TTC After a Loss

=====Tuesday Crazy Train=====

This is a thread posted daily for any of us who need to get out our frustrations about waiting to O, the 2WW, or vent about our cycles. If you find yourself checking FF obsessively, MF is getting the best of you, or you just want to pee on all things, let it out here!

In order for the conductors to be better able to help you, please make sure you either have a FF chart link in your sig, or make sure you post a link. Don't chart? You should consider it, not only will it give you a lot more insight to your cycles, but conductors will be able to answer a lot of your questions just by looking at your chart! To learn more about charting, check out the charting course that FF offers:https://www.fertilityfriend.com/courses/

The CT is not the place to post a BFP. If you have a "squinter" or if you have a line that appeared after the time frame, please do not post about it here. Take a step back from the board, test again with FMU, and good luck!

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Crazy level from 1-10:

CD/DPO:

Can I just ______ already?!:

Signs/Symptoms:

Explain your Crazy here:


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Re: =====Tuesday Crazy Train=====

  • furrypaws said:
    No crazy here. Still TTA. But just wanted to say hi bug! :x

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  • CD14 with two +OPK's and no crosshairs yet!! Frustrated because DH was in the crappiest mood last night and totally pissed me off. No sex! He knew darn well we had "homework" to do last night.

    Maybe this should go in the Throw Punch section, but I might as well vent here. DH has taken up so much lately, working long shifts, helping his brother fix his truck (he spent 3 hours after work yesterday), and also helping with his mom who has been ill for a while (I totally understand mom is priority).......just feel he is too tired or not in the mood. Cried a bit on my way to work....

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  • @beemaya83‌ that sucks! I'm sorry your DH is being dumb


    AFM:
    Crazy level from 1-10: 4


    CD/DPO: CD 7


    Can I just ______ already?!: start peeing on OPKs


    Signs/Symptoms: too early for O signs


    Explain your Crazy here: I'm just getting antsy to know how this cycle is going to go. As crazy as the 2ww can make me at least I will know at that point that we've done all we can.

    Started TTC Nov. 2011 

    1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d


  • @natalie115 I'm chart stalking.......FX for you this cycle!
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  • beemaya83 said:

    CD14 with two +OPK's and no crosshairs yet!! Frustrated because DH was in the crappiest mood last night and totally pissed me off. No sex! He knew darn well we had "homework" to do last night.

    Maybe this should go in the Throw Punch section, but I might as well vent here. DH has taken up so much lately, working long shifts, helping his brother fix his truck (he spent 3 hours after work yesterday), and also helping with his mom who has been ill for a while (I totally understand mom is priority).......just feel he is too tired or not in the mood. Cried a bit on my way to work....

    Your two + OPKs were on CD12 and CD13 so I would not worry about a lack of CHs at this point. FF needs three days of sustained higher temps to give you CHs - you have one nice spike this AM.

    It also looks like, if yesterday ends up being O day, you have great timing! Remember that you do not have to have sex daily in your fertile week. Sounds like your H has legitimate reasons to be busy. Try not to make having sex be a chore or a duty.

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  • @beemaya83‌ that sucks! I'm sorry your DH is being dumb
    AFM: Crazy level from 1-10: 4
    CD/DPO: CD 7
    Can I just ______ already?!: start peeing on OPKs
    Signs/Symptoms: too early for O signs
    Explain your Crazy here: I'm just getting antsy to know how this cycle is going to go. As crazy as the 2ww can make me at least I will know at that point that we've done all we can.
    Great attitude!  I always found the waiting to O part of my cycle to be worse than the 2WW.  So much stress on the front part of your cycle!

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  • heartbot said:

    Crazy level from 1-10: 4...tipping over into 5 as the day goes on

    CD/DPO: 3 DPO

    Can I just ______ already?!: POAS

    Signs/Symptoms: It's only 3 DPO so pretty sure any symptoms are entirely in my head.

    Explain your Crazy here: We were going to TTC this month, then we weren't, then we were, then we weren't. At the last possible minute, we decided to give it a shot. I'm not entirely positive FF is correct about my O day. We either have a pretty good shot or none at all. It didn't hit me until this morning, though, when FF gave me crosshairs and said our chances were "good" that we were really in this month. Since then, this day has slowed to a crawl, as I'm sure every day will until next Saturday, when I plan to test.

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    I'm just tired of waiting. I know everyone here knows exactly what I'm talking about.

    Based on the info in your chart, your CHs look pretty good. Good luck.

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  • Crazy level from 1-10:  5

    CD/DPO:  27/7

    Can I just ______ already?!: end this waiting

    Signs/Symptoms: none :(

    Explain your Crazy here:This cycle was a bit weird from the beginning. FF have me CH and then moved them 3 days later. My CBFM also never gave me a peak reading so I stopped using it to save those expensive ass sticks. Our timing was okay at best. I have been trying so hard not to get hopeful since every time I do, it ends in disappointment. Just want next week to be here already so I can either get AF or BFP. Since I though timing sucked this cycle the TWW has been going well, but now that there is only 1 week left I am getting antsy. AHHH!

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    TTC since 2012
    BFP#1EDD: 06/21/2014  ~  TFMR --Holoprosencephaly 
    Said goodbye on 2/10/2014 at 21 weeks. We miss our baby girl "J"
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