TTC after 35

dipping my toe in...an intro (loss and rainbow mentioned)

Hi ladies! I have been lurking for a while and am feeling ready to intro seeing what a warm and supportive group you all are!

A little background, I am 37 and DH is 45. We met 12 years ago, been married 6 years. I have two step sons ages 16 and 13. DH and I have a 3.5 year old together.

We initially thought we were done having children but here lately we are talking about having one more. I am so excited and nervous all at the same time.

I'm not sure how it will go this time now that I'm AMA (don't you just love that *eye roll*). In the past getting pregnant wasn't the issue but staying pregnant proved a challenge. After four losses we saw an RE who diagnosed my blood clotting issues, prescribed a twice daily injected blood thinner, and we were blessed with our DS.

I was pretty active on TB previously and am looking forward to getting to know you all and hopefully get to support you on your journey as well.

A little about me:
I live in CO
I love wine (and beer too!)
I have a wiener dog fur baby
I love being outside
I wish I lived closer to the ocean

As an after thought I sincerely hope that I didn't upset/put anyone off by saying getting pregnant wasn't an issue for us historically. I know so many who are trying so hard just to get pregnant. I don't want to be insensitive and that's another reason I waited so long to intro.
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Re: dipping my toe in...an intro (loss and rainbow mentioned)

  • Welcome to the board! I don't think anyone will be offended by that. We're a pretty calm group (it's the maturity :) )
    TTCAL January Siggy Challenge: Animals in the Snow

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    About Me: 

    AMA 35 :  DH 33
    BFP#1 1/26/14 (EDD: 10/7/14).  MMC 3/10/14 D&C 3/14/14
    RE Consult 11/3/14 - AMH 2.25 "great" . FSH 7.10 . Low Vitamin D
    Myomectomy 12/17/14.  Benched until March.

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  • Welcome, my H and are are the same ages!
    Me: 37                                               
    DH: 45
    BFP #1 3/19/14  EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
    BFP #2  12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
    Saw heartbeat 12/29.  Please be a rainbow.
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  • Hi and welcome. Best wishes TTC.
     I'll be 37 at the end of the year, when hopefully we'll be TTC #3. At the moment we're benched for health reasons.
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  • Welcome and good luck! This is a great group of ladies!

    Me: 35 DH: 41

    DS:  12/25/2008

    DD:  04/06/2010

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  • Welcome and good luck! We are the same age!


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      "It is better to light a candle than curse the darkness." - Eleanor Roosevelt


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  • Hi and welcome! I love wine...and beer...too ;) good luck to you!
    36, DH 31 TTC #1 since we got married, July 2014. http://FertilityFriend.com/home/522fa4/
  • Welcome! I've found this group to be super supportive and helpful so far -- but I do hope your stay is short! Good luck!

    (I am also a wine lover, and have recently taken an interest in beer as well!)

     Me: 35, He: 41. Baby #1!

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  • Welcome! I'm also trying to add to my family - I thought I was done, but life had other plans.   :-?
  • Welcome. Our group is wonderful!!!!
    I hope you fit nicely in our crew.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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    All welcome

  • Welcome! Good luck!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Welcome and good luck!  Your intro is fine and it seems silly, but AMA, even by a few years changes our bodies more than you would think.  Hopefully you will have the same success this time around as you did with your DS.
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    Me 36 DH 39

    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • Welcome!
    me:41   dh:43 
    Off Mirena Nov 2013, On Nuvaring end of Jan, Back off Sept 2014.  Never ending cycle starting end of Sept... 
    11/14 Provera failed... cycle continues 
    12/14 High FSH (57 "midcycle")  OBGYN had no clue... about anything 
    01/15 More lab results coming back from RE. U/S showed small (1")cyst on left ovary, thin lining, and couldn't locate right ovary so  possibly straight to DE and IVF 

    Occassionally mess with the chart below to see "what if" and learn (not to make it pretty but because FF stays drunk with me).  

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  • Welcome and good luck! Fellow wine lover here (if you couldn't tell by the screen name)
  • Welcome and good luck!
    *****Signature/Ticker Warning******

    Me: 41, DH: 45
    DD, 6/15/2013
    TTC #2 beginning January 2014
    AMH 1.05; FSH range 7-11

    July 2014: IUI #1.  Follistim + Pregnyl.  2 follicles--BFN
    September 2014: IUI #2.  Follistim + Pregnyl + Ganirelix + Crinone.  4(?) follicles--BFN
    October 2014: IUI #3.  More Follistim + More Ganirelix + Pregnyl + Crinone.  4 follicles--BFP!  Beta #1=10 Beta #2=33 Beta #3=97 Beta #4=158.  M/C 11/1/14
    December 2014: IVF #1.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  9R, 9M, 9F.  3 5-day blasts transferred 12/15. BFFN.
    April 2015: IVF #2.  Microdose Lupron protocol.  16R, 15M, 12F. Transferred 2 5-day blasts 4/12 and froze 4--BFP!  M/C 5/25/15
    August 2015: IVF #3.  14R, 13M, 11F.  Froze 5 blasts for CCS testing.  3 normals.  FET planned for 10/2015.



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  • welcome and yay another Coloradoan!
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  • Good luck to you, welcome!
  • Welcome and good luck to you!
    Me 41  DH 33  Married 09/03/2011
    DD1  EDD 08/18/01, born 08/03/2001 ~ 9lbs 10oz, 21.5 in
    DS1  EDD 4/30/2004, born 05/04/2004 ~ 10lbs, 22 in
    mc 02/14/12 @ 5 weeks
    DD2  EDD 12/25/12, born 12/30/12 ~ 10lbs 11oz, 21.25 in
    mc 12/05/15 @ 12 weeks
    Cautiously expecting 12/02/16



  • Hi!
    TTC#1, I'm 37, DH 36 | Just started trying Sept 2014
    Going in for first RE appt. in October...Preparing for good or bad news. 
    Trying to be chill about the process...and not get too intense about it all. 
    It's hard to be chill. 

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  • Welcome! This group is so wonderful and supportive
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



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  • Welcome and best wishes!
  • Thanks for the welcome Ladies. Sorry for the delayed response. We just bought our first house :-) and moved in this week so it's been a little busy. I'm looking forward to getting to know you.
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  • Welcome! I'm in NH, but I love Colorado! I have family there and try to make it out 1-2x a year. I strategically visit in the winter so that I can ski, you have the best snow! Lol
  • Welcome!

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    Me 38   DH 34
    married 05-21-11 
    started TTC right away






    BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14 
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