TTC After a Loss

Reintro

My second miscarriage since June was confirmed today via ultrasound. I had a bfp on October 9th. 10 days later after dtd bleeding started. I had a couple visits with my doctor last week as well as a hospital visit and an ultrasound that was inconclusive. My HCG levels were rising but very very slowly, and bleeding and cramping was worse, much worse than my previous loss.
Today's ultrasound showed no signs of viable pregnancy. I go back to my doctor on Friday to discuss the results, they wanted to be sure it was not ectopic

I didn't take part much beyond the Ladies in Waiting check in the last time around, I will try to be a more active member this time.

BFP #1 05/03/12 DD: 12/18/12
BFP #2 05/26/14 MMC: 6/26/14 D&C: 7/18/14
BFP #3 10/09/14 MC 10/24/14


Re: Reintro

  • I am so sorry.

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  • I'm so sorry for you losses.  Thinking of you.
    TTC #1 Since July 2014 
     BFP 7.25.14~ EDD 4.8.15 
    MMC 9.22.14 @ 11w5d Baby Measured 8w2d
    Two failed doses of Misoprostal  D&C 9.25.14
  • I am very sorry you find yourself back here.  I hope you get the answers you need on Friday.  
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    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
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  • I am so sorry that you have had to return.  Hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry you find yourself here again. ((Hugs))




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  • I'm so sorry you find yourself back here.   ((((((HUGS))))))
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    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

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  • So sorry for your loss
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I have found great reassurance and support here, even when I go through periods where I cannot be as active as I'd like to be. I am so sorry you are going through this again. <<<<hugs>>>>
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    Miscarriages are labor, miscarriages are birth. To consider them less dishonors the woman whose womb has held life, however briefly.
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  • So sorry you find yourself back here :(
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    BFP #2 : 11/27/2014 EDD 8/7/2015, MMC diagnosis 1/5/15, NMC 1/7/15...loss due to Trisomy 3 
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  • Sorry for your loss. 

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  • Sorry for your loss

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. (Hugs)

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    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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  • I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.

    Make sure your doctor continues to monitor your betas. I had a very similar situation with my loss...bfp, bleeding a week later, slow rising betas, no sign of pregnancy on 2 ultrasounds, but then at 7w6d, they were finally able to see something in my tube. I had assumed I miscarried once I had the bleeding, but I'm glad we continued to monitor the situation because it could've ended up much worse.

    Again, I'm sorry you're going through this.


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

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  • BethKate2 said:

    I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.

    Make sure your doctor continues to monitor your betas. I had a very similar situation with my loss...bfp, bleeding a week later, slow rising betas, no sign of pregnancy on 2 ultrasounds, but then at 7w6d, they were finally able to see something in my tube. I had assumed I miscarried once I had the bleeding, but I'm glad we continued to monitor the situation because it could've ended up much worse.

    Again, I'm sorry you're going through this.

    Thank you for the advice. They did more blood work yesterday to see if they have gone down yet. Hopefully they have (so sad what you have to hope for). I plan to ask them to continue monitoring until they are at zero, or close. Last time I was under the belief that my betas were at zero 2 weeks post d&c (had been told they were "normal") only to still get a positive test 5 weeks after my d&c. Turns out my nurse's definition of normal was 134, vs the 30 000 before the d&c. :S

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    BFP #2 05/26/14 MMC: 6/26/14 D&C: 7/18/14
    BFP #3 10/09/14 MC 10/24/14


  • I'm so sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))
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    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • I am so sorry. :::HUGS:::
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  • @BethKate2 I wanted to update you since you mentioned the similarities in our losses. Thankfully my HCG levels dropped from 1500 on Friday to 197 on Monday. So an ectopic has been ruled out. I am so thankful they were monitoring me as you had said and everything checked out.

    BFP #1 05/03/12 DD: 12/18/12
    BFP #2 05/26/14 MMC: 6/26/14 D&C: 7/18/14
    BFP #3 10/09/14 MC 10/24/14


  • @BethKate2 I wanted to update you since you mentioned the similarities in our losses. Thankfully my HCG levels dropped from 1500 on Friday to 197 on Monday. So an ectopic has been ruled out. I am so thankful they were monitoring me as you had said and everything checked out.
    As awful as the situation is, I'm glad to hear you were able to rule out an ectopic.


     

    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

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  • I'm sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. I'm glad ectopic was ruled out *hugs*
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • Sorry :(
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here again. I hope you are able to get some answers (((hugs)))
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
  • I'm so sorry for your losses. Welcome back. :(
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
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    BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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