I have been lucky to have had 4 mo off with my little one. I going back to work Wednesday and I am an absolute mess. I cry all the time and am so depressed. The thought of missing things and only really seeing my little guy for 5 hrs a day is really hard for me. For mommys who have gone back to work- please reassure me it gets easier. Everyone in my family stayed home with their babies. I am the only one to return to work and use daycare. They try to be understanding but I can tell they just don't get it.
Does the crying ever stop? Any thoughts to make it an easier transition??? Has anyone changed careers after trying to go back to your previous position?
Re: In need of reassurance from working mommies
This time around, it was much easier. It still sucks in general leaving them the first time, but I knew when I saw him once I got home I would be greeted with a huge smile.
Don't kid yourself, it is definitely hard. But you will make it and so will LO and the days will get easier! And I know it may not seem like it, but 5 hours a day is really great. I see my boys for maybe 2 hours total each day mostly thanks to my commute. Just soak up every minute you have with them!
BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d
BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11
BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d
BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13
BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14
As a teacher, I can tell you kids with working parents are just as well off as the ones with Sahms.
You got this mama!
The first few days back I was a super sobber. We use daycare and then my MIL picks him up til we get home. It takes a village--- but he loves being loved on by everyone, so that makes it easier.
Mrs. B's Ovulation Chart
TTC Baby B since 10/2012
BFP#1 12/27/12 II TWIN GIRLS II D&C 2/15/13 TRAP sequence
Clomid + TI + Acupuncture x 2 cycles
BFP#2 9/5/13 II EDD 5/16/14 II Beckett Ryan born May 10, 2014
Thanks everyone! It's nice to know others have been through this and survived
We can do it!!
Month. It goes so fast!
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Happy Endings
I will let you know how tomorrow goes. I appreciate everyone's support!