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miscarriage week 12

monicababayov1monicababayov1 member
edited October 2014 in TTC After a Loss
hey gurls!
im pretty new here. i had a miscarriage about 3 weeks ago. it was my first pregnancy and i was in week 12. it was the worst time of my life. i just started bleeding really heavily and had to go to the hospital. it was awful. and so much pain. the worst pain wasn't the physical but the emotional.
my husband and i have been married about 5 months. and we've been actively trying to conceive since day one. I know 5 months is not a long time but i feel so desperate to get pregnant now. i feel so empty inside without my little angel. i just want to get pregnant again. i hope really really soon.
i would love to hear your advice and tips please share ♡ :-h
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Re: miscarriage week 12

  • uromysuromys member
    I'm sorry to hear of your loss. We know the feeling all to well. The longing to still be pregnant. The best advice I have received from these wonderful ladies is to give your body time to heal. Physically its easier for some, but emotionally is where I had my struggle. Wishing you the very best in your jorney.

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • Cheetara2Cheetara2 member
    Sorry for your loss and welcome! Not much advice from me except to just take it one day at a time. 

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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • kittymeowbarkkittymeowbark member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss. GL and lots of hugs!
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1~  EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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  • Elliecat17Elliecat17 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Give yourself time to heal. Welcome to the board!
    Me: 24 
    DH: 25
    BFP: 1/12/14       EDD: 9/18/14     MC: 1/15/14
    BFP: 5/6/14         EDD: 1/5/15       MC: 5/10/14
    BFP: 12/29/14      EDD: 9/12/15      MC: 1/5/15
    Dx: PCOS - 8/20/14, Hashimoto's - 10/10/14, Gluten Allergy 10/10/14


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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I'm sorry for your loss, welcome. I'm with the other ladies, take the time to heal. Not only physically but mentally. Sometimes you just want to jump right back in.

    Good luck to you!
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



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  • jms627jms627 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss - welcome to the board.

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    BFP#1 - 7/18/14; EDD 3/23/14; MMC 8/11/14 (passed naturally on 8/17/14)

    BFP#2 - 12/29/14; EDD 9/10/15 *PLEASE BE OUR RAINBOW!*

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  • laswettlaswett member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. 
    Me: 28 DBF: 30
    BFP#1 07/10/14 EDD 3/14/15 Diagnosed with Blighted Ovum 08/18/14
    BFP#2  3/17/15 EDD 11/22/15
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  • kyliehopefulkyliehopeful member
    I'm sorry for your loss. (Hugs)
    Married to a wonderful man

    TTC since 2001

    4 losses - last one in september 2014 (9 weeks - male trisomy 15)

    High FSH and low ovarian reserve

    Ever hopeful that one day my dreams will come true
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  • rslh10rslh10 member
    I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board. I would also like to echo what pp have stated. It is very important for you to take time to heal emotionally and physically. Have you spoken with your doctor about when you're cleared to TTC? I know you feel the desire to be pregnant again asap, but it is important for you to follow your dr.'s orders. ((hugs))
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    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
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  • jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    I am sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board.

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    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

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  • FutureMrsWright2012FutureMrsWright2012 member
    Welcome and so sorry about your loss. I lost my little boy at 18 weeks a couple weeks ago, and I, too, struggle daily with the fact that he's no longer here. I wish you peace as you continue to heal emotionally and physically. 
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    DH - 34; nml swimmers; Me - 34; sinking AMH (now 0.55), low AFC, nml FSH/LH 
    Clomid + IUI #1 (6/2013) - BFN; #2 (7/2013) - BFFN 
    Bonus info: me - low TNF, low vitamin D, borderline low IGF (all improving) 
    IVF (May/June2014) 5R/5F/2T (ET 6/11) - no frosties. 
    + HPT 8dp5dt. Beta #1 - 71(6/20). Beta #2 381 (6/24) 
    U/S 7/11 (one perfect little bean, HB 150's). EDD 3/1/2015
    Baby boy Lincoln Alexander's HB stopped at 18w and was delivered at 19w (10/3/2014)
    All testing normal/negative including normal chromosomes - no answers... D&C 11/20/2014
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  • hullabalouhullabalou member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    Married 6/2013, TTC 9/2013.
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    MC 12/2013, Blighted Ovum 04/2014, CP 06/2014
    Began RPL testing 07/2014
    BFP #4 10/26/2014; Theo born 07/2015
    BFP #5 06/17/2017, EDD 02/28/18


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  • monicababayov1monicababayov1 member
    thank you everyone for the love! i know i need time to heal but the best treatment i think is to try again. i think I've processed what happend and the sorrow is still there but it's getting better day by day. i will let my body do what it needs to do. if i get pregnant again i will be thrilled G-D willing.
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