Sex poll

jane8188

how often have you having sex pp? It's really hard to make it happen when you're so tired so I'm just curious what's the norm. Other sexual acts count<eta

spinsoffresonance

LMAO at 5+ times a week. That hasn't happened since college! We were about 2, maybe 3 times a week before kids. Haven't had PP sex yet, and I had a csection.

spinsoffresonance

becole42 said:

Does doing other things besides sex pp count?

Are we talking hobbies or blowjobs and handjobs? I like to watch HGTV

jane8188

Haha yes^ I edited

ho11yday

Blow jobs and hand jobs don't count as sex. Pfft. Lol

Edit...it can, but I figure if it doesn't count toward losing your virginity, it doesn't count as sex.

jenb_99

Once a month and only because I feel obligated and I get tired of DH's whining, not bc I actually want it.

kendy20

We try for every other day, sometimes ends up being every 2-3 days but I try for his sake.

QOTR

ho11yday said:

Blow jobs and hand jobs don't count as sex. Pfft. Lol

Edit...it can, but I figure if it doesn't count toward losing your virginity, it doesn't count as sex.

It counts toward keeping the DH happy, so it counts for me !

babyaotw

I voted SS. We had sex daily until LO arrived. Now we have sex no less than three times a week, but it isn't always more than five. We strive to get in at least four days.

momo214

jenb_99 said:

Once a month and only because I feel obligated and I get tired of DH's whining, not bc I actually want it.

This is me only 1x a week. He REALLY whines.

deanna1313

My husband works 12 hour shifts and switches from days and nights and that definitely effects our sex life. We would do it more if he worked regular hours. I miss it.
I also don't feel that interested sometimes. I think it has a lot to do with my Postpartum depression. I have a lack of interest in a lot of things still. We still do it at least once a week so I guess that's not too bad.

lrmrtn

We were about once a week before LO. Now about once a month but I think it's been longer. Both of us have been really stressed out. I'm exhausted and DH is on meds that are affecting his drive.

alyssajanell5

Til: I need to have more sex. Breastfeeding still and my sex drive is no where to be found.

gypsymystic

Kimbus22 said:

Pre kids we were at 5ish times a week.  3x/wk after the first kid.  Now trying to fit it in (heh) twice a week but it's hard to have both of us awake when both kids are asleep lol

Pretty much exactly the same here. Having 2 children really cuts into sexy time. lol

theoryofwhat

What is this sex you speak of?