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bakerwoman1bakerwoman1 member
edited October 2014 in TTC After a Loss
Hello ladies! I'm sorry that we've got to meet here, but thankful for you, as the support from women who have gone through the same thing has been most helpful.

A little about me: I'm 33. My first pregnancy ended 9/22 in a mmc at 11w5d, baby measured 8w2d with no heartbeat. Took misoprostal twice with no luck, so had a d&c on 9/25. Waiting on my first af.

My husband has been so incredible and so many women have supported me along the way. It's something i never thought would happen (of course)...and here I am, part of such a large group, many of which I had no idea had experienced this as well.

Good luck to everyone, I hope to be a support here, as I know I'll need it as well.
TTC #1 Since July 2014 
 BFP 7.25.14~ EDD 4.8.15 
MMC 9.22.14 @ 11w5d Baby Measured 8w2d
Two failed doses of Misoprostal  D&C 9.25.14
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  • mara005mara005 member
    Sorry for your loss, Welcome to the board.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!     

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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome to the board. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • PinkCaminoPinkCamino member
    I'm so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here. Welcome to the best place nobody ever wants to be.
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    Welcome to the board, and I'm so sorry that you are here.
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • RachaeleighRachaeleigh member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome

    4 Losses (2003, 2008, Apr 2012, & Oct 2012)
    All RPL and IF testing with multiple REs = normal

    5 IUIs = BFN

    All AL are welcome
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    Sorry for your loss and welcome to the board. Lots of support here!
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • nikiswimrnikiswimr member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, I'm pretty new here as well. Welcome.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

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  • meredithcarolemeredithcarole member
    I am very sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

    Working on our rainbow!

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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • Km380Km380 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss. My story is very similar to yours. I'm also 33 and lost my first pregnancy to a mmc in August. We also found out at 11w that baby stopped growing at 8w. Had a D&C 8/19. I am happy you found this place, it's a great place to get and give support.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • FutureMrsWright2012FutureMrsWright2012 member
    Sorry for your loss, but welcome. 
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    TTC since 3/2012 
    DH - 34; nml swimmers; Me - 34; sinking AMH (now 0.55), low AFC, nml FSH/LH 
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN 
    Bonus info: me - low TNF, low vitamin D, borderline low IGF (all improving) 
    IVF (May/June2014) 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11) - no frosties. 
    + HPT 8dp5dt. Beta #1 - 71(6/20). Beta #2 381 (6/24) 
    U/S 7/11 (one perfect little bean, HB 150's). EDD 3/1/2015
    Baby boy Lincoln Alexander's HB stopped at 18w and was delivered at 19w (10/3/2014)
    All testing normal/negative including normal chromosomes - no answers... D&C 11/20/2014
    IVF#2 coming in Spring 2015
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  • jms627jms627 member
    I'm so sorry for your losses.  Welcome to the board!

    ***Siggy Warning - loss mentioned***

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    ME: 32   DH: 38

    BFP#1 - 7/18/14; EDD 3/23/14; MMC 8/11/14 (passed naturally on 8/17/14)

    BFP#2 - 12/29/14; EDD 9/10/15 *PLEASE BE OUR RAINBOW!*

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  • ImJessesGirlImJessesGirl member
    So sorry for your loss! I'm 33 also!
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    Me: 33 DH: 31
    DD: 10 (born August 2004)
    Married 03/01/14
    TTC#2
    BFP: 05/17/2014 EDD: 1/25/15 MMC: 06/30/2014
    BFP: 01/31/15 MMC: 02/25/15 





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  • TashaCNTashaCN member
    Sorry for your loss. Hopefully you find comfort and support here. 
     Me: 30, DH: 30. Dating since 2007- Married: 5/18/13. 
    BFP: 9/3/14, Found out we had triplets 10/10/14,  EDD: 5/14/15, Confirmed MMC: 10/14/14. D&C: 10/16/14.
    Formerly TashaCN and wonderigwhatmyfutureholds

    All AL welcome. 
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  • foodie12rnfoodie12rn member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome
    To the board. You will find an amazing group of women here!
    Me: 28, DH: 33
    Married 10.12.11
     BFP #1: 5.30.12- Giannna, born 1.27.13
    BFP #2: 9.18.14- due 6.1.15 -- natural m/c @ 5w6d 
    BFP #3 11.2.14- due 7.16.14 -- mmc, d&c @ 10w1d

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  • uromysuromys member
    Welcome. I'm sorry for your loss.

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • negritosmaminegritosmami member
    Wow similar to what @ctk181‌ said....my story is also similar! 33..mmc at exactly 12weeks(or 11weeks and 5 days..they hadn't settled on edd yet) and the baby stopped growing at 8weeks 2days!! Horrible thing to have in common! But ur right..having support is so important! ! Sorry for your loss and welcome

    ~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
    ~BFP #1 6/2014      EDD 2/11/15
    ~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014  

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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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  • AnnaInmanAnnaInman member
    Welcome to the board and I'm sorry for your loss. I am also 33 and new as well. We just lost our son at 14wks this past Saturday 10/18/14.
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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    I am sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

    December 4                     image

    Married-1/2012
    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

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  • mustlovedogs63mustlovedogs63 member
    I'm so sorry you are joining us, but welcome, take care of yourself
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  • lovemybellaglovemybellag member
    Welcome and sorry for your loss.

    me = 32  DH = 33

    TFAS  

    BFP2 august 2014 ended in m/c .... Gone but not forgotten....forever in my heart!

    Slight MFI low count, morph, mobility

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  • kyliehopefulkyliehopeful member
    Welcome to this board and sorry for your loss. (Hugs)
    Married to a wonderful man

    TTC since 2001

    4 losses - last one in september 2014 (9 weeks - male trisomy 15)

    High FSH and low ovarian reserve

    Ever hopeful that one day my dreams will come true
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  • bakerwoman1bakerwoman1 member
    Thank you all for the warm welcome!
    TTC #1 Since July 2014 
     BFP 7.25.14~ EDD 4.8.15 
    MMC 9.22.14 @ 11w5d Baby Measured 8w2d
    Two failed doses of Misoprostal  D&C 9.25.14
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  • bakerwoman1bakerwoman1 member
    crimpgirl said:
    So sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. We miscarried last month when I was 33 (34 now) and if one more person says to me "you still have time" I will skip the throat punch and go right to ripping out their throat so they can never say that again to anyone. You aren't alone on this horrible journey to be on.
    Right?!  Oh good, we still have time!  Can I just say I love the term "throat punch"!

    I'm sorry for your loss.  peace.
    TTC #1 Since July 2014 
     BFP 7.25.14~ EDD 4.8.15 
    MMC 9.22.14 @ 11w5d Baby Measured 8w2d
    Two failed doses of Misoprostal  D&C 9.25.14
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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Hope AF shows up soon. Welcome
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • schuebjaschuebja member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, welcome to the board
    Together since April 2004.  Married since June 19th, 2010.
     BFP #1: January 31st 2012: CP. 
     BFP #2: June 1st 2012, Due:2/8/13. Avery was born via unplanned c section on 2/13/13. 
     BFP #3: Sept. 25th, 2014. Due: 6/5/15.  MMC on 10/23/14. Confirmed complete molar pregnancy per D&C 10/29/14, 
    HCG officially negative 12/10/14.  Benched until June 2015.
                                                        
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