A mom I know from my mom group has announced today her son has been diagnosed with fetal alcohol effects I think. I know it's thought to be a spectrum now, kind of like autism. I think her pretty brave for putting it out there. Her son has some emotional issues,a long with LD. Her doctor just told her his eye site, where his eyes are located I think, is a sure sign, along with other physical indicators. She was very candid on facebook today. Said she did drink wine before she knew she was pregnant but never drank after 6 weeks. Also, she mentioned something about the father being drunk at conception can cause it as well. Some of my friends are asking her questions like, exactly how much did you drink, are you sure you didn't drink more etc. would you be so brave to announce it? I honestly don't know if I would. I did have an occasional glass of wine while TTC so I can't judge.