February 2014 Moms

SAHM Check-In

@meghan14 is OOT this week, and we hope she's having a wonderful trip! I hope you're all having a great week, and I'm looking forward to reading your responses!

What were your successes this week?

What was your biggest challenge or struggle this week?

What helped save your sanity?

Topic for the week:  We know moms don't really get sick days. How do you handle being at home with your LO(s) if you're not feeling well? How does your DH/SO help out? What's your plan?

GTKY:  What is the most embarrassing song you could sing all the words to? Your guilty pleasure music? The radio station you only listen to when you're alone in the car?

Feel free to bring up any other thoughts, feelings, or concerns you are having.  

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  • SadieC20SadieC20 member
    edited October 2014
    Success: Treated all bagged clothing for bed bugs and returned them to our dressers/closets. (Bed bugs suck!...literally)

    Stresses: LO still won't take naps in his crib. Either I keep putting him there and he cries and I have an overtired baby or I have to lay down with him for every nap, which means I get nothing done all day.

    Weekly Topic: Last time I was sick, my DH was out of town, so I turned my living room floor into a bed, play area and diaper changing station. My LO and I snuggled on the floor for 2 days and I had all meals delivered. My son's more mobile now so I'm not sure he'd be as good at snuggling if I were to get sick now. But having as much of the stuff I needed close to me so I wasn't constantly moving up and down, room to room, definitely helped.

    GTKY: We've been listening to a lot of Disney radio lately and even though I wasn't a huge fan of Frozen, the songs have started to stick in my head.
  • @madisonpenny Sorry you're dealing with a cold! But I hope you can enjoy your night away from LO and have some time to relax. Happy Birthday!

    @bmbrinson I'll be thinking of you as you pack and move. I get teary when I think of moving from this house. Congrats on your good grade! Are you on break now or do you have more classes? I won't lie... I was rocking out to BSB on my drive home today!

    @joybaby5 I just muttered to myself on Sunday that we've got to pick up the vacuuming here. Between cats and shoes and spit up and baby, the carpet gets dirty fast. It's got to happen more often, at least in the living room. 

    @bookshelves I'm glad you're going to see an LC. I hope she'll be able to be helpful. My LC saved my nursing life. Like you, I know I could wean anytime, but I just am not ready. It seems you've gotten some good tips about your H, but I can be helpful about the car ride. Over the summer, I took LO to NC (12 hour car ride), 1000 Islands (5 hour ride), and Pittsburgh (4 hour ride). My biggest tip is to have someone sitting in the backseat with LO who is willing to engage LO. I kept a big supply of toys so he didn't just play with one or two the whole time. I also put some Baby Einstein videos on the iPad. My LO loves those, and when he started to go berserk during a traffic situation, they were a lifesaver! Be flexible. You'll both be great on this trip!

    Hi @sadiec20! Welcome to this check-in! Are you planning to be a more regular member of F14? Do you have a crib soother? We got one, and LO loves it. He watches it and drifts off to sleep. (Okay, not always, but he does love it, and it has helped us.)


    @armfruit I hope you'll post some pics of your new house!! I'm so excited to see. I'm happy your MIL has been helpful. From what I read from the ladies of F14 who are moving/have moved, it's so, so, so much work. I've never moved as a married lady or mommy, and I'm kind of dreading it. 
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  • @buffaluffagus Uh, is there something wrong with Semi-Charmed Life? Because if there is, I don't want to be right. On a serious note, I think it's so, so important for all of us to remember we're not alone. I freaked out last night because of sleeping/napping, but what I really learned is that there are a dozen+ moms that are in the same boat. It's comforting to me that we're all second guessing ourselves and struggling with the same things. It means, for me, that I'm not breaking my baby with yogurt or an 8:30 bedtime or whatever. Keep on keeping on, mama. 
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  • Sorry I'm late to the game! Yesterday was crazy! 

    @Madisopenny Hope LO's sleep over goes well. I'm counting down the months until I feel like we can ask my MIL to do that while we get away! Building a house was something I wanted to do, but we didn't have the time or all the money when it came right to it. We do "get" to completely relandscape our backyard that is all weeds. That's kind of like building our own right? :) 

    @SadieC20 our LO would not sleep in his crib either. He'd wake up within 15 minutes. (Slept in his car seat for forever). We started putting him in there to play with a mobile and eventually he started sleeping there. But we weren't sleeping with him so it was probably a bit easier for us to let him graduate on his own. Hang in there! 

    @Armfruit  Congrats on the move! Happy decorating. We love 3M strips if you don't/can't go crazy with nails! 

    What were your successes this week? 

    I lost 2.5 pounds last week at my Friday weigh in. Really hoping to see continued progress. We have a family event in Vegas in Nov and I really want to start seeing results by then. Working out has also helped me be happier. It's been over a week since I've had a "low" day. Getting to have LO at the gymcare or MIL's for just an hour while I work out and focus on me really helps. 

    Also LO cut 3 more teeth (still coming in). He teeths like a champ! No fussiness. Just chews on everything in sight for a week or two before. He has 5 teeth total now! He's also starting to improve more with crawling. He can sometimes get his hips off the floor and every now and then gets his legs under him. Heaven help us. He will master it just in time for our trip next month I'm sure! 

    What was your biggest challenge or struggle this week?

    Trying to not eat too much. We had a family event over the weekend. It was hard to not overindulge in the available sweets. I pretty much have no real sugar in my house. We want to send out Christmas cards this year to family and I'm determined to look better than my current heavier state. 

    What helped save your sanity?

    The gym-- and LO is basically turning into the cutest creature. Also, I invited our neighbor kids over for the week and their mom stayed yesterday and just chatted with me. It was great to get to know her. They're building a house a few cities north so who knows how long they'll be around. :( 

    Topic for the week:  We know moms don't really get sick days. How do you handle being at home with your LO(s) if you're not feeling well? How does your DH/SO help out? What's your plan?

    I rarely get sick, but LO and I had the same cold and every now and then I have back issues. In a perfect world I can send the baby over to MIL's. Last time that didn't work out so I just had to try and sleep when the baby slept, and just take it easy during the day with him. Makes for some doubly miserable days though. In a tough pinch DH could stay home for part of the day if needed.  

    GTKY:  What is the most embarrassing song you could sing all the words to? Your guilty pleasure music? The radio station you only listen to when you're alone in the car?

    Hmm. Not sure but Avril Lavigne's "Girlfriend" Album. I know all the lyrics of every song by heart and could totally blast that. I grew up fairly conservative with music so when that came out during my "rebel" college days, it was my rock out gym/anti boy music. 

  • A huge thanks to @ShellBell3845 !

    I read all of these and sadly don't have time to respond to everyone, but a couple things I really wanted to comment on.

    1. ShellBell- great TOTW!  I've been wondering this as DH has a man cold and took a half day yesterday and went in 2 hours late today.  I know I'm next and will not be able to take time to rest.

    2. @bookshelves  how did meeting with the LC go?  Please keep us updated on this and how things are going with H.

    3. @Buffaluffagus : Would love a link to the blog if it's not too personal. 

    Ok, heading now to try to start this week's check in if LO cooperates. 

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