Again Jenn, I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. ((Hugs)) I really really hate that you are here - I cannot even begin to imagine what you and your family went through. I went to bed thinking of you last night, thinking of you on this board and I have to admit I have some concerns. Please don't take this as a sign that you are not welcomed here because you are welcomed with open arms if you are willing to stay.
I don't know your pregnancy history. So, this may be completely off base and if it is I apologize. I'm just concerned that this community might have a negative effect on you. If you haven't suffered a pregnancy loss I fear that being here might scare you, it might traumatize you and create more stress which you clearly do not need right now.
I really battled with myself - I wasn't sure if I wanted to voice this concern but felt like I would be doing you an injustice. This is a scary place that has the potential to paralyze you with more and hopefully unnecessary fear.
Please, please please understand that you are welcomed to post here as you embark on you TTC journey. ((hugs)) I just felt like this needed to be said. TTCAL although great can be a mindfuck and I wouldn't want you to suffer more than you already have.
Re: Introduction - My story is a little different
Again Jenn, I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. ((Hugs)) I really really hate that you are here - I cannot even begin to imagine what you and your family went through. I went to bed thinking of you last night, thinking of you on this board and I have to admit I have some concerns. Please don't take this as a sign that you are not welcomed here because you are welcomed with open arms if you are willing to stay.
I don't know your pregnancy history. So, this may be completely off base and if it is I apologize. I'm just concerned that this community might have a negative effect on you. If you haven't suffered a pregnancy loss I fear that being here might scare you, it might traumatize you and create more stress which you clearly do not need right now.
I really battled with myself - I wasn't sure if I wanted to voice this concern but felt like I would be doing you an injustice. This is a scary place that has the potential to paralyze you with more and hopefully unnecessary fear.
Please, please please understand that you are welcomed to post here as you embark on you TTC journey. ((hugs)) I just felt like this needed to be said. TTCAL although great can be a mindfuck and I wouldn't want you to suffer more than you already have.
~TTC #1 Since 3/2014
~BFP #1 6/2014 EDD 2/11/15
~MMC 7/31/14 @12weeks ~D&C /2/2014
IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z
TTCAL January 2015 Siggy Challenge: Animal Snow Interactions