things that piss me off

MinnesotaMomma91

A few days ago i got a letter saying bd wants a paternity test. Thats fine that is his choice if i were in his shoes i would do the same thing. Im annoyed ill have to take a day off work to drive three hours for an hour long appointment then drive another three hours home. But thats life.

I got an email from bds mom this morning. She emailed me to tell me bd is sorry he needs a paternity test but he has to know 100% that one of his kids is his.

Im so mad that A has put bd through this. Im mad that one of ds sister might be the dd of my xh. Im mad that bds mom had the balls to send me that email, and now im mad that hes doubting b is his because his xw couldnt keep her legs shut.

Sorry i just exploded all of that. I needed to vent. Its a stupid complicated situation and im sick of the drama.

20thirteen

Wow, that's a lot to process. Hugs momma! There is no place closer to do the test?

MinnesotaMomma91

Thank you, unfortunatly they wont let me change the location. I think thats the most irritating part. Doinf the test isnt. Again i understand. I was married(newly estranged, but still married) and i understand him wanting to be sure b is his and not xh

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MinnesotaMomma91

Yeah, i dont know why they wont let me chang the location. There is a lab 15 minutes from where ill be working and i still have to drive three hours.

My mom is going to come with me at least.

ST3WD

This is such a load. I'm sorry there's so much displaced anger/fear/resentment/etc. on you guys right now. I'm glad you'll have support/a carpooling buddy though! 

Keep us updated? *hugs*