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Intro from an experienced newbie

williegsockswilliegsocks member
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Hello all!  I am not new to "the bump", I have been a member on the TTTC board for several months now.  After finally getting my shocking bfp a month before starting fertility treatment and then learning that it was not developing appropriately and having a D&C on October 17th I realized that I needed to join a group that truly understands what I am going through.  This has been one of the most painful experiences of my life and even though I thought I would never get over it, here I am.  I am ready to move on....I'll be honest we're not quite ready to start ttc again, but I'm ready to give and get support.

Here's some info about me:
  • I love working out every day...this includes HIIT, Tae Bo, and Running!
  • I enjoy going to the lake, fishing, and just being outside.
  • I have a German Shepherd, Chihuahua, and 2 cats.
  • I have a passion for teaching and love my "kids"!
  • I love my Police Officer!  (DH)
  • I enjoy a good glass of wine and am addicted to Pinterest and Netflix! 
I look forward to getting to know all of you ladies!
Me: 25  DH: 24
Me: 4th Grade ELAR Teacher  DH: Police Officer
Married: May 28, 2011
TTC 1st Child since January 2013
1st RE Appt: 8/19/14
Blood Work: 8/26/14
HSG Test: 9/2/14
RE Appt to discuss results and treatment: 9/8/14
Shocking BFP: 9/27/14
D&C: 10/17/14
Benching myself until we fully heal
Unexpected BFP: 1/23/15


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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    Hi there! I'm so sorry for your loss and sorry to see you here but welcome :)

    I love my furbabies and being outdoors too. Unfortunately I don't have your love for working out :( lol
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • uromysuromys member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome! I enjoy working out as well. Obsessed with step and body pump. I won't willing run!

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
    williegsocks said:
    Sorry ladies!  I just removed it from my siggy.  Trust me I did not mean any offense whatsoever, but I definitely see where you're coming from and I am not here for any conflict.  Thanks for letting me know so I could take care of it.
    Thank you for understanding! :)
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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • EIsieMaeEIsieMae member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    BFP #1: 5-14-2010, DD born 1-22-2011
    BFP #2: 4-20-2012, Natural MC 5-1-2012
    BFP #3: 7-19-2012, DS born 3-27-2013
    BFP #4: 9-13-2014, MMC discovered 10-27-14 at 10w, d&c on 11-6-14 

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  • eliidaeliida member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome.
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  • lycihlycih member
    I'm so sorry for your loss and everything you've been through.  
    Welcome to the board, and thank you for being so refreshingly accepting of suggestions!   <:-P


    ::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy

    BFP #1: 07/08/11  EDD: 03/22/12  Missed miscarriage @ 8w: 08/11/11, stopped growing @ 6w6d
    BFP #2: 03/26/12  EDD: 12/07/12  We have a HB at 7w!! (04/20/12)  CSD born 12/12/12 
    BFP #3: 08/05/14  Chemical Pregnancy at 4w3d 08/06/14
    BFP #4: 10/02/14  EDD: 06/10/15  Miscarriage at 6w6d 10/22/14




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  • mkfish31mkfish31 member
    Welcome to the board. So sorry for your loss. 
    Married since Dec 2010. TTC since Feb of 2014. 

    **BFP#1 Feb 20th. EDD October 28th, 2014. MC March 20th (7.5 wks) D&C.

    **BFP #2 May 22nd. EDD Feb 8th, 2015.   MC  July 1st, 2014 (6.5 weeks) D&C

     Heard both babies heartbeats @6w3d, 122bpm and 100bpm. Will never forget that sound!

    **BFP #3 EDD 8/21/15  Please, please be our rainbow!!

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  • MrsOscarFelixMrsOscarFelix member

    I'm new to the board and the bump in general, but welcome! I am so sorry for everything you have gone through.

    DH is also a Police Officer ;)

    Married 9/13/14

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    Me: 24 / DH: 24

    BFP#1 10/15/14 - EDD 6/19/2014 - MC 10/23/14

    BFP #2: 12/18/14 - EDD: 8/31/15 - MC 1/4/14 5w6d

    **Currently Benched until TBD**

    My Chart


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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

    Working on our rainbow!

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  • renegadewhitrenegadewhit member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to this board.
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    I'll be at a new place providing support. 


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  • MrsPhD83MrsPhD83 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome. Take care of yourself during this challenging time.

    I see in your siggy that you had an RE appt to discuss your results and treatment options before your surprise BFP. Out of curiosity, what was your diagnosis from the RE? I'm just being nosey, so if you don't want to discuss this here, feel free to tell me to pipe down!
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    Me: 31, DH: 30, Married July 2013
    TTC since March 2014
    BFP#1  5.17.14, EDD 1.26.15, MMC (measuring 6w3d at 8w3d), D&C 6.26.14
    BFP#2  9.19.14, EDD 5.29.15, AF on 9.23.14 CP
    BFP#3  12.17.14, EDD 8.25.15, AF on 12.21.14 CP#2

    Current plan: TTC while waiting for RPL results to come back
    Stalk my ute
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    I am so sorry for your loss. I also recognize you from 3T. I am glad you have introed over here. A miscarriage is such a sad and isolating event, it is nice to be surrounded by people who "get it." This is a very supportive board with great knowledge and advice. Welcome.
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • MenrandesMenrandes member
    I am so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here.  *hugs*
    We met in middle school. We got married 15 years later in a February blizzard of 2010. 
    TTC since February 2010
    Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
    BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
    BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014
    Naked push-up foreplay pioneer
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  • FutureMrsWright2012FutureMrsWright2012 member
    Sorry for your loss, but welcome. Can't wait to see your fur babies. :)
    TTCAL December Siggy Challenge: Autocorrect Fails
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    ***siggy warning*** 

    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 34; nml swimmers; Me - 34; sinking AMH (now 0.55), low AFC, nml FSH/LH 
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN 
    Bonus info: me - low TNF, low vitamin D, borderline low IGF (all improving) 
    IVF (May/June2014) 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11) - no frosties. 
    + HPT 8dp5dt. Beta #1 - 71(6/20). Beta #2 381 (6/24) 
    U/S 7/11 (one perfect little bean, HB 150's). EDD 3/1/2015
    Baby boy Lincoln Alexander's HB stopped at 18w and was delivered at 19w (10/3/2014)
    All testing normal/negative including normal chromosomes - no answers... D&C 11/20/2014
    IVF#2 coming in Spring 2015
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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

    December 4                     image

    Married-1/2012
    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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    TTCAL December siggy challenge - Autocorrect Fails

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    | <a href="http://www.fertilityfriend.com" style="font-size:smaller;" >Ovulation Tracker</My Chart

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  • ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    So sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

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  • kyliehopefulkyliehopeful member
    Welcome to the board and I'm sorry for your loss. I would love to see a pic of your German shepherd :)
    Married to a wonderful man

    TTC since 2001

    4 losses - last one in september 2014 (9 weeks - male trisomy 15)

    High FSH and low ovarian reserve

    Ever hopeful that one day my dreams will come true
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  • MrsKush1014MrsKush1014 member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.

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    BFP: 3/9/2014  EDD: 11/11/2014  MMC: 4/10/2014  D&C: 4/11/2014
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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    Welcome. I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs)

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.  ((((HUGS))))
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    June 3Missing Our January Snowflake
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    Sorry for your loss and welcome!!
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


    My Chart

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  • AngieL610AngieL610 member
    Welcome and big hugs! I'm with you on that wine and Netflix!
    DH & me - 31. 

    BFP #1 09/27/14 -- MMC 5w (discovered 8w) 
    IUI #1 - #4  - bfn (late 2015 to early 2016)
    01/03/17 - 12mm x 6mm polyp removed from uterus- neg path, yay!
    IUI #5 - February 2017. Hoping for some magic 
    02.22.17 - BFP! EDD 11/01/17

    Baby G has arrived! 10/14/17
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  • welly01welly01 member

    I'm sorry for your loss.  I hope you can find healing and support here.  Welcome.

                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • nange12nange12 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board!
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  • mrspippmrspipp member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you find yourself here.
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  • kittymeowbarkkittymeowbark member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Glad you decided to join this board as well. The ladies here are great.
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1~  EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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  • Km380Km380 member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome.

    I hope to see your dog on furbaby Fridays!

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • EmrenEmren member

    I am so sorry for your loss. After my loss it seamed overwhelming to even think of starting all over again, so to speak.

    Thanks for sharing some of your story with us! We have alot incommon.

    I also love being outdoors. We had two German Shepards (Kanga and Tigger) and my father is a police officer.

    ((Hugs and Love))

    Emren0316

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  • TheAerialistTheAerialist member
    Hey @williegsocks - I recognize you from the june board.  So sorry to see you here :-/


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  • williegsockswilliegsocks member
    MrsPhD83 said:

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome. Take care of yourself during this challenging time.

    I see in your siggy that you had an RE appt to discuss your results and treatment options before your surprise BFP. Out of curiosity, what was your diagnosis from the RE? I'm just being nosey, so if you don't want to discuss this here, feel free to tell me to pipe down!

    Not crossing the line at all! I'm the same way and quite open with all of this. The RE told me it was Ovulation Dysfunction. He has strongly urged me to begin treatment next cycle because he believes that I will need assistance getting pregnant, but this has been so difficult for us that we really don't want to even think about beginning treatment.
    Me: 25  DH: 24
    Me: 4th Grade ELAR Teacher  DH: Police Officer
    Married: May 28, 2011
    TTC 1st Child since January 2013
    1st RE Appt: 8/19/14
    Blood Work: 8/26/14
    HSG Test: 9/2/14
    RE Appt to discuss results and treatment: 9/8/14
    Shocking BFP: 9/27/14
    D&C: 10/17/14
    Benching myself until we fully heal
    Unexpected BFP: 1/23/15


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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Welcome to the board. I'm so sorry for your loss. Sorry for being late to the welcoming you game! Better late than never right? :-p
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge • Animal Snow Interactions
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