Frisky Fridays

herbunmyoven

Okay, so my pole was depressing and comforting in the same light. None of us are getting any, and that sucks! So my challenge to you: what are you going to do this weekend to get some skin to skin time with you SO? 

I know some of us are in the two-week-orgasam-free-wait and some of us are post-partum, but that does not mean we can't have intimate time with our partners. Can we make the commitment to at least try to make-out this weekend and see where it leads? 

herbunmyoven

And for a little light reading on the topic:https://www.curvemag.com/Curve-Magazine/Web-Articles-2013/The-Art-of-Sexual-Intimacy/

herbunmyoven

And for some more actionable tips and tricks

https://lesbianlife.about.com/od/lesbiansex/a/LesbianBedDeath.htm

Jazibel

Haha - love it!! Did my wife put you up to this?

In all seriousness - I think this is great. I would love a massage and I'm sure EV would too. Cheesy as that is I'm going to propose we exchange massages and well see what happens. ;-)

holdingThumbs

We have Defying Gravity on the weekend agenda!

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/g4090/mind-blowing-lesbian-sex-positions/?slide=6

When I break my face, I am blaming you guys!

And sorry, I know I should reintroduce myself ... maybe I will do it in GIFs!  Here is one for the weekend though:

ATXmommas

I'm up to the challenge! I think I'll try to plan a little surprise romance for after LO goes to bed tomorrow. I may even put on my fancy undies that I NEVER wear. ">

Honestly, I think part of my challenge is just being so tired all the time. As unromantic as it sounds, planning ahead for "grownup time" helps me out.

Officerofthelaw

I wish I could. I'm on my period and for me, that time is a no no. I think the problem with us is that life is just so busy, by the time I get in bed, I have 4-5 hours to sleep and have to get right back up and start my day over. I know it's important and I really wish we could be intimate more. However I do feel like cuddling and holding hands is intimate and I think that's why we get by with limited sex. I am taking the wife out on a date night to our favorite Japanese restaurant and I promised her I would take tomorrow completely off because I work every day. I am holding firm on that promise:)

bfonz619

Please explain the two-week-orgasam-free-wait.  I do not remember reading anything about this, nor did my doctor mention this when we spoke to her about our TTC plan.

herbunmyoven

@sdfonz619 our clinic has a no O between transfer and beta rule. I thought everyone had that rule...I am kind of mad!

AandStilltrying

S initiated during football this afternoon and I didn't object. I even returned the gesture and then FLAT LINE back to football!!! She said oh, it's 4th quarter and we are down one touchdown.

... Grrrr. And now she's in bed! I try to go easy on her as she is 22w prego with twins!