I am having a small, mostly family, baby shower. We will have between 12 and 15 people, and only one invitee is not family. My mom and I decided that small was best based on the amount of space that we have and on the fact that it will be in the winter, making it difficult for people to travel. Now I have Facebook friends asking me publicly if I'm having a shower. I'm not sure how to address this seeing as how most of my Facebook friends were not invited. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings but I am perfectly happy with my guest list the way that it is.