Late Term and Child Loss
PolishsGirl
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PolishsGirl
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I havent been on the bump since my first pregnancy back in 2010. We have a 3 year old boy and we are thankful for that.
Over the course of just a little over the last year we have had 3 m/c. The first one was discovered in August 2013 during a dating u/s at 10wks and I found out that our LO had stopped growing 3 weeks prior. Our second one was in December 2013. Found out via u/s again at 8wks that again around 7wks the baby stopped growing and no HB.
Our most recent loss was just a couple of weeks ago. I had some spotting/blood on TP when I wiped and this was at 7wks again. So I called the triage nurse and was told to go into the ER and be seen. U/S showed no hb again.
Each time I had a d&c. Most recent one being on Monday.
DH has been amazing and incredibly supportive throughout all of this. But I need someplace to be able to go where others who truly understand what it is like, since men and women deal with and process differently. The plan is to look at and discuss our options as far as how in depth we want to delve into why this keeps happening, per my Dr. as we have had 3 consecutive losses after a live birth.
I am SO conflicted on what we do after my follow up appointment in regards to TTC. We want another LO, but we also want to see if there is a reason behind why this keeps happening other than a "fluke" thing. And I'm not entirely sure I can handle another loss.
Sorry it got so long.....
Over the course of just a little over the last year we have had 3 m/c. The first one was discovered in August 2013 during a dating u/s at 10wks and I found out that our LO had stopped growing 3 weeks prior. Our second one was in December 2013. Found out via u/s again at 8wks that again around 7wks the baby stopped growing and no HB.
Our most recent loss was just a couple of weeks ago. I had some spotting/blood on TP when I wiped and this was at 7wks again. So I called the triage nurse and was told to go into the ER and be seen. U/S showed no hb again.
Each time I had a d&c. Most recent one being on Monday.
DH has been amazing and incredibly supportive throughout all of this. But I need someplace to be able to go where others who truly understand what it is like, since men and women deal with and process differently. The plan is to look at and discuss our options as far as how in depth we want to delve into why this keeps happening, per my Dr. as we have had 3 consecutive losses after a live birth.
I am SO conflicted on what we do after my follow up appointment in regards to TTC. We want another LO, but we also want to see if there is a reason behind why this keeps happening other than a "fluke" thing. And I'm not entirely sure I can handle another loss.
Sorry it got so long.....
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