Pregnant after 35

HVAC at 44 years old. Anyone?

I'm 43 and 7 weeks along with my second. My first child, 5 years ago, ended in a cesarean, which was devastating for me. Anyone have experience with VBAC at this age? Or HVAC? I fear entering a birthing center will most certainly end in surgery. I'm an RN and fully aware of the risks involved. But I'd love some first-hand wisdom.
Thanks so much.

Re: HVAC at 44 years old. Anyone?

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  • ryemoryemo member
    edited October 2014
    Come over to the natural birth board! Go to your local ICAN meeting. I think an HBAC is your best choice if you're up for it. I see women give birth at your age all the time (I'm a doula and student midwife) but some OBs will freak out over it unnecessarily.
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  • I had a VBAC at age 38. I am a RN as well. I just chose to delay my arrival to the hospital as long as possible, tried natural labor for as long as possible and ended up with a healthy baby. My OB was a huge reason that my birth plan worked. I think as long as you've got the right medical team in place, you should be okay. Congrats!
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  • What is an HVAC?
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  • Just an anecdote. My grandmother married at 39yo and had a VBAC in her 40s in the 1940s. It can def be done :-) depending on baby cooperation! Pretty sure she was in the hospital with all of hers...
    Do your research, make informed choices, good luck! :-)
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