Hello! I am new to adoption. H and I have been through IUI, IVF, donors, etc over the past 8 years with no success. We found out we were unable to have children. We had discussed adoption, but hadn't made any decisions whether or not to move forward with it. It has been a little over a year now since our failed IVF, and I had started praying for guidance on whether or not to adopt. Out of the blue, last Monday, a young close relative came to us announcing her pregnancy and asked us to adopt! That couldn't have been a clearer answer to my prayers... This past week has been a roller coaster, but we are very hopeful that this will all work out. The BF is on board with adoption. Our next step is counseling, and talking with friends and family who have also adopted. Suggestions?