sleep deprived and frickin angry!

atj13ne

While I feel fortunate to not have much nausea yet (as I had more than enough for several months with my first 2), but I am always so irritable and mad, I freaked out bc my bf didnt cook my noodles right, and cant stand the way he breathes when I am awake at night bc I cant sleep...EVER! is anyone else having anything similar? And how are you dealing? I dont want to always snap at him..but its hard right now.

MrsFriede

I'm barely sleeping as we'll even though I'm SOOOO TIRED!!! I have only snapped when DH tried to touch my boobs for the thousandth time. They look good, I get it, but they hurt so bad... Also he had a chocolate cake in the fridge for work and when I saw it I cried because I couldn't have any. How ridiculous is that...

HawaiianSunset09

I haven't slept in days and it's really making me a bitch.

jmw46

I am having a terrible time sleeping as well.  I haven't slept through the night since I got pregnant (I'm 7 weeks today).  It's making the fatigue so much worse! It's hard not to be grumpy when you're sleep deprived!

mollymargaret1

Ditto!! My hubby and I are actually going to bed at separate times to try and help me sleep. Also I got a humidifier (I live in Colorado so super dry) also I have been using sleepy time tea in the shower - put a tea bag in the corner and it kinda aromatherapies a bit. Hope these help!

allifiedler91

I've been sleeping fine,but still tired constantly. Mostly, it's my coworkers I've been snapping at. Especially the ones who chew loudly in the breakroom. I also cried watching Frozen with my students the other day.

atj13ne

@mollymargaret1‌ Thanks for the teabag tip! I will try that!
@allifiedler91‌ And yes chewing loudly is sooo annoying! ! Glad im not alone! Hopefully this subsides for all of us!

Schnurette

lol oooh my god I seriously laid awake last night for HOURS because DH's breathing was driving me nuts, and then he started snoring

There was a tiny part of my brain wondering how sane I am if breathing is starting to irritate me.

I also got really frustrated with how he was eating when we went out for dinner the other day. He was like, snarfing his food down like he thought it was going to get away and in my head all I could think was that he looked crazy and people must be staring at us thinking "What on EARTH is going on there?"   And it made me queasy so that didn't help.

missphil

Lol you guys- same here! I am annoyed at all my coworkers at work! With my husband it's fine because he's very attentive, but at work I am snapping! And my boobs hurt like crazy! My husband is afraid to touch them hahahaha

finchfeeder80

Oh, I kind of unloaded on my husband last night. He doesn't work on Wednesdays, and he took Tuesday off because it was his birthday. So basically he's been at work one day in the past five and I STILL had to unload the dishwasher and wash new dirty dishes. He also did not go out and get cat food, after specifically commenting the day before that they were almost out. To make matters worse, he was napping when I got home. I gave him the naggy speech about how crap is it that I've been gone for 12 hours (I go to the gym before work) and it's not fair that I still have to do all the things. I haven't taken it easy in almost two weeks. I've got to get some rest somewhere. 

I'm glad to hear I'm not the only one no longer sleeping through the night. I was wondering if that was normal or not. I woke up twice last night to pee. Ugh. 

My husband's chewing also earned him a dirty look recently. 

wtbratcher

Yes. I usually end up going to sleep in the spare room. He gets upset when he wakes and I'm not there but I need my sleep. Luckily, he gets over it.

erbear84

Get a white noise machine!  I can't sleep without it.  It'll come in handy for the baby, too.

I've been having a hard time falling asleep after getting up to pee and I keep getting too hot in the middle of the night.  But at least H isn't driving me nuts!

atj13ne

Lol! I feel so much better knowing I Am not the only one. I hope everyone sleeps well tonight!

jrush89

You have all just summed up everything I've been feeling! Fingers crossed for all of us that this is a short phase

Frogger5

Schnurette said:

lol oooh my god I seriously laid awake last night for HOURS because DH's breathing was driving me nuts, and then he started snoring

There was a tiny part of my brain wondering how sane I am if breathing is starting to irritate me.

I also got really frustrated with how he was eating when we went out for dinner the other day. He was like, snarfing his food down like he thought it was going to get away and in my head all I could think was that he looked crazy and people must be staring at us thinking "What on EARTH is going on there?"   And it made me queasy so that didn't help.

I admire your restraint! I'm feeling super irritable these last few days, and probably would have made a scene right there.

My husband decided that 5:40 this morning was a good time to clip his toenails. I had tossed and turned all night long, and it felt like I'd just finally fallen asleep. Then . . . SNIP! SNIP!

RedRaiderLaura

Some of y'all crack me up!! Snip snip is hilarious!!
Super irritable the last 2 days. Possibly because I'm up at 4 am for the third night in a row to pee (at exactly 4 am??) and I'm wide awake every time after I pee, but then fall back asleep and can't get good and awake in the morning. Or possibly it's just hormones. Whatever the reason, I'm snapping at my husband and kids. I made my son cry yesterday. I can't stand people touching me right now. Or anyone's breath, even good breath. My son keeps trying to wrestle with me so here I am tired, cranky, and gagging over smells and I have a 5 year old on my head trying to tackle me breathing in my face. Yesterday after asking him to stop a million times I threw (yes threw him!! Who throws their kid??) off my head and onto the bed in front of me and crazy person yelled "Get off my head!!" He cried. I sat down with him and held him and apologized and tried to comfort him, but I had to force myself to do it.
Last night my daughter got sick and I spent the evening heaving and gagging as I tried to clean it. My husband came in and "saved the day" cleaning about the last 1/4 of it and thinking he was my hero for that. I'm like "I already did the worst part. Without the gloves." Then he tried to play fight me. Seriously?? I've been trying to get son to stop all day!! I pushed him away hard and totally went off on him. Luckily, this is not our first time through pregnancy b**chyness so he just laughed at me. I got on pinterest and had to turn it off. Everything was making me cry. I was annoying myself!!

mmmsly

the bitchiness has definately reared its ugly head. but i did get a call from my hubby saying his mama sent me a "make-up" gift. She outed me to my SIL...well found out it was really my SIL that was pestering her to death about it....so now not quite as mad at my MIL but now mad at my SIL. Also if she thinks she gets some kind of special announcement.umm...wrong. You had to act like a teenager and ruin it so you dont get anything special.

atj13ne

Hahaha...my kids are pissing my off lately too! Of course they dont mean too, mostly my son bc he is just a ball of energy and always wants to play, then I have got my bf who I think may have took on some of my hormones??? Wth? I feel like he is all stuck in his feelings and sensitive! Im tired crabby and just started feeling sick and he doesnt get why I may not want to jump up and have sex at the end of the day! So his feelings are hurt bc I shut him down and am cabby...uuuuuggghh what to do! ? Date night is supposed to be tonight and this girl just wants to watch lifetime and rest..wish this would go away!

atj13ne

ps...spoons clinking cereal bowls at 7am after no sleep???? Oh my word....so annoying

alexajaga

The first week I sleept a lot, but yesterday and today I have been waking in the middle of the night (it's 2:36am). I hope it doesn't stay like this for long. But I'm also crying for very silly things, so I start crying and then I calm myself letting me know it's just my hormons, and then it turns into laughing at my silly crying. What a roller coaster!

tachycardicdoll

atj13ne said:

ps...spoons clinking cereal bowls at 7am after no sleep???? Oh my word....so annoying

Lol. Sorry to laugh. But I understand. My only issue with sleep right now besides I'm not getting enough.. is once a night on one of my many pee runs... I'm wide awake. And hungry like I've never eaten.