Please tell me I am being stubborn and irrational if that's the case.
Back story: BD started dating a friend of mine a month after we seperated. We are no longer friends and do not have much of a relationship. About a year into them dating BD texts me and says if I would like to discuss anything regarding DS I needed to text his gf. At that time I let him know that was not going to happen. I she is not his mother and I would only be discussing things with him.
A few months after that I arrive at BD house to pick up DS and he opens the door, I step into door way and wait for them to get DS ready to leave. And get a text from here telling me I am not welcome in their home and I can wait outside.
Again, a few months after that BD tells me i need to communicate about our son to his gf. And in the past month he has been taking a day or so to respond to my text messages or having her respond instrad. ( he will not talk on the phone period.)
I do not want a relationship with his gf at this time and I want all communication to be through BD. Am I being unreasonable by insisting in this? Should I sucks it up and just converse with his gf or stand my ground.
Can I add how frustrated I am that DS comes home telling me that she said her name is no longer Kelley it's mommy. I know he's only almost 4 but all the other stories he has told me have panned out to be very close to true. I don't care if he calls someone else mom but it Irritates me that she forces it.