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C_GirlieC_Girlie member
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Some people can be so cruel and they don't even know it. So on my lunch break I was talking with some coworkers. We was discussing how some people in positions of power are complete bitches. They were talking about one lady in particular. The comment "come on now she's been married for 3 years and that's why she can't get pregnant, ha". Well at that point I was disgusted and my reaction probably showed. Now the lady she was poking holes at is suffering from unknown fertility. I know she's having trouble TTC from talking to a different coworker. Despite that comment meant for the bitchy coworker, it was like a slap in my face, cause I too am having trouble TTC. I'm having a rough day. If your interested in knowing more about my day check out @Davie813‌ thread
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  • TAT2MAMITAT2MAMI member
    That sucks! I'm sorry. Some people don't have a filter! @C_Girlie
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  • emsmama15emsmama15 member
    I'm sorry @C_Girlie.  That sucks.  People just don't think before they say stupid things.  
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    Everyone has faults some things we have no control of
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  • hooligans4hooligans4 member
    I can't stand people sometimes.

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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    So insensitive to others.
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  • obscurereferenceobscurereference member
    How insensitive. I'm sorry you had to hear that today.
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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    What a bitch.  I want to tell her off for you.
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    DH: 45
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    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
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  • Davie813Davie813 member
    Yeah, sometimes they really do.  That is a really unkind comment.  Did you say anything to educate her, or just get out of there?
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    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
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  • northernkhaleesinorthernkhaleesi member
    How horribly insensitive! People just don't think sometimes.
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  • C_GirlieC_Girlie member
    Deep down inside I wanted to say something, but in the back of my head I knew better. A lot of people at the job knows that DH & I was TTC. For about the past two months when they ask I tell them "well u know I'm a woman of a certain older age & I think my times has come & gone". That's me putting an end to all the questions. I don't want somebody to say that about me, even though I have a son. IF & in my case SIF sucks big time
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  • verdongirlverdongirl member
    :( rudeness. So sorry...
    TTC#1, I'm 37, DH 36 | Just started trying Sept 2014
    Going in for first RE appt. in October...Preparing for good or bad news. 
    Trying to be chill about the process...and not get too intense about it all. 
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  • sonpetitlapinsonpetitlapin member
    That is very rude and insensitive.  I am sorry you had to be subjected to such low class behavior.  
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  • siennamomsiennamom member
    yeah, agree with PP...some people have no tact.  i'm sorry you had to hear that...

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  • CML11CML11 member
    I'm sorry. Those that don't know what IF is like just cannot comprehend the struggle. I'm so sorry for the hurtful comments.
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