to having a new life growing inside me, back to just me. It's been surreal. Some days it's hard to believe I was ever pregnant, but accepting all this is getting easier every day. Tomorrow I go to my OB for what would have been my first appointment but is now just a check up. I'm hoping I get the okay to start TTC again.
*updated*
Thanks everyone for all the support. I saw my OB today and he wants me to wait 2 full cycles before TTC again. So I'm benched for a bit. So now I'm just hoping for normal cycles so that I can try soon after the new year.
I want to start out by saying that I am sorry for each and every loss this group has been through.
My husband and I had been talking about TTC for a while and decided September was finally the right time. When I got those two lines the very first month I was a little shocked that it happened so quickly, but we were so excited. Nine days after my BFP I started bleeding. I was devastated. In such a short time I went from being just me, to having a new life growing inside me, back to just me. It's been surreal. Some days it's hard to believe I was ever pregnant, but accepting all this is getting easier every day. Tomorrow I go to my OB for what would have been my first appointment but is now just a check up. I'm hoping I get the okay to start TTC again.
*updated*
Thanks everyone for all the support. I saw my OB today and he wants me to wait 2 full cycles before TTC again. So I'm benched for a bit. So now I'm just hoping for normal cycles so that I can try soon after the new year.
Me: 24 (hypothyroidism)
DH:25
Married June 2012 TTC September 2014
BFP #1 October 17, 2014
MC #1 October 26, 2014
Benched 2 cycles (hoping to TTC January)
Off the bench as of Jan 2015
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Re: My Intro- It all happened so fast...*updated*
*************Siggy Warning. Loss mentioned.************
Me: 36, DH:37
Married 4/2010, TTC since 7/2011
Dx: Officially Unexplained (I have Polycystic Ovaries diagnosed via ultrasound, but few classic PCOS symptoms, he has mild MF issues. So... not issue free, but nothing so severe as to explain IF)
I also deal with post-surgical Hypothyroidism following Thyroid Cancer in 2009, but under control with Levothyroxine
4 months Clomid (thinned lining) and 10 months Letrozole (every indication that I responded perfectly)
6 failed IUIs in 2013, 3 with trigger
IVF #1 in March 2014
ER 3/21/14, 31R/21F, 12 frosties!
ET 3/26/14, 1 perfect blast transferred: BFN
FET#1 5/28/14, 2 "beautiful" early blasts transferred. BFP!!
Beta #1 (6/11/14) 798; Beta #2 (6/18/14) 7,966.
1st u/s (6/25/14) showed 2 sacs, 1 empty & 1 with a beautiful little bean doing what it needs to do!
EDD 2/14/15, missed miscarriage, DX: Trisomy 21. D&C 8/1/14
FET#2 Transferred 3 embies, 2 looking pretty good, one not so much. BFN.
IVF#2 January 2015, tentative ER 1/23
Me: 31 DH: 36
Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks
My Chart
DH & I are both 28 Together: 12 years Married: 09/24/2011
BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012
Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12
BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20
BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15
Married 9/13/14
Me: 24 / DH: 24
BFP#1 10/15/14 - EDD 6/19/2014 - MC 10/23/14
BFP #2: 12/18/14 - EDD: 8/31/15 - MC 1/4/14 5w6d
**Currently Benched until TBD**
My Chart
DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS 6/2010
BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
My chart here All ALers welcome!
I'm sorry for your loss.
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy
Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
W born September 2020
#3 due November 2022
DD: 10 (born August 2004)
Married 03/01/14
TTC#2
BFP: 05/17/2014 EDD: 1/25/15 MMC: 06/30/2014
Yes, exactly. I'm sorry for your loss as well.