February 2015 Moms
hwood10
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MIL Rant!!!!!
hwood10
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Re: MIL Rant!!!!!
Married August 2009
BFP#1 12/19/13 * EDD 8/24/14 * MMC Discovered 2/04/14
BFP#2 5/27/14 * EDD 2/8/15 * Please be our rainbow
Pregnancy #2 Natural Miscarriage at 6 weeks 03/2014 Due date 11/9/2014
Pregnancy #3 DS 02.23.2015
Pregnancy #4 Missed Miscarriage at 11 weeks 11/2018 Due date 5/22/2019
Pregnancy #5 Positive test 12/11/2019 Due Date 8/17/2020
DS-1/27/04 DS-11/5/12 MC-5/7/14 BFP: 5/27/14
Good luck!
Oh good I am not the only one who is super confused, I thought it was just preggo brain.
That's major boundary crossing by your MIL. I'd need to rant, too!
Although, I wouldn't trust the family friend. Whether you decide to end a relationship or not it isn't right to go around spreading secrets (aka making drama happen for the person you're no longer friends with). I wouldn't share any of my opinions about my MIL or secrets or whatnot with her, if I were you!