TTC After a Loss

~*~June Bugs Check-In 10/14/14 ~*~

This is a weekly check-in for women who have suffered the loss of an angel with an EDD in June, no matter what the year.  You are welcome to join us, just post an intro including your EDD and the information below:


Where are you in your TTCAL journey/cycle, etc? Any updates/appointments you'd like to share?

Good luck to all of you!! If you leave for PGAL, please send me a PM so we can all congratulate you. If you are taking a bump break, please do the same!


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QOTW:  Having a hard time coming up with a question this week...you ladies have anything you want to ask?


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June Bugs:


@CheesyPeas 6/15/2011 - How are you doing this week?  Looks like a nice +OPK there.  I hope you see a nice temp shift soon!


@MrsG80inTN 6/4/2014 - I know you are on vaca so I don’t think we will see you this week, but sending you ((((HUGS))) and love!  I hope you are able to talk to your DH and see your RE soon.  I just saw your post this morning and I didn’t comment since you already know my thoughts on seeking a second opinion.  Good luck!


@kittymeowbark 6/21/2014 -  How are the Wondfo’s treating you?  Looks like a good drop there so I hope you see your rise soon!


@towncargirl 6/27/2014 -  We missed you last week.  How are you doing?


If your name is missing from above, please let me know and post an update. Some are not included as we have not heard from you in many weeks.


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TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS
6/2010
 BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

My chart here  All ALers welcome!
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June 3Missing Our January Snowflake

Re: ~*~June Bugs Check-In 10/14/14 ~*~

  • Hi @rmpar29 --How are you? Thanks for the check-in

    I have not started using the Wodfo's, since I usually have a 35 day cycle. They outlined to start using them on CD19 if cycle is 35 days. I might start on CD15 just to be on the safe side. I am not sure why my temps are so freaken all over the place. Maybe since it is getting cold at night? I did have a huge jump this morning which went from 96.6 to 97.3....I just don't get it. Last month FF gave me CH on CD17 and then moved to CD21 which my usual O time frame. I think we might just start doing EOD just to be sure.


    QOTW:  Having a hard time coming up with a question this week...you ladies have anything you want to ask?

    Are you planning on lighting a candle tomorrow at 7pm for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day?

    I will be.
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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  • @kittymeowbark - I would start them earlier just to make sure that I catch my surge.  Since they are cheap I never worried about using multiple tests.  It wouldn't hurt to start EOD just to cover all bases. 

    AFM:  I'm doing OK.  Just hanging out for another week until we are ready to TTC again, at least, I hope we are.  DH finally went to the doc and got a diagnosis that might affect these plans.  Nothing TTC-related, but we all know how meds can affect other things.  Hopefully, it doesn't derail our plans. 

    Good question!  I hadn't really thought about it either way, but I've set a reminder in my phone to do it. 
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS
    6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    June 3Missing Our January Snowflake
  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    edited October 2014

    ETA ****WARNING pregnant relatives and babies mentioned****

    Hey everyone!  Thanks for the check-in, @rmpar29.  How are you?  Everytime I look at your chart, I am impressed by your exercise schedule!  And I feel momentarily motivated.  And then it passes. :)

    @kittymeowbark, with your long LP, I would definitely start the OPKs before CD19 if I were you.

    AFM, I'm hoping that I O today.  I haven't been having much cramping like I typically do, so I hope that isn't a clue that my body is unsure.  My OPK was quite dark though, so I'm thinking my temp will be higher tomorrow.  FX! 

    I saw on FB that my cousin who had the same due date as me just had her baby.  She was team green, so I was relieved to see that she ended up having a boy.  He'll still be a reminder of how old Layla should be every time I see him but him being a girl would've made it even more difficult to watch over the years.  So far, 2 of my 4 cousins due within a month of Layla have had boys, one unfortunately had a girl, and the other is another team greener due next month.  PLEASE be a boy!!!

    QOTW:  I do plan to light a candle tomorrow night.  I'll also be making a FB post about Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.

    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • @CheesyPeas - =))  You crack me up!  I'm sorry that your body's playing some head games so I hope that your temp jumps tomorrow.  I'm so sorry that you have so many cousins due around Layla's EDD.  I hope that the last cousin has a boy too to make it a bit easier. 
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS
    6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    June 3Missing Our January Snowflake
  • @rmpar29   -- FX that your H has a clean bill of health and you are back to TTC. How do you feel about the possibility tta for longer?


    @CheesyPeas -- Hugs for all the baby's popping out. My close friend had the same EDD as me and I was hoping so hard for her not to have a girl. Of course, a week after my DE I see a video on FB of them announcing the sex....its a fucking girl :(( So I totally understand how you want everyone to have boys, so it wont hit so close. FX for CH btw


    I actually deiced to test about an hour ago and a line did appear. It was not darker than the control but it was definitely a nice visible line. Thank you ladies!
    Yelena + Rubere Married: 05/13/2011
    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
    My Chart image
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • @kittymeowbark - I'm really not too concerned about having TTA another month or two if needed for DH to get on his meds.  I don't think it's necessary, but we will see.  I'm glad that you saw a line.  They should "fade in" and get darker as you get closer to your O day.  Good luck!
    TTC #3 since 8/2012 image
    DX Endometriosis 2/2002 (lost left tube due to a cyst), PCOS
    6/2010
     BFP - 10/18/2012, EDD - 6/26/2013, Baby Girl lost at 22 weeks (T21), D&E 2/15/2013
    BFP - 4/23/2014, EDD - 1/2/2015 Twin Boys lost at 12 weeks, M/C 6/25/2014

    My chart here  All ALers welcome!
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickersLilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    June 3Missing Our January Snowflake
  • Hey! sorry I've been MIA. been really busy at work and babysitting for my co-worker. I'm doing alright getting really sick of AF tho.. she is once again 4 days late and I'm still testing negative. I give up :p


    Married since June 2012
    TTC Baby#1 Since 2012
    BFP 10-11-13 / Saw HB(110bpm) on 11-4-13 / Miscarried @ 8wks (11-18-13)
    Started Charting and TTC again Feb.2014

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