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CM question

I'm having a hard time deciding how to chart this. When I checked cm earlier I had what I would call a blob of ewcm (if I'm being completely honest and over sharing it looked basically like a glob of gelatin), about the size of a dime or smaller. Everything else was what I would call sticky cm. I took an OPKs this morning and there was barely even a second line, it was a serious squinter. Do I go ahead and chart that as ewcm and just know that it was a fluke thing or just chart it as sticky? I know you're supposed to chart the most fertile cm of the day, but it was so random and it was just that little bit. It's not really a big deal, but I'm just wondering how y'all would chart it.

Started TTC Nov. 2011 

1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


Re: CM question

  • I think I would chart it as EWCM.
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  • Agree. I would call it EWCM.




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  • Oh the ol' blobby jello-like EWCM. Gotta love it. Chart it as such! :)
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  • FF says to always chart you most fertile CM of the day, so go with the EWCM.


     

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    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

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  • That happened to me this cycle - it was just the smalled EWCM, so I charted it as that.  It ended up throwing off my O with FF and it had me with dashed CHs instead of solid lines since the EWCM was so many days before the temp spike.  
    I ended up taking it off so I could have straight lines (cause I'm OCD and I wanted straight lines)
    But I would just chart it as EWCM just so you remember what day it was.  

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  • @creechmommy I like the straight lines too!!!
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  • @CreechMommy, EWCM prior to O gave you dotted CHs? I've never seen FF do that. There have been cycles I've gotten EWCM a week or more before O and still ended up with solid lines. EWCM after O has given me dotted ones before, so I often won't chart any fertile-ish CM after a clear temp shift.


     

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    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

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  • heartbot said:
    Don't let your OPK influence your CM analysis. Some people may have fertile CM for several days, but then only have a small window of a few hours to get a positive OPK, making it easy to get negative OPKs even when you're fertile. A lot of people tend to have better luck with OPKs later in the morning or even early evening, too, so if you're not getting a good read in the morning and you think you're fertile, try again later.

    I'd definitely chart what you had as EWCM, though. Even if it's a one-off, it can be helpful information.

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    Keep in mind that sperm can live in ideal conditions for up to 5 days or so. OPKs don't tend to turn positive until 12-36 hours prior to ovulation. It makes sense that CM would be fertile for at least a few days prior to a +OPK.


     

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    BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

    RE consult: June 2014

    DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

    Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

    November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

    BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15

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  • EWCM!!!! That's what I would put.
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  • Thank you ladies! Just the input I was looking for :-bd

    Started TTC Nov. 2011 

    1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


  • @BethKate2 Yup - Once I took it off, I got solid lines on the same day (Day 17)  that it was showing the dotted lines.  Weird.

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    BFP #1 4-22-14  EDD 1-1-15
    8w u/s 5-22-14 Baby measuring 6w1d. Heartbeat detected
    Went to Dr. 5-30-14 due to bleeding. Prescribed progesterone
    Went to ER 6-1-14 2:30 AM - diagnosed with incomplete m/c
    6-6-14 natural m/c completed
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