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No support?

sbrynnesbrynne member
in June 2015 Moms
Is anyone else going through this without any support?! I was raped and found out I was pregnant 2 weeks ago. Considered all my options but it's not fair to this baby to give it any less than the best! So I'm pretty much doing this alone and gearing up to give it to someone who wants it desperately and deserves it! Bc it deserves the world.
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  • scorpio2124scorpio2124 member
    Wow, I am so sorry to hear that. I have someone close to me that dealt with a similar situation, you are more than welcome to dm me if you need anything.
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  • TrampslikeusTrampslikeus member
    Very sorry to hear that.  Do you have family members or good friends you can lean on?  It doesn't have to be a romantic partner.  There was a post last week with other single moms - I know your situation is different, but they might be a good group of ladies to connect with.

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  • Mama-BearMama-Bear member
    I'm sorry you're going through this.  Hopefully your family will be be supportive as time passes.  

    GSx1 - 05/13/2013
    GSx2 for T&B - EDD 6/21/2015 - They're having a GIRL!
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  • lilninny2lilninny2 member
    I'm so sorry to hear that but you're a great person to go thru with the pregnancy and want to give that baby a chance. That must be incredibly hard, I couldn't imagine. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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  • tinavonsparkletinavonsparkle member
    You sound like a very brave, very special lady. Wishing you lots of love and positive energy x x x
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  • adorebeladorebel member
    scorpio2124, I just wanted to throw in that I'm adopted myself and am grateful every day for the woman who carried me and gave me to my loving parents. What you're doing is amazing. 
    Rainbow Baby? {2.1.21}
    MC at 8 weeks {EDD 9.2.20}
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    Baby boy, lost at 16 weeks {EDD 6.10.15}


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  • brody624brody624 member
    I don't even know you, but I am so incredibly proud of you!! You are so brave! My best friend's mom was raped and kept the baby.  Adoption is a beautiful thing, and you will make a family so happy!!! I wish you all the love and support you need for this journey, and giving birth won't be the end of it I'm sure!! Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers!
    Lauren
    Me: 25 Hubby: 28
    Married 7.20.13
    Baby #1 EDD 6/20/15 based on DOC



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  • sbrynnesbrynne member
    Wow! I am so overwhelmed by all the sweet comments! I actually met with an agency today! It's all completely overwhelming and scary and hard. I'm confident that I am doing what's best for my baby but I guess hormones make me a complete mess. Thank you for all the kindness!
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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    I am so sorry for what you've been through. I am blown away by the fact that you've been through this & have a great attitude. I can't imagine. I hope that your family can be a support to you. If you are looking into adoption as an option, maybe a local agency has some sort of group you can be a part of? I wish you all the best. 

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
    "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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  • mmmslymmmsly member
    Wow...I am so sorry for what happened! But you are an AWESOME woman!

     



     



     


                                                              


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  • gulunaguluna member
    Wow .. Be strong and this time will pass soon. You are a brave woman and we are all proud of you
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