Good morning ladies. I have been silently stalking this board for a while now and figured it was time to say hello.
After a couple of years of infertility I would would come over here to get some hope. You all have gotten me through some rough times so thank you.
DH and I always knew that if we were unsuccessful with IVF then adoption was our next steps. Well here we are after 2 failed fresh IVFs and 3 failed frozen cycles. We still have 1 foot in the IVF room and 1 foot in adoption. We are giving it it one more go because we have amazing insurance and we feel like we would always wonder. But our hearts tell us adoption is the path that will lead us to our family.
I've been in contact with some.agencies and have been reading Adoption For Dummies. We want to go with private domestic adoption and so we are just trying to collect as much information as possible. We live on Long Island and Any advice or recommendations are welcomed!
She spent hours with our son's mom talking to her and helping her understand the surrender papers and amending them so she felt like they provided the most protection to her.
Welcome! I hope your journey is fast and easy as possible. I can't offer advice as I've never been where you are, but if you ever need perspective from the othervside, I'm your gal.
Birthmom to A, 1/8- the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.
A Journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. -Lao-Tzu
Re: A little intro
She spent hours with our son's mom talking to her and helping her understand the surrender papers and amending them so she felt like they provided the most protection to her.
"Even miracles take a little time"