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Intro (ticker warning)

welly01welly01 member
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Hi ladies, I've been lurking for a few days and can't decide where to jump in so I thought I'd just do it here.

I had a MMC discovered on 10/2 at 8w6d.  My doctor said the heart stopped beating just a few days past 8 weeks.  I'm not sure how much detail I should include, but we've been cleared for sex this coming Monday.  My doctor wants us to use condoms for a week and I have one final follow-up scheduled for 10/29 to make sure my levels are back to zero.  Hopefully we'll be cleared for TTC again at that point.

I'm usually a lurker but would like to be able to participate a little here.  I'm still working through how I feel.  I also don't want to screw up by asking or saying the wrong thing.  Could someone tell me if I should remove my ticker?  Are there any more details I should include in my intro (I tried to be brief)?

Thanks for listening.


                                                                                          BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                             BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                             BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                   BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                               
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Re: Intro (ticker warning)

  • rslh10rslh10 member
    Welcome to the board. I am so sorry for your loss. 
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    Hubs & I -29 • Met 5/18/04 • Married 5/8/10
    BFP #1 DS 2/7/11 (Born @ 34 wks via ECS due to Pre-e) TTC #2 since Aug '13
    DX Low AMH (.58) March '14 • FSH-7.5 • E2-35.5 (Nov '14)
    SA- Great numbers • SIS- Clear (Nov '14)
     Cycle 1- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-BFP • EDD 1/12/15 
    Ectopic @ 5w6d • Methotrexate Shot 5/18/14
    Cycle 2,3,4- Clomid CD3-7 & Trigger-- BFN
    Cycle 5- Letrozole CD3-7 & Trigger BFFN
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  • mara005mara005 member
    Welcome, I'm sorry for your loss.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!     

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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm not sure about your ticker (but I am glad to see you put in a warning in your title). Hopefully some of the more experienced ladies here can give you an answer about whether you need to remove it. I hope you can get the support you need here. There are a lot of wonderful women here.
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • ImJessesGirlImJessesGirl member
    So sorry that you've had to come here, but welcome aboard nonetheless.
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    Me: 33 DH: 31
    DD: 10 (born August 2004)
    Married 03/01/14
    TTC#2
    BFP: 05/17/2014 EDD: 1/25/15 MMC: 06/30/2014
    BFP: 01/31/15 MMC: 02/25/15 





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  • rmpar29rmpar29 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss.  Your ticker is fine and doesn't need a warning.  Welcome to the board.
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS     6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014
    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
    Sorry for your loss. ((hugs)) welcome to the board! 
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  • eliidaeliida member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome, I hope you find comfort here.
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  • Cheetara2Cheetara2 member
    Sorry for your loss. Welcome!

    IUI#3 brought us our dragon baby Z

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  • ctk181ctk181 member
    @ktlovess - Ok thanks. I'm still learning all this stuff. :-)
    Married: 4/28/12
    BFP: 7/2/14 ;  1st US 7/21/14 Baby measuring 7w5d, HB of 138;  Discovered MMC 8/18/14 at 11w2d, baby measuring 8w5d, no hb ; 8/19/14 D&C
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  • kittymeowbarkkittymeowbark member
    I am so sorry for your loss
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1~  EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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  • rubysirubysi member
    Welcome to the board. I am sorry for your loss.

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  • alm288alm288 member
    I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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  • welly01welly01 member
    ktlovess said:
    ctk181 said:
    Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm not sure about your ticker (but I am glad to see you put in a warning in your title). Hopefully some of the more experienced ladies here can give you an answer about whether you need to remove it. I hope you can get the support you need here. There are a lot of wonderful women here.
    @ctk181 - the ticker warning is unnecessary, actually. Ticker warnings actually draw attention to tickers. I rarely, if ever, notice them.

    OP, I'm sorry for your loss and welcome. As @rmpar29 said, your ticker is fine, and the warning is not needed.
    Thank you so much for clearing that up!!
                                                                                              BFP #1 3/2/12, T born 11/7/12
                                                                                                 BFP #2  7/2/14, CP 7/6/14
                                 BFP #3 8/28/14, MMC 10/2/14 @ 9wks - misoprostol 10/6/14, D&C 11/3/14 for retained tissue
                                       BFP #4 12/25/14, EDD 9/7/15 - please stick baby, you are so loved and wanted!!!!!                                                                                           
                                                                                                                                                   
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  • mkfish31mkfish31 member
    Welcome! So sorry for your loss. 
    Married since Dec 2010. TTC since Feb of 2014. 

    **BFP#1 Feb 20th. EDD October 28th, 2014. MC March 20th (7.5 wks) D&C.

    **BFP #2 May 22nd. EDD Feb 8th, 2015.   MC  July 1st, 2014 (6.5 weeks) D&C

     Heard both babies heartbeats @6w3d, 122bpm and 100bpm. Will never forget that sound!

    **BFP #3 EDD 8/21/15  Please, please be our rainbow!!

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  • nikiswimrnikiswimr member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, welcome.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

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  • MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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