I had my laparoscopy yesterday morning to remove a chocolate cyst on my left ovary. My RE who was also the surgeon said he was expecting to find some endometriosis. After the surgery he said the cyst was a lot bigger than he originally expected. My ovary was also tripled in size. He removed that cyst and found a lot of endo. He removed all of what he could and actually found an unexpected cyst on the right ovary and he removed that as well. He wants to go over in more detail everything that went down in a week for my 7 day follow up. The first night was pretty crappy. I felt like I had this stupidly full bladder and I could not releive it. I finally was able to go and feel tons better. The gas is very uncomfortable and I can't believe how sore I feel. I wasn't expecting it to be so painful. My husband has been amazing trying so hard to take care of me and he has a terrible cold and I really don't want him around me I def don't want to catch it so really he can't do too much I feel so terrible. And then to top it all off we got the call we were hoping would happen much later on. The hubs got hurt in the marines he has had two knee surgeries and still needs a shoulder surgery and an elbow surgery. He is being forced out of the marines and we got the call this morning they have the finding of his disability in. They were really trying to get us to come in today. They like both parties to be there to ask questions. But I really don't want to be too far away from the potty at any time just yet. The hubs did finally talk them into meeting on Monday and he is worried sick. I hate this I hate that he has to go thru this. He is terrified they are going to tell him he is too "disabled" to work and we have to rely on VA and disability for the rest of his life. And frankly I have no real skill for us to fall back on I am a florist it's all I have done and know how to do. And we don't make much money. And to too it off I still have to get a bunch more tests done one my thyroid and have the growth in it biopsied and removed. I have no clue how to handle the stress or how to make my husband feel better. =[ My RE also recommended that we get to the baby making soon Because the endo has the tendency to come back and so do those cysts if we wait too long I will be back in the same boat and have to have an other lap to remove the crud in order to make it habitable. I still haven't told this to my husband I don't want to stress him out even more I don't know what to do. Feels like we are drowning in all this stress. This month is our anniversary it should be this stressful and unhappy.