Trouble TTC a Sibling

AL Check-In (October 2)

Good morning ladies. I'm afraid I have to post and run today as I have a 1/2 work day and then a pretty busy afternoon at home. I hope to catch up with you tomorrow.

Welcome to the TTFAS AL check-in. This check-in is for TTCAL-ers with living children to talk about the issues about TTCAL while you have a living child. Living children and pictures of living children are welcome here, however if your pictured child is an infant (< a year old), please do place a warning at the beginning of your post to alert ladies who are having a hard day.  Please remember to post an intro on the main board as we are all here to TTC a sibling!


All are welcome to join us!
 Please give us an intro with the following information if you wish: name(s)/age(s) of your child(ren), EDD(s) and where you are in your TTC journey.

If you get a BFP please send
@Nieko0423 a private PM so I can add you to our graduates list.


Current Member List:

@ambmama – Taylor: almost 2; EDDs: 10/25/14, 2/17/15

@angie9661 – Charlee: almost 3;

@bearfootz – DS & DD: 5 years; EDDs 6/7/2013

@BethAndBen – DD: 2 years; EDDs: 4/1/15                                                                         

@BLuvsE – DS: 2 years; EDDs: 12/8/2014

@BookishMomma – Liam: 3 years; EDDs: 7/29/14, 9/7/14, 12/5/14

@BootsOrHearts – Baby Boots: 10 months; EDDs 10/6/12, 10/29/13

@centralperk – DS:16 months; EDDs 2/16/13, 5/1/15

@CheesyPeas – DS: almost 3; EDDs: 6/15/11, 10/23/14

@Cheetara2 – Z: almost 2; EDDs: 3/11/14

@ellebelle2384 – Sophia: 2.5 years; EDDs: 10/21/11, 10/13/14, 1/9/15, 3/8/15

@Frenteachermama – DD: 6 years, DD: 3 years; EDDs: 3/30/2014

@gothefawktosleep – Evelyn: 2 years; 4/2/12, 3/26/15

@ksimo6 – Matilda: almost 2; EDDs: July 2013, Sept 2014

@LauraO11 – DD: 2 years; EDDs: 9/29/14, 3/28/15

@lhoweth – DS: 4.5 years, DS: 2.5;

@mattsgirl2004 – Keaton: 15 years, Emmie: 5 months; 4 Angel Babies

@Missa_g - Twin DSs: 2 years; EDDs: 9/10/11, 8/8/14

@mrandmrsk91011 – DD: 16 months; EDDs: 1/22/2014

@Nieko0423 – Harley: 18 months; EDDs: 9/15/14, 3/11/15

@PGwithNo3 – Twins DD/DS: 5 years;

@PrincessPetunias – DD: 2 years; EDDs: 11/3/14

@sarcaztic10 - DS: 4 years; EDDS: 11/28/13, 2/8/14, 11/17/14

@SassFrass – DD: 5 years; EDDs 6/18/14

@squirmworms – DD: 14 months; 6 Angel Babies                                                                             

@sunflwra – Brynn: 2.5 years; EDDS: 4/2/14, 11/28/14                                                                   

@TMaggie0424 – DD: 2 years; EDDs: 4/26/10, 3/28/15

 

Just as a side note, those who do not have an EDD listed it is because it was not posted in your intro or on your siggy. As each of our angels dates are important to each of us I did not want to “guesstimate” and post inaccurate information. If you wish to keep it unlisted that is fine, just keep us updated if a particular anniversary is coming up so we can all send extra love your way.

 

How are all you ladies doing this week?

QOTW: If you never had to do one chore ever again, what would it be?

BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

My Chart

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All are Welcome!

Re: AL Check-In (October 2)

  • I am on CD2 today. We found out last week that there is a lot of uncertainty with my work right now and I have been going on the impression that TTC will have to continue to wait. DH has other thoughts as he wants to try despite the uncertainty. We have some conversations that need to take place over the next week before I can officially stay on the bench or burn it. Either way, medically, I'm clear to burn the bench!

    Hugs to any ladies who need it this week!

    QOTW: I would never sweep floors. Not that it is tough, I just hate picking everything up first to do it. I know I'm lazy! lol

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

    My Chart

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    All are Welcome!

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  • ksimo6ksimo6 member
    edited October 2014
    Sorry ladies!  i thoght I was in my birth month forum.  I didn't not intend to hurt anyone here.  My apologies.   
    • Married 6/1/2012
    • BFP #1 - 11/17/2012 -  MC 12/10/2012
    • BFP #2 - 2/12/2013 - EDD 10/17/2013 - DD Born 10/10/2013
    • BFP #3 - 1/29/2014 - Ectopic pregnancy discovered 1/31/2014
    • BFP #4 - 9/28/2014 - EDD 6/4/2015 - DS Born 5/31/2015


  • Good morning, CD 10 here. Having a blood draw on Saturday, FX my level is very close to 0. Once it is I can get the RLP done. I haven't talked to my RE but I'm not sure if we are going to prevent or not this cycle. I feel like it has always taken us numerous cycles to conceive anyway so why bother.

    QOTW: I would love to never pick up toys again.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • This will be a P&R because I'm headed out of town for a long weekend away with DH. We'll be in the north woods and I'm hoping the fall colors will be at their peak. 

    I'm CD10 today. This is our first active TTC cycle since March, so wish us luck! I'll be bringing OPKS with me, but leaving the thermometer at home so as not to stress too much.

    QOTW: laundry. Ugh.
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
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  • @Nieko0423 - Sorry for the uncertainty with work.  I hope you can figure things out with your H and the timing works out for you.  Yay for being medically cleared though!

    @ksimo6 - Congrats but who are you?? I don’t think you’ve checked in on this check in before and as it says at the top PM the check-in leader with your BFP.  Some ladies are dealing with some tough stuff right now and I would hate to see them hurt by a drive by BFP.

    @nara005 - So many many hugs to you.  Thinking of you!

    @BookishMomma - FX for you!!  Hoping the long weekend away is good luck! :)

    @mrandmrsk91011 - FX for your H at the open hire event!  And yay for running/walking!

    AFM: October will be a tough month with my first EDD of the year and no chance of being pregnant for it.  But we decided once AF comes we’re going to start trying so that is good at least!  And training for my half-marathon is going really well.  I can’t believe it’s in 2.5 weeks!

    QOTW: LAUNDRY.
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

  • We are back on the bench for at least the next 8 weeks.  But this is a good thing.  We saw the new RE and we are going to try something totally different and unconventional.  It is a mix of vitamins and other meds to 'clean up' my immune system.  I have some sort of chronic inflammation, clotting issues, and hormone defect.  So we are going to work on making me better and then we can try again.

    QOTW:  Cleaning bathrooms.
  • Hey ladies! Not much new, CD13 and I think O is on the way, my temps are a mess though because my kid wakes up so much in the night I don't get good interrupted sleep. :-|
    **Warning: Losses and living child mentioned**
    BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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    January PAL Siggy Challenge: Good Advice
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  • Yes, thanks for that ksimo6, just what I needed to see today. Had my SHG this afternoon and they weren't even able to get all the fluid into my uterus due to a large fibroid putting pressure on the catheter. The OB believes it's the cause of my losses, so relieved for hat, but apprehensive about what they are going to do about it. So many mixed feelings!

    DD 15.07.2012

    BFP #2 01.18.2014, MMC 04.10.2014 15w5d

    BFP #3 07.18.2014, MC 07.31.2014 5w6d

    DX: RPL due to submucosal uterine fibroid. Hysteroscopy 12/16. All clear!

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  • Wow, it sure is awesome being blindsided by a BFP in a "safe place" checkin. Congrats, @ksimo6‌, I hope you don't come back.

    I'm alright...tons of ovulation cramps so I guess that's good. Not feeling hopeful at all though.

    QOTW: I hate dishes!
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
    Married 9/22/07, began TTC 8/10
    Diagnosed with DOR, LP defect, mild endometriosis and cysts
    BFP #1 EDD 9/10/11, natural miscarriage at 6w
    BFP #2 Medicated cycle, twin boys born 4/4/12 at 29w4d
    BFP #3 EDD 8/8/14, D&C for missed miscarriage at 8w, baby boy with triploidy
    BFP #4 June 2014 CP
  • @TMaggie0424‌ I'm sorry you're having such a rough birthday. ((Hugs)) I hope your DH and DD give you birthday kisses and cuddles.

    "Love is what makes pain bearable." - I love you my Angels. 
    **All After a Loss Welcome**
    BFP #1: 6/25/09 EDD 2/13/10 @ 6 weeks- Saw HB @ 9 weeks - DS born 2/11/10 (39w5d)
    BFP #2: 2/20/13 EDD 11/4/13 - Saw HB 3/19/13 (7w2d) - MMC discovered 4/13/13 (10w5d) - Est. loss @ 9w3d - D&C 4/14/13
    BFP #3: 12/19/13 (4 w1d) EDD 8/27/14 - 1/1/14 discovered it was ectopic/ tube had burst/ had surgery to remove tube (@ 6 weeks)
    BFP #4: 9/10/14 (3w6d) EDD 5/21/15 - natural MC 9/23/14 @ 5w5d
    BFP #5: 11/23/14 (3w3d) EDD 8/4/15 - Please be our Rainbow!
     

    BabyFruit Ticker


  • **Warning: Losses and living child mentioned**
    BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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    January PAL Siggy Challenge: Good Advice
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  • I forgot the qotw: bills, hate hate hate paying bills even online with bill pay and even when I can afford to pay them!
    **Warning: Losses and living child mentioned**
    BFP#1 1/31/12, EDD 10/6/12 Harrison Gray born sleeping @ 18w6d. You changed our lives little guy.
    BFP#2 EDD 10/29/13, C/P 2/25/13, Bye little Ish, we barely got to know you.
    BFP#3 EDD 12/21/13, Baby Boots born 11/23/13 My rainbow baby!
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    January PAL Siggy Challenge: Good Advice
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  • First and foremost ladies, before I address you all individually, I want to apologize for that blindside post yesterday. I was unaware of the BFP or else I would have addressed it accordingly. So many hugs to those who were hurt by it!

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

    My Chart

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    All are Welcome!

  • @mara005 My fingers are crossed for your blood draw tomorrow!

    @BookishMomma I hope you enjoy your trip and get a +OPK while you are there!

    @mrandmrsk91011 FX and GL to your DH!

    @ellebelle2384 Big hugs that you EDD is coming up. Awesome job on training for a half-marathon! I'm doing a 5K in November and have no motivation to train for it walking or jogging.

    @mattsgirl2004 I am lucky that DH cleans the bathrooms or I'd hate that chore too!

    @squirmworms I'm glad you like the plan your RE is suggesting. I hope the waiting works out when you TTC again!

    @BootsOrHearts I hope your temps are good enough so it tells you if you O!

    @LauraO11 I'm sorry you had a rough time at your SHG, but I hope that your OB can get a plan together for the fibroid so you don't have to go through this again! Let us know what they say.

    @Missa_g FX you have good timing if you are having ovulation cramps.

    @TMaggie0424 Big hugs ladies! I hope you had a good birthday and did something for yourself.

    @gothefawktosleep GL with temping!Also, picking shit up is the reason I hate sweeping. If everything was already off the floor I'd have no problem with sweeping.

    @angie9661 I'm glad you've had a decent week. I hope you have good weather for the birthday party.

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

    My Chart

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    All are Welcome!

  • Oh and an update on me, DH and I continued our talk yesterday and we decided no matter what happens with my job situation we are going to go ahead and TTC. 

    We asked DD last night "do you want mommy and daddy to try for another baby?" and she said "baby". It melted my heart and brought me to tears. Of course we kept asking her afterwards and all she would do is shake her head no. lol

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

    My Chart

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    All are Welcome!

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