The Feel Good Thread

katekat8721

Motherhood can really make you feel like crap sometimes, so let's focus on all the ways that YOU are AWESOME.

Have you reached a goal you didn't think was possible? Tried something new or learned something about yourself? Been able to successfully stand up to annoying advice givers?

Brag about yourself a little here. Tell us (and remind yourself) that even when you're having a rough day, you're still the best mom eva.

Feel free to also add why our other velociraptor mamas are the best!

tbmadeamistake

This is an awesome idea, thanks!

I have managed to get the three of us out of the house everyday to keep my toddler person busy and happy. I am surviving being a SAHM and while I don't love it yet, I don't hate it. I'm slowly winning the battle with my PPD and even on bad days can honestly say that there are good times.

katekat8721

@Lilygrace48 that makes me so happy to hear! I feel like every day I'm getting one step closer to winning the fight. Some days, like last night, are harder than others. But the fight is getting easier and I'm getting stronger.

jacksoha

I love this idea! Thank you!
I've been able to keep up with the house work (like laundry and dishes, my house has never been spotless lol) cook meals, go to the gym a couple times a week and work full time. All while DH is working a full time and a part time job and going to school part time. Whew just typing that out made me tired!
Oh and we've managed to keep lo alive and happy :-)

katekat8721

There are a lot of awesome velociraptor mamas, but @jmar2011 really inspires me. You've been through some hard and scary stuff girl. You are a great mama and P is so lucky to have you. Muah!

Also mad love to my twin mama @CAMag. We're doing it girl. I don't know how, but we're doing it. xo

k2k2tog

I am three weeks into my masters of information and I'm actually feeling like I'll be able to do this! Isabel does so well at daycare and I'm managing to stay on top of my readings. We're slowly settling into a bit of a routine so that Isabel gets all the attention and snuggles she needs, but I get my work done. 

And, I even finally managed to finish the book I've been reading for the past 2 months!

katekat8721

@jacksoha holy crap, that sounds exhausting haha! It sounds like you've found your balance and are able to juggle it all, woohoo! Good for you for taking care of yourself (while also keeping LO alive )

frenchchocolate611

Another shout out to all the twin moms - you all are AMAZING! I cannot imagine having two babies right now (and keeping my sanity), I don't know how you all do it!! You are so inspiring!!

Taymiller

I didn't do anything but had something cool happen. I went to the eye doctor and my eyes have gotten better and the doctor says it is because pregnancy can do crazy things to your eyes. Yay Murphy thanks for making mommy see better!

jacksoha

@katekat8721‌ thanks! It definitely took some juggling but we've finally got something of a rhythm down :-) it also helps that LO is sleeping 8 hours at night!
@CAMag‌ not superheros just taking it day by day :-)
You twin mommas are the superheros in my book! I couldn't imagine two babies right now. Also those of you who aren't sleeping through the night night and still functioning, you guys are amazing! Keep up the good work ladies!

FAWKES81

I'm sending love and awesomeness to all the twin and single mommas.  I admire you all greatly.

I'm proud I've been able to keep up "meals on wheels" to my DH.  He works a 12 hr night shift and is unable to leave the facility. I don't always cook something and bring but at least DH gets to see the LO for a few minutes each night he works.

nunzchucks

I never thought I could handle two kids, but it is happening. We have a good routine down and are finally getting back to doing fun activities for DD. My house isn't falling apart and my marriage is better than ever.

Shout out to @MegK82‌ I think it's amazing that your are handling FOUR kids. You rock!

babygabe614

Even though I'm still struggling overall with my fitness routine, I have made it a point to get a long run in every weekend and it really helps my confidence that I'll get to where I need to be by the time I run my half marathon in a couple months. 

mrscbrad

I've showered and put make up on every day and made it in to work on time.lol. I never thought that would be a win.

kriati03

Agreed with the comments about being super impressed with twin and single mamas!!
I am proud to have begun running again. I am also proud that me and DH have worked together and have a better relationship now than before!

JmeJoLee83

I am proud that I am have kept my little man alive and happy for the past 4 months. I am proud to be a mom!

chloephoebecali

I am proud that I am somehow managing three kids four and under, especially since dd is exceptionally hard and colicky. We get around as well as we can and I rarely depend on help to do what I need to do - food shop, errands, take kids to preschool, pediatrician appointments, etc. 

I'm also proud that I'm still milk/soy/egg/nut free in order to nurse dd. It takes a lot of work, dedication, and planning, but I'm still at it.

I get one day every few weeks that I need to remind myself to keep it together. Otherwise I just laugh at how absurd my days tend to be more often than not. One day I will wish to have it all back. 

coffee89

I've made it to all 4 weeks of lectures for my class that we have had so far and kept up 99% with my homework. I took a 3 and a half year break from college so I was so worried about going back. I have a paper and presentation coming up which is going to bog me down but I'm hopeful I can keep my head up.

I'm also proud of the fact that 90% of the time I am so positive about LO's eating problem. There are a few days I'm crying over diapers, vomit and screaming but mostly I am somehow keeping myself motivated that each day we are closer to an answer. I know one day it will get figured out and I am doing everything I can to keep him comfortable until that day comes. I'm proud I've not given in to my anxiety and let it take over me.

texasmama2014

I finished all my thank you's. Better late than never right?

fsumom

I started essentially nursing when DS was almost 3 months old.  I thought I was going to have to essentially pump but one day he just got it.  He hasn't had a bottle in over a month!