Hi Ladies,
Need suggestions for keeping my 2 year old on task when she's doing something. She loves to help out with chores around the house but takes forever to do them. For example, she loves to set the table. We will give her each item and tell her "Put a napkin at each person's place" or "Give one fork to each person" etc. She will put one napkin down, leave and go play with something, then put another napkin down, etc. At age 2, it's not super important for me to have her do chores so I will notice that she has lost interest in setting the table and DH and I will just do it. Problem is then it turns into a huge tantrum because she wanted to do it.
Getting ready in the morning is a nightmare. I will ask her to pick her clothes. She will get her pants out, then something catches her eye and she'll get distracted. We are always rushing around in the morning and me asking her to hurry because we are late doesn't make any bit of difference. I'm thinking of maybe doing some kind of chart with her or a stop light timer to keep her on task. What do you ladies think? Sorry this post was so long.
Re: Suggestions needed for keeping toddler on task
2010: Infertility
October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
Ah, I see. With my son, I just repeat the choices over and over. 'You can set the table or we will set the table. If you choose to play, then daddy's going to set the table. ' and repeat. If she gets distracted then gets pissed, I would honestly just ignore the tantrum and eat my dinner.
2010: Infertility
October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
Hi, it's not a big deal so much that it's just annoying that every single night she has a tantrum because she didn't get to finish setting the table. Just trying to see if there was a way to avoid the meltdown.
2010: Infertility
October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
Re: getting dressed. Budget extra time and use whatever dopamine-inducing trick you can think of. Dressing like you, favorite socks, necklace when she finishes, anything to give her a warm, fuzzy feeling about getting those clothes on. Nagging and threats do not work.
Sometimes dealing with a toddler demands us modifying our behavior instead of theirs.