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To all who have suffered losses (loss mentioned)

It's October, which means it is Pregnancy & Infant loss Awareness Month.

2 years ago today was the E.D.D. of my little angel, which I lost at 8w6d in March 2012.

I want to send out a big hug to all of you who are remembering your angels this month. Not that we would ever forget.

This quote below in the picture makes me think of all of use here on 3T 
 - including those who haven't had a loss because the whole reason we're all fighting IF is because of the love we want to share!


Please feel free to talk about your angels or post anything you think will inspire us all here at 3T. 

I love you all @ 3T!!
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Re: To all who have suffered losses (loss mentioned)

  • @SweetieShellieH I'm so sorry for your loss.  Big hugs to you. 

    It will actually be two years March 14th that I lost my baby at 7 weeks.  That was the hardest thing I had to go through..still hard to bear at times.  I think about my little angel every day...

    That is a beautiful quote...thank you for sharing it. :)

  • I'm sorry for your loss, and also everyone else who have suffered a loss.  

    TTC #1

    Me: AMA, DH: MFI

    Official DX - MFI due to Hemochromatosis

    IVF #1 Nov. 2014 - ER 11/10 (10R 6M 6F) - ET 11/13 

    3DT of 3 embies - no frosties - CP = BFFN!!!!

    ****All Welcome****


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  • I love that quote.

    Have you heard of Capture Your Grief? It's a photo project for the month of October. A lot of the ladies on TTCAL are participating or have participated in the past. You can read about it here:

    ((hugs)) to those who need them.


    TTC since July 2012 
    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

    Blogging to stay sane

    [Deleted User]MyFirstRaspberrymegrae12
  • I second @iputketchuponketchup. I may not have been in this position, but I feel for and am here for each and every one of you. I'm not as funny as Ketchup, but I'm a good listener  :)  


    Me: 28  MH:35

    Married September 2012. TTC since September 2013

    June 2014 - Dx w/ significant PCOS and referred to RE.

    July/August 2014 - Testing complete: Testosterone & AMH very high, FSH slightly high, Vitamin D low, tubes and lining all lovely. DH SA: A+

    Cycle 1 (Nov 2014): 2.5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI = BFN

    Cycle 2 (Dec 2014): 5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN

    Cycle 3 (Jan 2015): 5mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN

    WTF consult scheduled for 1/29

    mmmKayy[Deleted User]
  • @Fightersince83

    Your tat... Wow. The word that comes to my mind is powerful.

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    TTC #1 since June 2012
    Current Status:  IVF with ICSI and PGS
    Genetic, RPL, SA and Fertility testing = Normal/Good
        HSG = All Clear
    BFP #1 12.30.2012  ||  Blighted Ovum 02.05.2013  ||  D&C 02.11.2013
    BFP #2 09.10.2013  ||  c/p 09.12.2013

    BFP #3 12.1.2013  ||  mm/c  01.15.14  ||  D&C 01.21.14  chromosome abnormality
    May 2014:  Residual HCG and retained tissue found
    05.13.2014:  Hysteroscopy D&C to find and remove retained tissue
    June 2014:  Tissue sample results indicate a partial molar pregnancy
    May - Aug 2014:   TTA for monitoring and testing
    08.21.2014:  Hysteroscopy to remove minor scar tissue - the result of 3 D&Cs
    Sept/Oct: IUI #1  Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN
    Oct/Nov: IUI #2  Femara + Ovidrel = BFN
    Nov/Dec: IUI #3  Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN

    My Ovulation Chart  || *~*~All AL Welcome~*~* ||  DIY Blog

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    BethKate2[Deleted User]
  • We just suffered our loss in July and have kept it private. We are hoping to find the courage to be more vocal and share our experience with both loss and IF. I feel like I should do something.
    Married 06.30.2012
    TTC 10.01.2012
    BFP 06.04.2014  EDD 02.13.2015  D&C 07.25.2014

    photo February4_zps0abb1614.jpg
    RE Consult Results
    Me: 32, PCOS, Hypothyroid, HSG All Clear
    DH: 33, Low Morph (2.5%)
    11.2014 (Letrozole+IUI+Progesterone)=?

  • I'm sorry for yours and everyone else's loss. The quote is beautiful.

    Next month on the 25th marks our 1 year loss milestone. I can't believe its been that long already.

    (Hugs) to all those that need them.
    **********SIGGY/TICKER WARNING**********


    TTC since 04/12
    Me- 26 PCOS
    DH- 28 MFI
    10/13 IUI #1 (1 follie)- BFP!
    11/13 M/C @9 wk due to tetraploidy, one little boy in heaven
    01/14 IUI#2 (1 follie) BFN
    02/14 IUI #3 (3 follies) BFN
    03/14 IUI #4 (2 follies) BFN
    05/14 IVF/ICSI #1 CXL
    07/14 IVF/ICSI #1.2 6R, 6M, 5F, 2T, 2 frosties!
    Transferred 2-5dt  CP
    09/14 FET #1 BFP! Beta #1 52 Beta #2 152!
    10/20/14- It's TWINS!

    1/15- TEAM PURPLE!
    BabyFruit Ticker
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Like a few others, I have not experience a loss, but I want to share my support with you all.  Your strength is amazing, and when you feel that strength wavering please now I, and everyone else, are here for you.  Never hesitate to ask for help. 

    Sending hugs, thoughts and prayers to you all.

    Me: 31 (PCOS) possible right tube issues DH: 36 (SA normal) 
    Started dating in 2006, Married 2012 
    TTC since November 2013 
    First RE visit due to irregular periods: June 2014
    Lap/Hysto to remove polyps, cyst and tube blockage 11/6
    Cycle 1 (Dec. 2014) TI with Clomid, Trigger, & Progesterone CX due to no response
    Impatiently Waiting CD1 to try again with Fermara Back on the bench due to giant cyst,
    who know I'd ovulate on my own after a cancelled cycle and end up with a mega cyst :(
    All Welcome
  • That quote is beautiful!

    Our first BFP (and only BFP) would have been due 10/20/14. I had a CP / loss at 5w3d and I was in a really bad place for the following weeks. The ladies over at TTCAL really helped me and now you ladies are awesome in helping me with the IF struggles... and knowing we aren't alone in this. Big hugs to all that need them!
    BabyFruit Ticker
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  • Reading your stories I'm at a loss for words.  Please know that you are all in my t&p.  

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  • @amylev80 I'm so sorry for the constant reminder and pain that you are going through! I'm glad that you say it's getting a little better but I hope you are able to find more peace, or an alternative to that painful work place.

    The picture of you crying each day when you finally get a moment alone on your commute really struck me with how much pain loss creates.

    As much as it is scary and frustrating never to have had a BFP after all these years, I do remember to be thankful that we have not experienced loss. I pray that all of 3T's future pregnancies are healthy and lead to healthy take-home babies!
    January 3T Siggy Challenge - New Year's Resolutions

    Me (29), DH (30) TTC actively 54 55+ cycles | All BFNs
    MFI (low everything) | Endo Stage 1 & Stenotic Cervix (treated) | PCO
    Married - July 2008 | Started TTC - Jan 2009RE Visit #1 - Mar 2014 
    IUI #1 ICI #1 - June | IUI #1.1 Laparoscopy - Aug
    IUIs #1.2, 2, 3 - Sept, Oct, Nov (Letrozole) - BFNs 
    IUI #4 - Dec (Bravelle) | IUI #5 - Dec/Jan (Bravelle) - 5 follies + TI - BFNs
    IUI #5.1 - Jan (Bravelle) Cancelled 
    Planning to start IVF in March!
    ***All Welcome***
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