New to the group!

Mommytoacupcake

Hi ladies,

Just wanted to introduce myself to you all. I am looking forward to having some support and a place to support others during such a difficult time. I am 31, my husband is 35. We have a wonderful DD and are TTC #2. We recently got some very sad news that my husband has low sperm count and severely low morphology (1% normal). My dr told me we have less than 1% chance of natural conception. That hurt. I feel devastated. My hubby is hurting and feeling so much guilt, wish I could lift that for him. This has been such a rollercoaster. I know you ladies will understand the mixed feelings I'm holding -- so thankful for my girl, but dreaming of a sibling and a bigger family. Sometimes I feel guilty, since I feel blessed already with my DD. We have an RE and urology consult coming up in the next month and I'm just praying hard for us and for you all. Thank you for listening tonight.

Steph1673

Welcome and I hope you get some positive news and/or a clear plan from your consults. 

How old is DD? How long have you been TTC#2?

Mommytoacupcake

Thank you so much. Feeling overwhelmed with the RE visit and all ahead of us but trying to stay positive My DD is 18m, we have been TTC 11months. We conceived DD after just 4 months with no assistance and not long ago either which feels even more confusing. We hoped so much for an 18m age gap bc we would love to even have 3 children if we are that blessed! My OBGYN initiated my testing at 9 months and when my results came back normal she referred my husband for SA.

pettycrocker

Hello, you might want to check out the Trouble Trying for a Sibling board, that might be a better fit for you at this stage. Good luck. 

Mommytoacupcake

Just checked...I think you're right! Thanks ladies!