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Slight Vent

jenn.schottjenn.schott member
in TTC After a Loss

***Early in the struggle - please don't take this as anything but a personal vent**

 

I just want to either have AF or a BFP! Now that we have had decided to TTC, of course my body decides that it doesn't want to cooperate. My cycles have been regular all week and my cycles are 35 days long. I am now on day 44 of my cycle with no sight of AF - not even tinting. I have taken several pregnancy tests (including different brands) with no avail. Called my OBGYN and she set an appointment for Nov. 6th to talk infertility. I hate being in this in between zone.

Just so frustrating!

Married my rock - April 29, 2011
BFP - June 4, 2011 EDD February 3, 2012
Super T born @ 37 weeks - January 13, 2012
Super T diagnosed with stage IV high risk Neuroblastoma nmyc-amp - January 2, 2013
Super T cancer free - June 19, 2013
Super T relapsed - January 2, 2014
Super T earned his angel wings - January 3, 2014
 
TTC for #2 beginning November 2014
BFP #2 - Chemical Pregnancy - Confirmed May 29, 2015
Diagnosed with PCOS; HSG - Clear; SA - Clear
Clomid #1 - BFN
Femera Cycle #2 - BFN
Femera Cycle #3 - BFP 11/10/15 - EDD 07/14/16
 
 
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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Re: Slight Vent

  • jenn.schottjenn.schott member
    Thank you. I have not started charting yet. With my son, we got pregnant as soon as we started trying and since our loss was not due to pregnancy issues I was not anticipating significant issues. I guess I am just jumping the gun but the OBGYN making the infertility appointment (and 2.5 weeks away) completely freaks me out.
    Married my rock - April 29, 2011
    BFP - June 4, 2011 EDD February 3, 2012
    Super T born @ 37 weeks - January 13, 2012
    Super T diagnosed with stage IV high risk Neuroblastoma nmyc-amp - January 2, 2013
    Super T cancer free - June 19, 2013
    Super T relapsed - January 2, 2014
    Super T earned his angel wings - January 3, 2014
     
    TTC for #2 beginning November 2014
    BFP #2 - Chemical Pregnancy - Confirmed May 29, 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS; HSG - Clear; SA - Clear
    Clomid #1 - BFN
    Femera Cycle #2 - BFN
    Femera Cycle #3 - BFP 11/10/15 - EDD 07/14/16
     
     
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • jenn.schottjenn.schott member
    Thank you all. I have been off of BC since January but actively trying a couple of months (other months we were indifferent). I am 31. I will def try charting as that is new area for me.
    Married my rock - April 29, 2011
    BFP - June 4, 2011 EDD February 3, 2012
    Super T born @ 37 weeks - January 13, 2012
    Super T diagnosed with stage IV high risk Neuroblastoma nmyc-amp - January 2, 2013
    Super T cancer free - June 19, 2013
    Super T relapsed - January 2, 2014
    Super T earned his angel wings - January 3, 2014
     
    TTC for #2 beginning November 2014
    BFP #2 - Chemical Pregnancy - Confirmed May 29, 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS; HSG - Clear; SA - Clear
    Clomid #1 - BFN
    Femera Cycle #2 - BFN
    Femera Cycle #3 - BFP 11/10/15 - EDD 07/14/16
     
     
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    edited October 2014
    Sorry to hear that you are going through this.

    Women on here are wise. You have been given good advice.  

    Question for women who have been here longer...

    So I know they say if you are TTC for 1 yr without luck, a Dr. appt is a good idea.   6 months or over 35 without luck-Dr appt.  When I first came, I asked a question and a smart woman (who I like to think is my TB mentor) told me that the clock starts over after MC. I don't have any IF insurance coverage, so that doesn't matter. Would you agree that waiting another year is warranted? Even with tempting? It just seems like that is a really long time to wait.  

    December 4                     image

    Married-1/2012
    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    Thanks for clarifying @wickedsugar

    December 4                     image

    Married-1/2012
    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

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  • jenn.schottjenn.schott member
    Thank you ladies for all of the advise. I did not make the fertility appointment, my OBGYN did. I just called concerned that AF hasn't shown her face. I agree that it is too early to start talking infertility
    Married my rock - April 29, 2011
    BFP - June 4, 2011 EDD February 3, 2012
    Super T born @ 37 weeks - January 13, 2012
    Super T diagnosed with stage IV high risk Neuroblastoma nmyc-amp - January 2, 2013
    Super T cancer free - June 19, 2013
    Super T relapsed - January 2, 2014
    Super T earned his angel wings - January 3, 2014
     
    TTC for #2 beginning November 2014
    BFP #2 - Chemical Pregnancy - Confirmed May 29, 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS; HSG - Clear; SA - Clear
    Clomid #1 - BFN
    Femera Cycle #2 - BFN
    Femera Cycle #3 - BFP 11/10/15 - EDD 07/14/16
     
     
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • ImJessesGirlImJessesGirl member
    After my loss, it took a few months before AF came back.
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    Me: 33 DH: 31
    DD: 10 (born August 2004)
    Married 03/01/14
    TTC#2
    BFP: 05/17/2014 EDD: 1/25/15 MMC: 06/30/2014
    BFP: 01/31/15 MMC: 02/25/15 





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