Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

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Hi ladies, I've been lurking around here since we got the news last Thursday that our baby had no heartbeat. We had been getting bad news all week when my betas started declining. I was 6w4d.
We have been trying for #1 for 3.5 years. One ectopic, 2 failed IVFs, and then we got this miracle BFP on a natural cycle. It just doesn't seem fair.
I hate that were all here. Thanks for having me.
Me: 30 DH: 30 ~ TTC #1 Since August 2011 
BFP #1 2/28/13, Ectopic, Tubal surgery 3/25 
Began RE testing 8/8, Dx Unexplained, 
IUI #1 11/1=BFN Moving on to IVF 
IVF #1 12/2 ER 8R 7M 4 fertilized
12/7 Transferred 2 "perfect" little blasts 12/17 BFN
New DX= DOR, I fu*kng hate IF
1/14 Hysteroscopy, new clean uterus!
IVF #2: bcp, Lupron, follistim 300, menopur 225. 2/21 8R 4M 3F. 3dt of 2 perfect embryos. 1 little penguin 
 3/10 BFFN
Regrouping. Seeing reproductive immunologist Dr. Kwak Kim 6/10 
Kwak Kim protocol: Metformin 1000mg, vitamin D 4000iu, vitamin E 400iu, baby aspirin, Metanx, levothyroxine 75mcgs 
 Surprise BFP 9/21!!! Beta #1 247, Beta #2 630. Miscarried 10/13

Re: Hi

  • I'm so sorry for your losses. I know IF plus loss can be heartbreaking.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

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  • I am so sorry for your losses. (Hugs)

    Me: 31 DH: 36
    Dated Since ‘02, Married in ‘06
    BFP#1 05/16/06, EDD01/16/07, MC 06/12/06 at 8 weeks
    BFP #2 08/14/14, EDD 04/22/15, MC 09/17/14 at 9 weeks

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     My Chart

  • I'm sorry for your loss, it's hard when you have been trying for so long
    Married to a wonderful man

    TTC since 2001

    4 losses - last one in september 2014 (9 weeks - male trisomy 15)

    High FSH and low ovarian reserve

    Ever hopeful that one day my dreams will come true
  • So sorry for your loss :(
  • @missmarypoppins‌, I am so sorry to see you here! I remember you from the IF board and was so happy for you. I am so very sorry for your loss. There truly is nothing fair about IF. Take care of yourself.

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    Me: 36, DH:37

    Married 4/2010, TTC since 7/2011

    Dx: Officially Unexplained (I have Polycystic Ovaries diagnosed via ultrasound, but few classic PCOS symptoms, he has mild MF issues. So... not issue free, but nothing so severe as to explain IF)

    I also deal with post-surgical Hypothyroidism following Thyroid Cancer in 2009, but under control with Levothyroxine

    4 months Clomid (thinned lining) and 10 months Letrozole (every indication that I responded perfectly)

    6 failed IUIs in 2013, 3 with trigger

    IVF #1 in March 2014

    ER 3/21/14, 31R/21F, 12 frosties!

    ET 3/26/14, 1 perfect blast transferred: BFN

    FET#1 5/28/14, 2 "beautiful" early blasts transferred. BFP!!

    Beta #1 (6/11/14) 798; Beta #2 (6/18/14) 7,966.

    1st u/s (6/25/14) showed 2 sacs, 1 empty & 1 with a beautiful little bean doing what it needs to do!

    EDD 2/14/15, missed miscarriage, DX: Trisomy 21. D&C 8/1/14

    FET#2 Transferred 3 embies, 2 looking pretty good, one not so much. BFN.

    IVF#2 January 2015, tentative ER 1/23

  • It isn't fair.... So sorry for your losses.
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