Pregnant after a Loss

what's next

I just found out tgat I miscarried my first pregnancy. The doctor said we can start trying again after my levels are 0. I am just wondering about my cycle, does it chanfe based on the miscarriage or does it remain in the same time frame as before (pretty much how do I know when I will ovulate or expect my next period?) I olanned on asking my OB this yesterday but was just so devestated.

Thanks so much still grieving but need to look ahead and hope that next time will be different.
First came love 3-10-00, then came marriage 3-12-10, now we are expecting our first Baby MAY 2015 !!!

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  • Sorry for all the typos my phone is the worst
    First came love 3-10-00, then came marriage 3-12-10, now we are expecting our first Baby MAY 2015 !!!

  • It varies from person to person.

    With my natural miscarriage, the bleeding lasted for about two weeks and was basically like the first day of my period as my actual period showed up about 4wks later.

    I've also had 2 d&c's. My period didn't return until about 50days (6-8wks) after.

    Thankfully, my cycles never really changed, but it is possible that your cycle may shorten or become longer. It's a time will tell thing.

    I'm sorry for your loss ((hugs))

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. With my natural miscarriage, I bled for only a few days and then my period returned about 7 weeks later. As PPs have said, everyone is different. Definitely check-out the miscarriage/loss and TTCAL boards, as the are wonderful resources. ((Hugs))
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  • I'm so very sorry for you loss. I agree with PP that the MC & Loss & TTCAL boards are great sources of info and support. Every woman and every loss is different but this was my personal experience.

    My baby was measuring 6w when they discovered the loss. I opted to take the Cytotec and passed the baby within a few hours. That was Feb 2. I bled like a light period for about a week and a half. I had a follow-up U/S to make sure there was no remaining tissue. Thankfully there was not. I was cleared to TTC AFTER my next period. That next period came on March 12 and fell back in line with what my normal cycles were prior to the loss. 31-34 day cycles and they remained consistent until I conceived a few weeks ago. I borrowed a fertility monitor from a friend & also temped for a few months, thanks to the ladies over in TTCAL.

    I wish you the best of luck with everything. Please keep your spirits up. I know it's easier said than done.
  • I'm sorry for your loss. My cycles were wonky after my losses, but they did eventually even out. Your new normal cycles might be different than before and can change over time.
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss. With my d&c, I got my first period 5 weeks later, and my cycles ranged from 26-33 days, with my ovulation day moving from day 14 to day 19/20 for a few cycles before moving back to ovulating on day 14/15. I highly recommend temping - it taught me so much about my cycle post miscarriage. Hang in there.
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  • A lot of PP have covered it already with 'everyone is different', but just wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss and please check out the TTCAL board. It's honestly the most wonderful place you never want to be. The ladies there are supportive and just incredible. Big ((hugs))
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    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN

    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d 
     
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
  • Thanks ladies there are so many boards I have no idea where to post.
    First came love 3-10-00, then came marriage 3-12-10, now we are expecting our first Baby MAY 2015 !!!

  • So sorry for your loss (hugs) 
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