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Bummed out ...

Since my doctor never kept track of my betas and I was having signs of ovulation I tested in hopes that I would get a negative (the irony)... It looked negative but with time there is a super barely there faint line. I'm still trying to decide if it has color. I'm so bummed out I really thought I was close to getting AF
Met 10/27/2006 & Married 6/7/2014
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BFP 8/30/2104 | EDD 5/11/2015 | MS 10/3/2014 | D&C 10/7/2014
BFP 12/31/2014 | EDD 9/13/2015 PLEASE be our RAINBOW

Re: Bummed out ...

  • ChanelA said:
    Since my doctor never kept track of my betas and I was having signs of ovulation I tested in hopes that I would get a negative (the irony)... It looked negative but with time there is a super barely there faint line. I'm still trying to decide if it has color. I'm so bummed out I really thought I was close to getting AF
    You had a D&C 22 days ago. I know waiting sucks but be patient.

    ChanelA[Deleted User][Deleted User]
  • I'm so sorry.  It sucks that this process can't be over quickly.  :(
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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    ChanelA
  • It is still early. I know waiting suuuuucks so bad. It took me 31 days post-D&C to get AF and it was the longest 31 days ever but I have heard of many others who had to wait even longer. As long as it has been less than 60 days I think it's normal and all you can do it wait. ((hugs))
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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    ChanelArslh10
  • It definitely can take a while and can be frustrating. Take it one day at a time and allow yourself to heal. ((hugs))
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN

    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d 
     
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    ChanelA
  • one day at a time! i know how hard it is to see that line there for all the wrong reasons. (((hugs)))
    ME: 27 DH: 31 Married in Ireland 12/28/13. Trying since November 2013. First BFP 04/30/2014, Natural MC 05/12/2014. 2nd BFP 07/11/2014, Natural MC 08/02/2014. Trying to find healing.
    Miscarriages are labor, miscarriages are birth. To consider them less dishonors the woman whose womb has held life, however briefly.
    Kathryn Miller Ridiman, Midwifery Today 1997

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    ChanelA
  • Thank you ladies, I feel better about. I guess everything at its time.
    Met 10/27/2006 & Married 6/7/2014
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    BFP 8/30/2104 | EDD 5/11/2015 | MS 10/3/2014 | D&C 10/7/2014
    BFP 12/31/2014 | EDD 9/13/2015 PLEASE be our RAINBOW

  • Ugh, that sucks. My heart hurts for you. My doctor is following my betas down but they are no where close to 0 and I'm 18 days after I took misoprostol. I know how much this limbo/waiting sucks. Hang in there.
  • Ugh, that sucks. My heart hurts for you. My doctor is following my betas down but they are no where close to 0 and I'm 18 days after I took misoprostol. I know how much this limbo/waiting sucks. Hang in there.
    Thank you! I'm so irritating with my OB! I can not wait to start searching for a new one. I hope your betas also drop down very soon. ((hugs))
    Met 10/27/2006 & Married 6/7/2014
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    BFP 8/30/2104 | EDD 5/11/2015 | MS 10/3/2014 | D&C 10/7/2014
    BFP 12/31/2014 | EDD 9/13/2015 PLEASE be our RAINBOW

  • I got a very faint positive about 5 days before getting my first post-loss period (for whatever that is worth).
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • I got a very faint positive about 5 days before getting my first post-loss period (for whatever that is worth).
    It was about the same for me.
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • After my latest loss, my RE did track my betas down and I got AF even with a positive beta.  My beta wasn't negative until just before my second AF after the loss.  It look me almost two very long cycles to get there.

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    BFP #1: 1/4/13, EDD 9/8/13, Missed M/C confirmed 2/8/13, Misoprostol

    2013: Three CPs w/ EDDs: EDD 2/10/14, EDD 3/24/14, EDD 6/24/14

    IVF/ICSI #1 (Antagonist) - Jan 2014- 19R, 14M, 11F, 3 penguins (6BB, 4BB, 6BC)  PGD tested- All Normal!

    IVF/ICSI #2 (Antagonist) - Feb 2014 - 23R, 11M, 10F, 1 penguin (3BB) - Another Normal!

    FET #1 - March 26, BFN

    FET #2- Beta #1 (9dp5dt) -332, Beta #2 (11dp5dt) -1027, EDD 1/30/2015, Missed M/C, D&C 6/19/14

    IVF/ICSI #3 (Lupron Down Reg) - Oct 2014 - 38R, 28M, 27F, 20 frozen on day 5, 16 normal penguins!!

    FET#3 - February 1, 2015, Prep begins 1/13

    All Welcome!

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