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  • uromysuromys member

    I'm sorry to hear of your loss. No matter how early we all know the feeling you are going through. Take time to heal. Emotionally I found it much harder to begin to move forward. Eventually the fear is outweighed by your desire to conceive again. Keep your head up and focus your time on healing.

    I highly recommend temping and charting with fertility friend (FF) if you don't already. Sometimes after loss your cycles can be a bit out of whack. Its good to have a idea of what your body is doing before you try and conceive again. In the Newbie Blog at the top of the page you will find all kinds of great information and even a link to FF to get you started.

    Best Wishes and Welcome to the board.

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs) PP (previous posters) have shared some good info and advice already. Have you seen your dr for his/her advice on when to try again?

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. PP have given you some great advice. Welcome to the board.
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • welly01welly01 member
    I'm sorry for your loss.
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • lycihlycih member
    I'm so sorry for your loss; like other posters said, be kind to yourself.  It's an emotional upheaval, and while it does get better in time, it will always leave a scar.  


    ::The sudden disappointment of a hope leaves a scar that even the ultimate fullfillment of that hope cannot fully erase:: Thomas Hardy

    BFP #1: 07/08/11  EDD: 03/22/12  Missed miscarriage @ 8w: 08/11/11, stopped growing @ 6w6d
    BFP #2: 03/26/12  EDD: 12/07/12  We have a HB at 7w!! (04/20/12)  CSD born 12/12/12 
    BFP #3: 08/05/14  Chemical Pregnancy at 4w3d 08/06/14
    BFP #4: 10/02/14  EDD: 06/10/15  Miscarriage at 6w6d 10/22/14




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  • bim38106bim38106 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I'm new here too but it seems like a very welcoming wonderful group.
    CP 3/07
    BFP 5/07 - Kylie born 2/08.       BPF 2/09 - Alexandra born 10/09.
    TTC since 8/13 - diagnosed difficulty conceiving due to LP defect. Took vitamin B and Vitex Berry to help lengthen.
    BFP 2/14 - Missed M/C found at 8.5 weeks. D&C at 9w2d. Partial Molar Pregnancy.
    BFP 11/14
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  • incirincir member
    So sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board and I hope that you find the community helpful.

    BFP #1 ended with H born 2/2/13
    BFP #2 ended in loss @7weeks 10/15/14
    BFP #3 due 8/21/15 *please stick*
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  • reginaphilangeereginaphilangee member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and welcome to the board from a fellow newbie

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  • mmmslymmmsly member
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome...this is an amazing group of women.

     



     



     


                                                              


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  • MrsKush1014MrsKush1014 member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to the board.  

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    BFP: 3/9/2014  EDD: 11/11/2014  MMC: 4/10/2014  D&C: 4/11/2014
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  • eliidaeliida member
    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome.
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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • flyoffeveflyoffeve member
    missdaccortez said:
    I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs) PP (previous posters) have shared some good info and advice already. Have you seen your dr for his/her advice on when to try again?
    They told us to wait until I have a period, then try. Who knows when that will be. I'm still having the after effects of the mc, so the sooner those come to a stop the sooner I can get my period
    True. I am still waiting on my first AF after loss, so I know what you mean. I hope your physical recovery is soon for the after effects of the mc to stop. Just know that the minimum you should wait is that rec of after first AF, but you can wait as long as you and DH need to.

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I'm sorry to hear this :(

    Also, I had to print the acronyms out to help me for a while :\">
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    PPs have given you good advice and insight.  

    Welcome to the board. I am sorry for your loss.

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    Married-1/2012
    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you find some comfort here. Welcome
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • ChanelAChanelA member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome to this board. I hope you find comfort in this group of ladies. Not for nothing but we are awesome:-) ((Hugs))
    Met 10/27/2006 & Married 6/7/2014
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    BFP 8/30/2104 | EDD 5/11/2015 | MS 10/3/2014 | D&C 10/7/2014
    BFP 12/31/2014 | EDD 9/13/2015 PLEASE be our RAINBOW

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  • AngieL610AngieL610 member
    Hello and welcome. I recently joined this board as well and it has been wonderful so far. One day at a time! hugs!
    DH & me - 31. 

    BFP #1 09/27/14 -- MMC 5w (discovered 8w) 
    IUI #1 - #4  - bfn (late 2015 to early 2016)
    01/03/17 - 12mm x 6mm polyp removed from uterus- neg path, yay!
    IUI #5 - February 2017. Hoping for some magic 
    02.22.17 - BFP! EDD 11/01/17

    Baby G has arrived! 10/14/17
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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  • kyliehopefulkyliehopeful member
    What happened to this user?
    Married to a wonderful man

    TTC since 2001

    4 losses - last one in september 2014 (9 weeks - male trisomy 15)

    High FSH and low ovarian reserve

    Ever hopeful that one day my dreams will come true
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